Narcissists Use Trauma Bonding and Intermittent Reinforcement To Get You Addicted To Them: Why Abuse Survivors Stay

In general not recognized by profession , who

ignore or close their eyes to what trauma bonds

are , as in my case since a Dr had labeled me

despite my honesty from the get go that I was

hit , and targeted by win at all cost , ” family”

in denial that they were not perfect .

Sacrificing their grandchildren and me , was

a piece of cake.. a horrid truth I discovered

adversely affects more folks in hollowed halls

of law and men.

It’s a very good thing to witness healing of

this pick of speed as many wake to the erasure

of families , and the profit by bottom-feeders

whose deserving of being spotlighted , as

poster child’s , abuses that no Hail Mary

Father Forgive Me excuses . Holding this

abuse as excusable, is foolhardy, a higher

power begs surrender , residence puts

abusers , front and center .

I am more that ready , Thy Will Be Done

#FlyingMonkeys

©️

Blessings & Peace,

Doña Luna

Trauma bonds are intense, unshakeable attachments which occur in abusive relationships, making it difficult for abuse survivors to leave. Here are signs you might be trauma bonded to a narcissistic abuser.
— Read on blogs.psychcentral.com/recovering-narcissist/2019/03/narcissists-use-trauma-bonding-and-intermittent-reinforcement-to-get-you-addicted-to-them-why-abuse-survivors-stay/

For Abuse Survivors, Custody Remains a Means by Which Their Abusers Can Retain Control – Pacific Standard

This is a year old , and though my state does not has

not addressed this, and I can and will add supporters

and vision that addresses family in a consciousness

that is demanded for thriving, instead of serving .

Creating a safe foundation where each member is heard

seen , and knows they matter …it’s happening in greater

numbers that ever ..

#HarmonicHomesForFamilies

©️

Blessings & Peace,

Doña Luna

Despite growing evidence that abusers often use custody battles to retain control over their former spouses, Congress is still punting on basic protections for survivors.
— Read on psmag.com/

Narcisstic Cannot Answer this Question

This guy is so correct , I am triggered , at what

I must acknowledge.

I must retain my conciseness, acknowledging

watching the mentoring of this upon sons

the imprint, the demand and perhaps secrets

I cannot libel myself for , or insight ..

that this is trauma . Deeply held Trauma

vulnerable is not something they do.

Needs , are abused early on, utilized

by the parent , in love.

Our sons parked all that in me, as I was

induced into mental illness.. Awareness of

the AMA , induces , disease , A to Z

and I am going to grab a hot shower ,

Detox these truths of shadow

and head out into the Sunshine .

Days away from the writings of such clarity

and release, I am weak.

#NotMyMonkeyNotMyCircus.

🙏🏼#AllWillUnfloldInMyHighestGood

#ThyWillBeDone

#AllIsInDivineOrder

#SweetRelease

#PrayForOurChildInEachToIntergrateSafely

Blessings & Peace ,

DonaLuna

©️

www.youtube.com/watch

Winner & Still Champion : Appointed Judge Matriarch Of God

‘Twas no judge , but a critical matriarch, who

deemed me unworthy , and supported her son

by saving him from being responsible , but to

her .

Whatever bound them together , is still in play

tragically , and that energy has no healing ,

no compassion, only fear at getting caught

certainly never at what was done .

Silence, assured that given the past , their

funds , their connections , and careful planning

will never expose the abuse ; the living death

of separation before and during my induced

mental illness , assured the story line of my

unfitness , as compassion , often daily contact

was with held for 5 years as he searched for

his twin, and followed the same story line.

Of course , once again the victim , this horrible

experience reduced her to near death , as he

mourns the outgoing money he owes her ,

which limits his living as large as he has chosen

at the loss and expense of beloved’s , be they

romantic or children .

Confiding he’s executing the Will, will

not be the cake walk he expects ..

Light can only be had by truths, and there

is much to transform , releasing this finally

as the factual truths that lighten any soul

that chooses to see the challenge far exceeds

the desire to step into so much shadow .

I found it absolutely necessary , to process and

be responsible marriage dynamics that created

a living death , a surrogacy , induced mental

illness , that was professionally supported

and socially accepted as it appeared to be hell

on earth.. that family was unaware or unable

or saw the adversity as opportunity to prevail

by bottom-feeding, showing no connection

to any god I am aware of ..

By whatever name it is child abuse to abuse their

Mother . Abuse in drugging her , creating a monster

mirroring her abuse of this life , of generations

of abuse, that by very exposure enlightens

so many , and is whatever each of our sons

wishes to make of it.

Releasing them from shame , and any contract

that says they cannot own their feelings , or

heal some deep wounds , and release hatred

and grief from a past they , nor I were empowered

to combat , light so dimmed as not to exist .

Indeed Hell on Earth , that light of truth

vaporizes .

High Road ABA: Clinical Data Discussion – Dr. Craig Childress: Attachment Based “Parental Alienation” (AB-PA)

Discussion of Twelve Clinical Data Points in the High Road Single-Case ABA Data C.A. Childress, Psy.D. (2019) Parent-Child Relationship Rating Scale (PC-RRS) Affection (Aff):  Attachment networks – blue line Cooperation (Co):  Emotional regulation – gold line Social Involvement (SI):  Arousal and mood regulation – silver line High Road Workshop Data The PC-RRS data from the…
— Read on drcraigchildressblog.com/2019/04/15/high-road-aba-clinical-data-discussion/

Domestic Violence Murders Are Suddenly On The Rise | HuffPost

The culprit , includes family court, lawyers who

push opposition , for more revenue .

When pushed , seeing such loss, murder /suicide

is a desperate , if not induced out come.

80% of Americans use some type of psychiatric RX .

Lots to influence the use of drugs & alcohol, RX ,

and guns are legally allowed .

©️

Blessings & Peace

Doña Luna

The culprit? Guns, according to one researcher.
— Read on www.huffpost.com/entry/domestic-violence-murders-rising_n_5cae0d92e4b03ab9f24f2e6d