Fonagy & Tronick – Dr. Craig Childress: Attachment Based “Parental Alienation” (AB-PA)

I want to make a statement to my professional colleagues – clinical psychologists and other mental health professionals – regarding the knowledge needed for professional competence. In every clinical experience I’ve been in, the professional standard of practice expectation is that you know everything there is to know about the pathology, and then you read…
— Read on drcraigchildressblog.com/2019/06/17/fonagy-tronick/

8 Signs You Are Suffering From Narcissistic Abuse | Melanie Tonia Evans | Melanie Tonia Evans

The chemical straight jacket of APA , AMA

insured my voice would never be heard as fact

and he could and would divorce his way , retaining

his sons , his abuses , his character , ignoring

the abuses and trauma of 4 , that he be happy .

He masked that , in the stark reality of what

he united with , his twin , on his level

who was and still is consumed by hatred of me.

I am accused of living in the past that is their

ever present mind set ..

I’m so glad for the upcoming release he demands .

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

These eight signs are VITAL indicators to determine if you’ve been abused by a narcissist. Learn what they are and what you can do about it.
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Money : Narcissist’s License to Abuse

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Money equals power thus abuse whom she/he chooses .

The never ending story , oppressed / oppressor .

Vindictive doesn’t begin to express the cold detachment

acknowledging , an attachment that is never enough .

Fond of saying how cheap or inept our sons are , or I

am, in lieu of his financial manipulations , that always

benefit himself . A gift is anything but …

Money is addiction …a huge one .. worthy of cover ups

that only truth and light , can clarify .

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Children with Attachment Based Narcissistic “Parental Alienation Syndrome”

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the unhealthy coalition between a narcissistic parent and his or her children against the targeted, non-narcissistic, non
— Read on pro.psychcentral.com/recovery-expert/2016/06/children-with-narcissistic-parental-alienation-syndrome/

Should “Parental Alienation” Be Criminalized? | Psychology Today

Yes

There may need to be consequences for a “parentectomy,” but criminalization is not the best route.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inside-the-criminal-mind/201905/should-parental-alienation-be-criminalized

A releasing of what I was not knowing . 2006 Language of Babies

I personally had no idea of these facts , and heard each

sound , and knew it.. Did I then ?

I fought hard , and long to be there for our children .

The effort to just get along was thick with discrimination

like a 1940s , black and white . Nothing about me

had merit , I was a poor house keeper , did not bring

in revenue , but spent , a bookkeepers , accountant mentality

who did not participate in her drama.

I had her property, her creation , and so it was each

son was an asset to carry the family name.

That our sons where experiencing a targeted Mom

did affect them, as judgements , detachment were

normal in the contacts for networking .

So nurture was a sitter, school and tons of

activity and I was so not that.

Shunned doesn’t quite describe my experience

and perhaps I exposed myself , as rejecting it.

However , the professionals were educating

on detached parenting, as in allowing crying

for 15 minutes .

So , yea, I released a lot of regrets for not knowing

and allowing anything or anyone to guide me,

that wisdoms of ancients are best , when in

receiver ship of one’s highest self .

The adverse child experiences thus , come from

not knowing ?

We transcend that by knowing . I released my wounds

to the Universe , so many times and so many ways

I am weak , physically which is normal , in

a world in transition to the natural order

where babies have been coming in with ancient

wisdoms , that need no verbalization.. We are learning

that language, for those who have been induced in

varied mental states , by chemicals , made by

humans who profit on induction , rather that prevention

and cures that in harmony with our individual needs ,

survivors, of all that is dear, children , home, finances

the negative , catastrophic ripple is absorbed in all

of society that accepts this as normal..

As simple as hearing your new born, grasping what

harm is being done , on a soul level, but pushed

by a profession who did not know , or choose

not to know .

A huge question was answered , one I have researched

without success which I will discuss , in depth

ASAP.

This is a delicious Divine gift , my Moon 🌝 is in Taurus

and Mother gave me a huge gift 🎁.

WOW , a great day to receive , and release

as rain lightly sprays my windows like tears from

heaven. 🙏🏼👼🏼👼🏼👼🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️♥️🥰💡

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Universal Sounds Babies Make, 2006

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The song I was listening to on Pandora

Inner Journey – A path of Compassion

-Karunch couldn’t be found .

This is a sample of her Satam Kaur

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Sons of Narcissistic Father’s

Jealous is what I believe drove him to rape

6 days after the birth of child.

Marking his territory ; witnessing a profound

love and attachment .

Having to be told , to pick up his child.

None of this was normal..9 months of

his seething , feeling betrayed ..taking

no joy, only obligation in becoming a Dad

Acknowledging this in recent years , how

much he loves that word , in his mind clears

all of what’s discussed in this video.

Apologies , owing responsibility , healing

are not going to happen; nothing moves him

and that scared me silent ..

I have never ever witness anyone so void , so

self destructive, so holding his trauma .

A feminine version of this showed up for one

last lesson, in his alter masculine/feminine

recently and it was extremely enlightening

to grasp the inner views …

Adult children , witnessed addiction, co-dependency

alcoholic and co -dependence , ignored PTSD in

a highly superior , educated , successful maternal

for whom money is everything . No communication

about these major life efforts ,to her sons , with

holding ..friends instead , walking a fine line

having no support in lieu of a repeated lesson

of exactly the same amount of time.

Hearing this renewal on steroids ,after 6 years

where I would suddenly be blasted with negativity

that was so low energy , I gave er a go.

My reward was the takeaway , Understanding

the detailed thinking , planning , timing in

order to carry out plans , in exiting a current

situation ..Draining , yes .. the dynamics brought

my very essence up for a review by a toxic trauma

laden person , stuck, fear-filled , negative and

projecting .

Hours of phone , getting in a time warp

that I found disgusting , the afternoon came

and it ended .

Trusting in change , for her blueprint , is

close , I took myself out of the equation.

I have been on the receiving end of this

hysteria , shame and blame projected

you’re it, because I say so, from folks

who have no idea of the harm to self

and others . I was that person , medicated

floundering in what I sense ( time has ✅)

how my body, the whole of me responded

in core wounds that were not all mine,

but empathically felt..Add that to generations

of abuse in DNA ..I forgave myself, surrendered

all, and live a quiet peace-love-joy, balanced

life ..

Jealousy for this, not understand the personal

power advantage of being in this place , fears

of the harsh lessons inherit in non supported

states of change , like death .

Reviewing this, intensified this attack on me,

I get that..

I have great empathy and support , and know

what is desired in heart and head and soul

will win out , over who will take care of me.

I was forced to nurture myself .. ongoing , yes

and sacred ..

No one has permission to speak to me , in such

a manner, read my blogs . Bother to hear me

over your own inner voice, speak up at the time

of the infraction I might have made or trigger .

Puking those toxins out , spewing me as a target

give me a pretty good idea , of where your coming

from , but silencing ..and I cannot afford to be

anywhere in that space with anyone .

Ever again

Saying so much about inner thinking , I did

not mourn the failure , or lay in hope

of a reunification .

It is what it is..

I aim higher , shake it off and move forward .

Stirred , Shaken, but moving on..

Resolved to step out of the matrix that allows

one sniff of behaviors to be present ,

20 plus years is quite enough , 42, excessive

but so understood now , in all it’s tentacles

given the tools to rise above .

Gratitude to be on my way..

Sun is Shining , Birds are singing

as I step in to fresh food market day , 1st this

year , intent of bliss , seeing old friends

listening to music , a simple , drama

and abuse free heaven on earth..

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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