Soul – Delores Cannon

Birth Misconceptions:

Clearing up a common misconception about birth and when the soul enters the body. Many people assume it’s at conception (or when the heart forms) but we have actually found that to be inaccurate.

We have learned via QHHT regressive hypnosis that the soul usually enters the body around the time of first breath. It can enter the body before first birth if it wishes to, but it’s not really an enjoyable experience to be in the womb. (Quite frankly, it’s pretty confining and boring!)

Most bodies are on autopilot (just like they go on autopilot as we sleep) while they’re in the womb. The soul usually waits outside the body, observing its environment and parents. They can also still speak with their soul guides during this time to get extra assistance before they’re born. The soul is welcome to come and go as it pleases, right up until birth. The only prerequisite for birth is that the soul enters the body at first breath, which is when the silver cord must be tethered from the soul to the physical body. Failure to do so will result in a stillbirth. Stillbirths usually happen when a soul has chosen not to enter the body at the last minute, for whatever reason.

Miscarriages are also similar. We have learned that miscarriages usually happen when the soul backs out of the contract it had with that particular body. Often because it wanted to change something about themselves last minute. Perhaps it wanted to change its gender, or appearance, or even just their date of birth, which would change their natal (astrology) chart. When this happens, the same soul will usually return to the same parent(s) at a later date.

It’s also important to note that no soul is lost with an abortion. Souls know very far in advance if a particular body won’t survive long. Abortion is a conscious decision that is respected on the other side. If a woman doesn’t wish to carry the body to full term and plans to abort, then no soul will take the body. It would be completely pointless to do so. Therefore, no soul is lost. It’s just an empty vessel. Abortions are ALWAYS a life lesson for the adults in the equation. – Admin Lara

Grieving is the healing

Healing work is grief work.

Shadow work is grief work.

Grieving is the healing.

Without grieving, we obstruct the flow of the divine intelligence of life that wants to move through us and pull us into deeper alignment with our greatest aliveness.

It’s no small thing.

We are taught to be afraid of our grief because it is wild and untamable.

It reminds us we are in a co-creative relationship with something greater than us, something we cannot control; a higher power that isn’t so petty as to judge us for our human foibles.

In cultures where the wildness is conditioned out of living, where death is feared into an industry, this very necessary and innate aspect of our humanity keeps us from experiencing all that we really long for.

Where there is joy, there is grief.

One of the reasons joy feels so vulnerable, or even opening to love again, is that awareness of the grief that lives inside of it. Inside of our vulnerability, inside our love and attachments, inside the shame (fear and grief) that arises to remind us of the ephemeral nature of all things.

When we embrace the process of grief, we can more fully and fearlessly embrace our joy too.

We also become more skilled at letting go of the things that we need to let go of, that pull us away from love.

We no longer have to wait until we are free of shadow or pain or loss or mourning to get on with our flourishing.

Our joy and flourishing is not a disloyalty to our grief and loss, but an honoring of if, of what was and how we loved.

And, it all has it’s own wise timing that cannot be rushed.

In the myth of the Phoenix, a potent symbol of rebirth, there comes a time in their life where they know it is time to complete a cycle. The phoenix then builds a nest (a funeral pyre) and with a clap of its wings, goes into flames and, perhaps like caterpillar soup, is remade in the alchemy of the fire.

As it rises out the ashes, the ashes left represent salt, or that which cannot be burned, the life force of life itself.


The phoenix uses myrrh to create an egg out of the remains. And, then, takes this egg and leaves it on the alter of the Sun God as an offering and a prayer for creative regeneration, for more life and in gratitude for what was.

In this myth, there is a recognition of death, of a time to complete a cycle. To give something up.

Usually, we experience through loss, the death of a loved one or another initiation of loss.

But we are often also asked to give up our patterns, attachments, beliefs, worldview identities, cultural paradigms, hopes for the future, dreams, longings for what will never be, or even the expertise we cling on to when life wants us to expand into more possibility.

Recognizing this space, the phoenix knows it must sacrfice what is precious in order to generate more life.

It offers the bones, the salt, the life force of life itself, that which cannot ever be destroyed, to the altar of the divine to create more wholeness.

This is our own personal spiral of grief, where we enter the spiral through loss and change, recovery or healing crisis, where we must let go.

Into that fire, we offer what needs to be recycled in order to be reborn into something new. We make a sacred offering of what feels so precious to us in order to receive our wholeness in return.

We learn what our relationship really is with the unknown, what needs to be healed there.

We meet the ache that never goes away, the pain of grief and longing and joy where our wound and Eros, God, dances in our continual becoming.

The more we embrace that this is a natural cycle of humanning, the less we have to “work” on ourselves like projects on a “to do” list, because we come to trust the natural cycles of our soul’s evolution.

In intimacy with the ache, we understand what is needed, what our particular Chironic medicine is cooking up within us, what to leave at the altar of the divine, how to spread flower petals with tears of our prayers and come back into resonance with what can never, ever be destroyed that is always living inside of us.


Art by Kirstin McKinzie

Dr. Mia Hetényi

The Role of Money in Child Psychological Abuse /Alienation

So true !

The last 5 years in family was a freaking Hell on earth and I watched the effects on our sons .

Of course I let him down , not doing my part to keep a house , tend to ALL the things he didn’t and did not serve his personal needs .

Of course knowing ALL he did not educate himself or sons ; excusing my not being with them as my being ” sick ” .

It seemed to be just what he needed ; a ” crazy ” wife , and absolutely no light shown on his abuse , neglect etc . He’s the injured one ; the Victim 💯

Money is his Super Power and he used it against me before and after marriage and still denies he has embezzled my income .

The facts are facts and cannot be denied . A contract handwritten to resolve this with help with a home and purchase of a new SUV was just more of his plot 4 years ago when we signed the lease agreement and I let him , knowing I can and will prove the facts .

Sending him home listings with no reply , he has his form of Justice by my homelessness. And loss of time and property as much more money goes out to accommodate homelessness , challenging health issues , all delight him and he feels proves me to be bad at finances !

Twisted Thinking

Money is weaponized when it comes to our children

That’s why he feels I deserve less because having a home or money would entice male friends and possibly sons to connect with me .

That’s not going to happen .

His ever present greed is revolting , as much as his denial that he is in any way responsible for anything ever .

What part does MONEY play in PARENTAL ALIENATION?

Please see more of my posts on Instagram. I post 2-6 each day to spread awareness about parental alienation, to inform and to uplift. I hope they help.

Money often motivates alienating behaviours. If there’s a personality disorder too, it’s a double whammy. Alienators are controlling, and money is a system of control too. Mind control is subtle, and it coercively nudges and persuades and influences, it changes thoughts and beliefs, but it’s entirely invisible. All anyone might see is the pretence of protection, best intentions, and care while, in truth it’s all about profit and power. Entirely selfish behaviours. This is how governments work too, and a debt-based financial system which is in itself disordered and broken. So, money and alienation often go hand in hand, a nightmare partnership, controlling and manipulating. The child might feel they are acting autonomously. They may believe the ‘grass is greener’ with the alienating parent. They may have been induced with bribes by a ‘Disneyland Parent’. Deep down, the child will know they are being played, but children, especially at a certain stage, are more selfish, and pliable, and try to spread their wings more anyway. But if there were years of a good, loving relationship with you and your alienated child/ren, despite all the rubbish the alienating parent says and does, the love will still exist between you and your child/ren. It may take time, but the relationship can be repaired

Energy Update

By Antonio Arillo

Energy Update by Julie

Multifaceted grid work. I began seeing black nets around the energy fields of certain people and animals a few weeks ago. It was targeting specific areas like the throat chakra or just blocking and harnessing energy flow. These nets were clearable but there was more to it.

Krista Pretty and I worked together on this collective clearing project. Once going deeper into where they originated a blue and white holographic image was found sitting above and around the earth and was connected energetically to the black net web ( this was creating the ones I had been seeing on people and animals) found in the Earth. Both were being signaled from a galactic origin with a red light that was the third area we were sent to. From a previous update I had seen the black energy above the earth and it went into the Earth to hide before being cleared. This set of tech was more sophisticated with the three parts connected.

We started with the blue image and were shown a room with walls but there was something off about it, and it had many layers going out. Once the blue image was cleared we could see behind the walls. There were souls/minions being used to help hold the walls up, there is no actual structure. As this dark energy was removed the walls fell, turning to dusty lava and freeing the souls that were being used.

What we realized was this was causing people to think shadow work was needed but it wasn’t actually shadow causing the disruptions. So, it kept looping back to the same patterns, behaviors, perceived lessons, triggers, ect. because of this tech. Leaving feelings of never being able to find the root causes.

The blue image was used for holding people back by keeping them spinning in circles, procrastinating, having a hard time focusing, throat chakra blocks affecting how we speak and show up, and also affecting the lymphatic system.

The second black net image was attacking lower chakras affecting the nervous system, safety center, fear to move forward with soul missions and projects, relationship conflict, feeling stuck or worried, as well as the ability to ground and feel calm.

The point of origin was attacking the crown chakra and causing a chaos train of spiraling thoughts, head fog, headaches, neck stiffness, constant distractions, confusion, forgetfulness, repeating thought patterns, and affecting the connection to higher self and guides.

This tech as a whole was also interrupting energy flow to the chakras, disrupting the balancing of masculine and feminine energy and contributing to addictions.

Arch Angel Metatron appeared and signaled 3 boxes or sections to transfer the energy and return to source. All were combined and transmuted through a portal.

Once this clearing was complete, the Earth center expanded like a ball of blue electric lightning. This reconnected Earth’s internal core to the external galactic framework, like a nervous system being activated with Golden light anchoring back into Earth.

Dreams have been highlighted with subconscious clearing as well. Galactic history and trauma will now seem clearer and move faster. Themes include grief, guilt, areas where we wish we could have done more, empathy, abandonment, unfairness, and sadness to name a few. Allow the old to just move through you. What we noticed was the things coming up are just waiting for us to let go of the old so more clarity can come in.

People may see a clear difference in connecting with their higher purpose and repairing divine masculine and divine feminine energies in their life and work. For intuitives especially, this will manifest faster spiritual growth (not necessarily easy), new healing methods and more ways to receive information, especially personal galactic history. Many who have been restricted, veiled or hijacked will identify this and begin working their way out, perhaps even public figures. This will also speed up seeing through celebrity-bated social media, seeing where sympathy has been used to fuel greed and seeing where celebrity drama or manipulated narratives distract us.

Waking to the Truth / The Psychological Abuse of the Alienated Child

How does a child cope with ALIENATION from a parent they LOVE?

A child who has been induced into aligning with one parent against another has to survive this trauma however they can. Often they ‘split’ and this is to almost become a different person. It has been described as a ‘false persona’ while the true self is in itself alienated and hidden behind a false facade. This makes it ‘easier’ to cope with having to take on the false persecutory beliefs of the alienating parent who they feel they must align with (to survive). In this way, we could see the child’s anger, criticism, disdain, and rejection of the ‘other’ parent, as coping mechanisms too. They just can’t deal with it all. They’re dealing with coercive control, lies, enmeshment … they have been weaponised against a previously loved parent (they still do love). But at some point, when the child/ren has that ‘lightbulb moment’ and starts to see things different/more independently, it is extraordinarily difficult for them/their ego to accept how they’ve been played. The shame and guilt is huge. The false persona has to be replaced with the true, authentic self. They have to deal with feelings of anger towards the alienating parent, and learn to forgive and understand why they did what they did. They have to find a way to forgive the mental health and legal system that supported their continued alienation from a loving parent – from the healthy-minded parent. This child needs to reconnect, not only with their alienated parent but also their true self who split off in order to cope. This is why the target/alienated parent must do all they can to empower themselves with an understanding of the pathology, and emotional and mental resilience, despite a shocking lack of support out there, and the anti-PA campaigners. Strive to be happy. Stay strong. And please see more of my posts on Instagram. I post 2-6 each day to spread awareness about parental alienation, to inform and to uplift. I hope they help.

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