Empathy and Lovers , S.Campbell PhD


Empathetic people are the most beautiful, and oftentimes the most misdirected and abused. Sadly, having a soft heart can get us locked into traumatic love connections where the gift of our empathy works against us. Empathy is something we feel for another person as we try and place ourselves in their shoes. When we are giving this to a manipulator, we are finding empathy and understanding in places that we shouldn’t. We do this because we want to believe people are honest, good, and authentic, so we project these qualities onto our abusers as a way to stay in the relationship and to avoid our own feelings and fears of abandonment. We cannot stand behind ourselves with zero empathy and give it out to those who do not deserve it and make our way into a happy life or relationship. Step back for a minute and ask yourself why are you not being empathetic towards yourself, towards the pain you feel at the hands of the toxic people/person in your life, and giving yourself the sage advice to do better for yourself? We must ask ourselves why it is so foreign to us to take the loving advice we would offer to others in the same position? If we could practice being more empathetic towards ourselves, we would certainly develop a more honest relationship with ourselves, which would lead us more naturally into making healthier decisions when choosing relationships with others because we would never want anyone to hurt in the ways we are hurting.

Web page : Illegal Retaliatory Evictions

Unfortunately, as the ex wife of a landlord

who has distorted everything business , financial

as well as our personal life and certainly with

regard to our 3 sons and 6 grandchildren ( that I know

of) .

His residence to change , his slow and methodical

planning of years , aided by his family whose opinion

of me , was critical from the get go because I didn’t

accept , that I had to wear a fake mask , or hold a man

on high , when he lived in distortion far too much .

Was it my imagination , that I saw higher sides in him

and held faith for his more attached and balanced

mood in consistent growth ? I have realized our family

was a business , his pride at creating 3 sons to carry

his family name 📛📛📛📛📛📛📛📛📛 had nothing to

do with me ..Secrets and untruths have been held

rotting the core of what was , with our son’s and I

and aided by many who agreed to shut me up , has

ultimately failed .

As any professional , dare retaliate in these unique times

of COVID , their boomerangs will be swift …But just in

their very acts , those wormholes are being exposed

and there are no exemptions .

Any professional business who puts folks in jeopardy

in foundational ways to retaliate , repeadly , covering

themselves , taking no responsibility , discriminations ,

failure to comply with code , forced evacuations that

are delicious with over powering abusive energy ,

enjoying the trauma for the recipient to whom

all abuse is projected .

I lived through this, survived this and I KNOW what

this is .

And I know I am called on , and called to aide others

as much as I can . *** new leases have clasuses that

stipulate that they cannot be legally held ” responsible “,

the same language ex used in his divorce , making me

responsible for legal and health , and every freaking

thing negative , as 20 years with yet another who

met him energetically , and delighted in increased

abuse , as did others who joined in family ,

savoring my son’s disposal of me , adding the death

of our son’s mom , was a complete and done deal

and they wanted nothing to do with me .

Shadow of the matriarch , who has ruled with a

vengeance, that negates a peaceful landing upon

exit from this plane of existence .

The choice is his, to liberate himself or stay as is ..

I’ve been long gone, exhumed from the grave , and

the box of Distortion , and my voice is clear and

much needed , plus Spirit is in the house .

My house , and I am , I am home And that’s magnetic

as my tribe awakens and we converge in cosmic

love and joy 💖.

🌟🐺🦕♓☮️🧚

Blessings & Peace

Dona Luna

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Oh Sweet Soul by Matt Kahn

Source: Matt KahnTo round out today’s day of poetry, I’m sharing one I wrote years’ ago as my open letter to the spiritual ego. Both the one I faced in myself and in others. Its incredible how relevant it is in today’s current landscape. May we all learn to lead with love. Connecting instead of correcting. Please enjoy:  

Oh Sweet Soul  Oh sweet soul, who’s learned so muchYour triggers ignited through the words you clutchRehearsals are done, your performance is setTo overemphasize what you’re meant to forgetHow much you’ve survived, you’ve come so farBut correcting others is not who you areYou’re desperate to feed a world with no bowlPlease open your eyes – oh sweet soul Oh sweet soul, who can’t see pastEach aha moment that cannot lastYou’re not in charge of what needs to be knownBut here to inspire throughout actions shownInsight was gathered, you’ve become well-equippedTo notice new patterns, while control still grippedYou’ll encounter so many throughout fate’s playAnd fight for the chance to have your sayIs projecting your ideas a part of the goal?Please think again – oh sweet soul Oh sweet soul, why do you suggestYour concepts to those who act as your testYou’ve looked within and found the DivineClarity kindled, but you’re calling it “Mine”And now you debate to correct who you seeNot seeing your shadow – a spiritual “me”It’s not liberation till you’re free of the thoughtThat forces you to speak just to see where you’re caughtYou say ‘all is one’ like a truth no one knewAnd if there’s only one – who are you speaking to?Intentions are so pure, while blinded by a roleCorrecting all your critics – oh sweet soul Oh sweet soul, it’s time to open upAnd bring forth the love that overflows your cupThere’s much to consider and many to embraceBut no one to correct – no matter who you faceI welcome every judgment, regardless how unclearTo see the one I’m facing and know that God is hereSilence makes one humble and humble helps you seeSince there’s only one, we’re free to disagreeI welcome each projection, as if you know my pathYou need it more than I do to validate your wrathYou’re free to misperceive me and have the final wordI thank you for the practice to let your voice be heardWhy hide from your freedom, just let it takes its tollAnd break apart your certainty – oh sweet soul Oh sweet soul, may you come to realizeYou need not affirm what another one deniesIn a world of so much wisdom, there’s no end to what is trueYou’re free to do your dance and watch what captures youRepeating every concept, as if it meant a thingPerformance never-ending for those who pull your stringAnd even as I say this, you’ll turn it back on meAs if the truth is hidden and only you can seeI love the light within you, thank God it can’t preventA chance to love you deeper despite the package sentPoint out every fragment and misperceive the wholeYour innocence respected – oh sweet soul  Matt Kahn

Yea, though I walk through the shadow of death. Ascending Evoloving after Leaping 2020

“Notice the Feeling of being at a turning point in the nature of our species. Upheavals around you in the economy and elsewhere are symptoms of far deeper evolution.

Visualize shifting from Homo sapiens to Homo luminous, that is, at a cellular level, emerging as beings with ability to Perceive Vibration and Light that creates physical worlds at a much higher level.

See the grid or holodeck of Energy that reveals what is behind what you think.

You are a Wizard projecting from behind your own curtain. Answers to longstanding mysteries of existence are arising like the Phoenix Within.

Evolution is accelerating not between generations,
but within a generation.

This shatters beliefs about how evolution works, Inviting you to question all beliefs and shift attention to deeper, Innate knowing.

Imagine a Biological and Spiritual Quantum Leap in this Life.
The caterpillar does not know what is coming. Trust in the process.”

~ Liara Covert ❤

…“You who have walked the lonely path of Light are soon to be joined by many, many others who will begin to walk their path with you. For every sacrifice you have made for the highest good of all, the Universe is already bringing to you many… wonderful synchronicities, miracles and gifts. All you have to do is open your hearts to receive and be in trust and in joy. Watch for these in your daily living, recognize them, receive them, enjoy them and record them. Soon you will begin to know without a shadow of doubt that you have always been loved and cared for and that you never walk alone.”

  • Master Hilarion

Holding Space December 21st High Vibe

We are alchemizing everything.The energies and the light pouring into our Home, Planet Earth is on a very high level now until the 21st December. Everything is in perfect alignment, it’s so exciting to see everything flowing in breathtaking ways.
An exceptional amount of Light is pouring in from every corner of the world. This is where we do our part and this is our role from within.
Each of us who are aware are being called to go within and use our inner powers, light, magic the best we know how.
Everyone will be feeling this energy, even if they are not aware of what is happening on the Planet. Some will be feeling it physically and others will feel it through their mental self. There is a mass quickening in time and our realities are changing at a very fast rate. 
Your mind and focus is key
You may look at the world and think I have no powers to change it, but you do have an immense amount of powers. You have all the powers in the world to transform Everything you don’t like the look of. This is how powerful your human being and vibration is.
You and you alone have the power to transform every tiny thing inside and around you. This is what we are being called to do in this time and when you use your energy with clear intent, for the better of self and others, everything changes. 
There has been a massive intent to distract our energy, to take away our focus, time, powers. As a collective to move humanity forward into where we were always heading for this magnificent time on Earth.
If your energy is still feeding this old timeline, then I would recommend you to shift your focus onto transmuting what is triggering you and raise your vibration to help transform it. 
You are feeding an energy they want you to feed and this is what they want. It’s time to cut your energy Free and Fly independently with your inner knowingness and deeper awareness of your light and the power it holds for yourself and everything around you.
Their intention will not happen as we as light workers, light beings know who we are and have walked this path for too long to buy into these lower vibrations.
These lower vibrations we are here to witness, feel and to transform. So when you hear or feel the energy of which doesn’t come with good intent/love highest good for self and others, this is where you are being called to transmute the energy for it to be transformed.
As you lead with your inner light with good intent, you will help those lift through your vibration, which is where our Super powers come into play in massive waves helping so many move forward. 
The only way out is to go within and remember every intention you put in will light up many dark areas to Shift massively.
Your mind you have control over and when you decide to put your mind for the greatest good of all, nothing and no one will stop you, nothing will faze or scare you and nothing will distract you with what you came here to do on Earth.
Wherever you are in the world, hold the space for your loved ones, your city, country the world with all your heart that loves and know you are making a massive difference to everything.
We are here to remind ourselves and others, we can’t bring forward how we used to be in the past into the now of future. Old ways won’t open new doors. However, your awareness of your super greatness will create the change you came to bring forward.
You know what to do, so do it and know you are making a huge difference everywhere. 
We are the World, we are the People,we are the ones. 👌💯💞🙏
Georgina Beament  ❤

Winter Solistice Prayer by Mary Saracino

WINTER SOLSTICE PRAYER by Mary Saracino
”Deep night, Dark nightNight of the longest sighSoulful night, Sacred nightNight of the longest dreamsCold night, Holy nightNight of unfurling desiresWomb of the world, Birther of hopeBringer of peace and good willPray, pray for all good thingsThat suffering for all will endThat life will thrive and generosity reignIn the hearts of all humankindThat joy will rise and children will flyOn wings of prosperityOh hear our plea, this silent nightWhen the moon is round in the skyWhen hopes are high and eyes are widewith delight and audacityMay Love prevail tonight, and alwaysLeading us back to our SourceMay we dance with the dark, without hesitation or fearAnd savor her promise of plentyDeep nightDark nightNight of the longest sighMay our weary hearts stay vigilant and receptiveTo all that is loving and dear”-Mary Saracino
Ruth’s Art

Resurrection of Goddess Mother

”I have come to resurrect
the Goddess.

She wasn’t crucified
but she was torn apart.
Forced to bleed and breed against her will,
I can hear her heart beating
even still.

I have come to resurrect
the Queen,
whose throne was thrown
into the sea.
Deep below the blue green,
those waves of triumph gone unseen.

I have come to resurrect
the Girl,
told to hide the light in her eyes
And fire in her soul.
Bought and sold for gold,
though her voice remains,
untamed and bold.

I have come to resurrect
the Mother.

Wise lines around her eyes
from all the smiles and cries,
wondering if her newborn daughter
would ever look upon her father.

I have come to resurrect
the Goddess.
She wasn’t crucified
but she was torn apart.
She will rise from beneath
the great stones,
skin and bones,
with light in her eyes and a flaming heart.

Jewels Ahl

Painting by Elisabeth Slettnes

Narcissist Never Get Over You…

Seeing through the rage early on, seeing the 3 year old wounded child

that happened to be male , but imbalanced for whatever reason .

The trauma affected the softer , feminine child, molding him towards

an exterior that denied the softness.. Drama was not perceived in the dead

pan delivery in mask , usually attributed to someone else . I became his fix

his target , which he modeled for our 3 sons . He’s still in that mode ,

sadly , regrettably denying any responsibility , contracts that supersede

any written or dictated by human .

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Blessings & Peace

Doña Luna

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