NPD do not co parent

๐Ÿ˜ Narcissists don’t co-parent. They don’t want to fall in line and do the right thing. They don’t want to be held accountable, follow the rules and regulations, and don’t want to be harmonious. They don’t want to play on a team.

The only thing a narcissist is interested in – is narcissistic supply. This means, “I can affect other people significantly enough to know that I exist.” It’s the attention they crave more than anything else.

So, when you are attempting to co-parent with a narcissist, they are going to trigger you. They’re going to be uncooperative. They’re going to say one thing and do another. They will use the children as pawns, absolutely to trigger you to get a reaction, which means โ€“ I’m significant enough to affect you.

A narcissist wants to play games and use all of these tactics to punish you. How dare you leave them? Or how dare you try and get on with your life? Or how dare you tell other people what they are or how they behave? How dare you?

The false self can’t deal with that. So, punishing you by using the children as pawns is a very, very common tactic.

For an answer to all this – have a look at these resources –

Parallel Parenting – https://bit.ly/3bmz9ZO.

All People Co-Parenting With A Narcissist Needs These Tools – https://bit.ly/3k1maRd.

The Thriverโ€™s Guide To Co-Parenting With A Narcissist – https://bit.ly/3k1HWnT.

Like so many other Thrivers – use the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) to detox from the narcissist to give you the strength and empowerment to give yourself and your children a brighter future.

Full details of NARP can be found here – https://bit.ly/33bIGyY.

Much love xo โค๏ธ

Web page : Illegal Retaliatory Evictions

Unfortunately, as the ex wife of a landlord

who has distorted everything business , financial

as well as our personal life and certainly with

regard to our 3 sons and 6 grandchildren ( that I know

of) .

His residence to change , his slow and methodical

planning of years , aided by his family whose opinion

of me , was critical from the get go because I didn’t

accept , that I had to wear a fake mask , or hold a man

on high , when he lived in distortion far too much .

Was it my imagination , that I saw higher sides in him

and held faith for his more attached and balanced

mood in consistent growth ? I have realized our family

was a business , his pride at creating 3 sons to carry

his family name ๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“›๐Ÿ“› had nothing to

do with me ..Secrets and untruths have been held

rotting the core of what was , with our son’s and I

and aided by many who agreed to shut me up , has

ultimately failed .

As any professional , dare retaliate in these unique times

of COVID , their boomerangs will be swift …But just in

their very acts , those wormholes are being exposed

and there are no exemptions .

Any professional business who puts folks in jeopardy

in foundational ways to retaliate , repeadly , covering

themselves , taking no responsibility , discriminations ,

failure to comply with code , forced evacuations that

are delicious with over powering abusive energy ,

enjoying the trauma for the recipient to whom

all abuse is projected .

I lived through this, survived this and I KNOW what

this is .

And I know I am called on , and called to aide others

as much as I can . *** new leases have clasuses that

stipulate that they cannot be legally held ” responsible “,

the same language ex used in his divorce , making me

responsible for legal and health , and every freaking

thing negative , as 20 years with yet another who

met him energetically , and delighted in increased

abuse , as did others who joined in family ,

savoring my son’s disposal of me , adding the death

of our son’s mom , was a complete and done deal

and they wanted nothing to do with me .

Shadow of the matriarch , who has ruled with a

vengeance, that negates a peaceful landing upon

exit from this plane of existence .

The choice is his, to liberate himself or stay as is ..

I’ve been long gone, exhumed from the grave , and

the box of Distortion , and my voice is clear and

much needed , plus Spirit is in the house .

My house , and I am , I am home And that’s magnetic

as my tribe awakens and we converge in cosmic

love and joy ๐Ÿ’–.

๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿฆ•โ™“โ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿงš

Blessings & Peace

Dona Luna

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Watch “Now We Are Free” on YouTube

The French in me appreciates this song , though

I don’t know the words , my soul does .

Liberation …I know true liberation of spirit as gift

gift is laid before me , even in deep loss , I grasp

my miss is my mercy .

A conversation with a friend who has waited for my

contact patiently , after a harmonizing near death

now receiving gifts and love and support she has been

lacking , in a state of greif , failing to achieve her dreams

and now heroically survives and thrives..

We are going to council her experience and write it

for its multiple affirmations should reach masses .

I had an interview on podcast , my 1st , though my vision

shared the possibility .. the clarity was not as we wanted

corrections can be made and rescheduled for next week.

I was however calm , and enjoyed myself and this

stage fright thing is cured …

Ms Moon is budding in Virgo and its been an opposition

to this Pisces as a targeted dump bucket for 4.5 decades

my past ….North Node in Aquarius is my South Node

my Destiny , my past life sign and our new age ….

So , tonight I read the distorted responses of Beloved

who is in his past, projecting , shadow spewing

his truths…..

And yes , I feel ……liberated .

Blessings & Peace ,

๐Ÿ˜˜ Dona Luna