Varied ways
Court / Legal
Annulment of Marriage
Embezzled income
Character Assignation
Delight In Living Death of Targeted parent / kid
Tagging ex partner with every negative , taking no responsibility for anything .
Never ever giving up in upholding the distortion , manipulation, continued intimate partner violence.
Ignoring the emotional and physical health of ex and children .
Ignoring the legacy of abuse.
Do they care ?
Yes if it’s in their best interest to
care .
Far too many examples of huge lack of compassion , empathy .
Bet its my fault đ, like everything else
I read this and have to share with everyone- itâs just so good.
âI donât care how spiritual you are. How long you can melt in the sweat lodge. How many peyote or ayahuasca journeys that have blown your mind, how many master plant dietas youâve done, or how well you can hold crow pose. I donât care what planets fall in what houses on your birth chart, or how âsilentâ your meditation is. I donât care how many crystals you have or how long youâve gone without sugar, salt, spices, or sex, or how vegan your diet is.
I want to know how human you are. Can you sit at the feet of the dying despite the discomfort? Can you be with your grief, or mine, without trying to advise, fix or maintain it? I want to know that you can show up at the table no matter how shiny, chakra-aligned, or complete you are- or not. Can you hold loving space for your beloveds in the depths of your own healing without trying to be big?
It doesnât flatter me how many online healing trainings you have, that you live in the desert, forest, or in a log cabin, or that youâve mastered the art of tantra.
What turns me on is busy hands. Planting roots. That despite how tired you are, you make that phone call, you board that plane, you love your children, you feed your family.
I have no interest in how well you can ascend to 5D, astral travel, or have out-of-body sex. I want to see how beautifully you integrate into ordinary reality with your unique magic, how you find beauty and gratitude in whatâs surrounding you, and how present you can be in your relationships. How do you hold the ones you love in the midst of conflict? How do you take responsibility for your part? How do you make amends?
I want to know that you can show up and do the hard and holy things on this gorgeously messy Earth. I want to see that you can be sincere, grounded, and compassionate as equally as you are empowered, fiery, and magnetic. I want to know that even during your achievements, you can step back and be humble enough to still be a student.
Whatâs beautiful and sexy and authentic is how well you can continue to celebrate others no matter how advanced youâve become. Whatâs truly flattering is how much you can give despite how full youâve made yourself. Whatâs honestly valuable is how f***ing better of a human you can be, in a world that is high off of spiritual materialism and jumping the next scapegoat for âfreedom.â
At the end of the day, I donât care how brave you are. How productive, how popular, how enlightened you are. At the end of the day, I want to know that you were kind. That you were real. I want to know that you can step down from the pedestal from time to time to kiss the earth and let your hair get dirty and your feet get muddy, and join the dance with us all.”
Craig Childress PhD should be involved *
The aetiology of a childâs rejection of a parent is determined by the childâs presentation, meaning that the root cause of a childâs rejection, is displayed as markers in the childâs behaviours. A child who is rejecting a parent because of something that a parent has done to them, will do so in an ambivalent [âŚ]
When a Child Rejects a Parent: Practice and Theory with Alienated Children
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