Divorcing parents who poison children against their former partner could lose custody | The Independent

Plan to aid in making law, certainly to educate .

Divorcing parents could lose custody or be denied contact with their children if they attempt to poison them against their former partner, under the rules of a new pilot scheme. The “groundbreaking” initiative, being trialled by the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass), is designed to tackle the problem officially known as “parental alienation”
— Read on www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/divorce-laws-child-custody-parental-alienation-cafcass-mother-father-a8062941.html

It’s Difficult To Be An Old School Romantic When Your Whole Generation Is Into Hookup Culture

It has always been my intent to have the love

that endured , thru time .. endless love

worthy of trying times and peace that comes

comes from knowing each matters , intimacy

is reality , 2gether in spirit …

1st – 9 months was just walking thru the motions

much like a jail sentence , I felt I had to marry

the boy , who had no idea of who I was, nor himself .

Calling me Spooky , he broke all vows , as well

as abused me .. 9 months was conformation and

affirmation …property I was not ..

I allowed him to charge me with desertion ,

and pushed thru guilt , having lost my virginity

created a compliance to a sex addict/cheater ,

which was known within my siblings

even double dates with brother in his cheating .

Letters , attested to the brotherhood of holding

secrets and lies ..

Uber close to Mother , who was law .. Cold towards

me ..

-2

2-3 Weeks ,

A very cute man, a party in Pungo Beach

brownies and instant like had him ask

me to move in …a soul mate with addictions

going nowhere , allowed me to say No

to moving in and yes to marriage .

It was a situation where he had the upper floor

of a huge home in Norfolk , his Mom

and maid downstairs …he expected I would

work and he could do …whatever .

I returned home, accepted , then broke an

engagement, moved to Richmond’s fan area

briefly, and returned , meeting , and married

within 6 months #3… 24 legal years .

I’m not sure I ever saw him in authentic self

42 years later ..

Knowing myself , I don’t sense marriage is

a reality , for the values my Granny held dear

were on her own , after her savage marriage

and divorce …

I’m not seen in the love light , as I would love

and stand for , just as I do children …

It’s taken years , years of set backs, but my

focus has been to have that experience

as my soul has searched for ..

I shall hold it within, as I continue the liberation

from all that took me way from my soul

intentions , and defined the very basic nature

of codes which I don’t feel should be received

as needy , so I hold my self .. No manual

it will be Thy Will, and I don’t feel a lack .

A simple life , of abundance in things many

take for granted , I will ever be grateful now

and the cherry on top would be the experience

of Divine Masculine …it really is Thy Will.

I’m not in limbo, searching or feel a lack

therefore …as I spend quality time , doing

what I what I require .. much in repose

knowing Peace, and Balance ..against odds

that try many souls ..

I am overjoyed that connections are being made

to that forever n ever kinda love, and foundation

we long for , exposing the renewal of the best

our hearts ♥️ and souls can offer ..

It’s a wonderful sign, an affirmation .

Now I lay my head down , certainly to sleep

and dream of a reality that’s tangible , not

only in dreams 🌈🎁😘❤️©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Patience is Prayer …🤪🙏🏼💯

©️

I am an average millennial but when it comes to romance, I’m what you call an old school romantic. However, it is slightly difficult to survive in a world where the basic idea of love is now swiping right or left on a mobile app. I see my friends meeting people at a cafe, event or club and instead of seeing where it goes, they end up hooking up and never seeing each other again.
— Read on m.indiatimes.com/lifestyle/it-s-difficult-to-be-an-old-school-romantic-when-your-whole-generation-is-into-hookup-culture-360515.html

Forest schools: how climbing trees and making dens can help children develop resilience

My aim , my goal , was to live within nature

and that was realized , building on 3 rural

acers, within a subdivision, which had been

pasture land previously ..

Forest School helps children learn without realising it.
— Read on theconversation.com/forest-schools-how-climbing-trees-and-making-dens-can-help-children-develop-resilience-117920

I’m not here for the entitlement of Kavanaugh and Graham – The Washington Post

As the mask unveiled, this sense of entitlement

ramped to undeniable examples , which were

supported in his world .

These entities have the hardest time in reality

in authentic, in authority, projecting it’s the other .

So glad an awareness has developed , and the

dank shadow has been revealed ..

in my experience this has no place in our New

Earth , and so is highlighted by examples

like Kavanaugh that it ENDs .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

I’m not here for the entitlement of Kavanaugh and Graham.
— Read on www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2018/09/28/im-not-here-for-the-entitlement-of-kavanaugh-and-graham/

Migrant Children Separated From Parents Show Signs Of PTSD, Report Finds | HuffPostll. ***Results are same of DomesticAbuseChildAbuse, CPS , Trafficked Children

Indeed these children , have been abused , fleeing abuse

then separated , and jailed like animals , sexually abused,

medicated, nutritionally abused, as well as separated from

parent(s) , relatives that is all they know .

Everything in the world .

So yes the avoidable FACT , is that all forms of Post

Traumatic Stress Disorder are induced , indeed a

Human Rights Violation .

The same results have been showing up for many years,

decades , and can no longer be ignored , will not be ignored .

Families are being erased , all that constitutes healthy family

foundations , in lieu of cashing in the many who profit

or as many professionals are lacking factual education,

and unfortunate result of a declining educational system .

Of repressed facts , of the adulteration of values , of faith

of nutrition, of our bodies and minds , which corporations

created chemicals for via RX , and physicians , following

the model of psychiatry, began the intense addiction of

folks , unknown to them…It was referred to as mental illness

these many varieties , induced trauma , ignoring and

blaming / targeting 1 person , as in my case supporting

my abuse by the partner who never was.

Results for our children , our collective children , are varied .

The possible results are the same for those children , snatched

by Child Protective Services ,

Family Court

Children who fly under the radar , in secrets family/social

support , in knowing or unknowing .

As well as immigration children , held in HELL on Earth .

Of course this demands attention , as it is ..

My personal intention to highlight this malicious,

malignant, high conflict , DomesticAbuseChildAbuse

through education , and legislation.

Until then, we Stand ..©️

Blessings & Peace 😘🙏🏼♥️☮️

Doña Luna

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jun/14/child-abuse-part-americas-official-immigration-policy

Not a fan of Ms Baker , I offer a view of C-PTSD and more resulting from

PAS-ChildAbuse

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/co-parenting-after-divorce/201304/the-impact-parental-alienation-children

CPS Lawless

https://youtu.be/PK5jJN-YzD0

The trauma pathogen prevents the brain from using logical reasoning and foresight.

Reasoning, foresight, and anticipating the future, are impossible for the trauma-impacted brain. Instead, it is fear oriented (amygdala driven rather than frontal lobe oriented) and they are now-oriented toward survival and anxiety-management rather that future-oriented through reasoning, planning.

So as we discuss implications of recent developments, here’s where we stand.

The methodology of all child forensic evaluations are in violation of Standard 9.01a of the APA ethics code, the methodology is invalid.

There is no inter-rater reliability. If an assessment procedure is not reliable – it cannot be valid. Child custody evaluations are not a valid assessment of anything.

Is tape recording sessions, reporting the transcript without professional analysis using any constructs from professional psychology, and writing recommendations that are not grounded in any established psychological constructs and principles a valid assessment of anything? No.

It is the opinion of one person based on no established constructs and principles. It is no more valid than asking your next door neighbor to make recommendations for custody.

The methodology – the methodology developed by forensic psychology for a “child custody evaluation” is in violation of many standards of the APA ethics code. Standard 9.01a regarding assessment, Standard 2.04 requiring the application of professional knowledge, Standard 3.04 on harm to the client, and Principle D of the APA ethics code regarding Justice.

I am required – required – by Standard 1.04 of the APA ethics code to “informally” contact the psychologist who’s practice is of concern to bring my concerns to their attention.

1.04 Informal Resolution of Ethical Violations

When psychologists believe that there may have been an ethical violation by another psychologist, they attempt to resolve the issue by bringing it to the attention of that individual.

That means that when I a serving as a consulting clinical psychologist for CRM or independently for an attorney and client and I review a child custody evaluation report, I am required by the Ethical Principles of Psychologists and Code of Conduct of the American Psychological Association – which is a legally binding to me through my licensing board – to notify whoever wrote the report notifying them of my concerns.

My informal recommendation to the psychologist will be to stop doing child custody evaluations.

Now, here’s the important thing to understand. They should already know this. They should not have to be told, and they do not have to be told. They are all in violation of the APA ethics code today. All of them.

I’m going to be unpacking 3.04a Harm to the client shortly. That one is devastating to forensic psychology. Psychologists are not allowed to hurt anyone. Anyone. Not even terrorists Notice 3.04b.

Standard 3.04

(b) Psychologists do not participate in, facilitate, assist, or otherwise engage in torture, defined as any act by which severe pain or suffering, whether physical or mental, is intentionally inflicted on a person, or in any other cruel, inhuman, or degrading behavior that violates 3.04(a).

That came from the “enhanced interrogation techniques” used after 911. The APA said no, we cannot consult (“participate”) in harming anyone – even terrorists.

Targeted parents are people. Are you hurt by the recommendations of the custody evaluator?

It doesn’t matter if there was a “greater good” justification… that’s what Standard 3.04b directly addresses, a “greater good” justification NEVER works. We are not allowed to hurt anyone.

Were you – are you – will you be – hurt by the recommendations of the custody evaluator. They are not allowed to hurt you with their recommendation – Standard 3.04.

All of forensic psychology – all the custody evaluators – have also been in violation of Standard 3.04a of the APA ethics code on Harm to the client.

And they do not need to be told. They needed to know. Past tense. Too late now, I’m reading their report, the harm is done. The only question now is what to do about violation of the APA ethics codes, Standards 3.04a, 9.01a, and 2.04?

For each and every child custody report I read.

David with a rock.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

A government report found the Trump administration’s “zero tolerance” policy caused serious mental health problems in detained children.
— Read on www.huffpost.com/entry/detained-migrant-children-border-mental-health-ptsd_n_5d6fc8dce4b09bbc9ef82c18

“Children need art and stories and poems and music as much as they need love and food and fresh air and play. “ | Astrid Lindgren Memorial Award

Totally agree !

Wise words from Philip Pullman, who received the Astrid Lindgren Memorial Award in 2005: Children need art and stories and poems and music as much as they need love and food and fresh air and play. If you don’t give a child food, the damage quickly becomes visible. If you don’t let a child have…
— Read on astridlindgrenmemorialaward.wordpress.com/2015/12/17/children-need-art-and-stories-and-poems-and-music-as-much-as-they-need-love-and-food-and-fresh-air-and-play/

Little Caesars’ Founder Covered Rosa Parks’ Rent For Over A Decade

How cool is this ?

Little Caesars’ Founder Covered Rosa Parks’ Rent For Over A Decade
— Read on allthatsinteresting.com/little-caesars-rosa-parks