My grandchildren just left and it’s so sad .I know it’s hard on any mother or father that going through this and the rest of the family .my grandchildren were brain washed into thinking their mom didn’t love them and she didn’t want them . My grand daughter told her mom today that she was going to leave something here that belonged to her so her mom wouldn’t forget her .I told her straight up that her mom has always wanted her and her brother. I left it at that I don’t know what else to say or do . We
Are grow up we know the truth of the matter but these children hasn’t had a choice in what they believe it was forced on them .my granddaughter doesn’t understand . She back talks her mom calls her names . Gives her a real hard time while they are here but when it’s time for them to leave my granddaughter can’t talk because she’s crying so hard . It hard on us but imagine the children’s feelings . They believe what has been forced in their little minds anyone that could do this to a child should not be allowed around children period . Myself I’m trying to have something done about this it’s not fair that the innocent have to pay for this .
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Co parenting with a narcissist
Pandemic Parents
44 Million @ Risk of Eviction Under Present Laws
This report is pretty through and points out the facts and adversity of landlord retaliation and abuse as rent cost rise and wages stay low . It’s not a legacy I wanted for myself or want for anyone .
Change must come soon .
Mother in Law
The war never ended from her possession of her son . I gave up after years of trying ; once sitting with her and stating that it was ok if she didn’t care for me , that we could have some semblance of a relationship. She replied ” as a Christian, I’ve never met anyone that I didn’t like ” .
I understood her from that point on and witnessed her get hands on and loving towards our sons when someone was watching .
She was abusive to me openly and it was witnessed and he said nothing in my defense for it was very uncalled for .
I watched her smack at her 90 year old Mother’s hands for getting flour on the floor when making biscuits!
I believe her eldest children experienced a lot of trauma at her hands and he alluded to my having no idea .
I believe he found his Dad weak to her as she called him Mr _____ and he allowed her to rule . As he faded out , she lamented the place’s they would not be able to travel and her health challenges but how she couldn’t do her thing for taking care of him . His obit declared her a Daughter of the Eastern Star and he a 32nd degree Mason which I was unaware of ! Why the secret ?
She talked so sweetly to her daughters and never once had that tone with me .
Inviting her and sister in law to cook outs at our home stopped when the 4 huddled in one area as if too good to mingle with my parents.
My Mom’s Mom died close to Thanksgiving and we were eating at her house and as she said the prayer my Mom began to cry and had to leave the table , which was met with shame from her and I was so stunned I just sat there .
So as his partner and confidant I was used as leverage and as his ” crazy” drugged and vulnerable wife whom he just offered was sick or didn’t want to attend a family function , when he was ready to jump in with the new supply, she was totally supportive and our sons became possessions that could not betray her or their Dad by being in anyway supportive or compassionate toward me .
Mother in laws , aunts and wives have assumed the mother toll, discouraging any healing or connection with me as they admire her wealth and longevity. She is quite an artist and I’ve been told of her abuse towards our sons that was uncalled for .
I’m sure she feels she has a place in Heaven but to me she is demonic and hides under her know it all attitude and money/power .
I long ago allowed her to know I was not impressed and found the bond between she and her son unholy . He’s attached to her so deeply and it proved to destroy his relationship with his twin , another 20 years of leveraging a woman to get Mom’s favor and execute her finances !
God only knows what he’s pocketed , for anything he touches and wants belongs to him .
What a house of cards !!!
Mother In Law – Ted Talks
Mother Love
I’ll be your voice
When you cannot speak
I’ll be your eyes
When you cannot see
I’ll be your heart
When you cannot feel
I’ll be your strength
When you feel you can’t go on
I’ll be your guide
When you’ve lost your way
I’ll be your hope
When you’ve lost faith in the world
I’ll be your confidence
When you’ve lost trust in yourself
I’ll be your biggest supporter
When your heart has been broken
I’ll be your inspiration
When you’ve lost motivation
I’ll be your compass
When you’ve lost direction
And I’ll be your mirror
When you cannot see your beauty
But as you grow, I won’t always be there
To support you and offer help
So I will teach you to do and be
All of the above for yourself
But in the meantime, I’ll do all I can and more
To help you flourish and thrive
And teach you to grow wings
So that you may one day fly.
– A love letter to my future children
Words by Tahlia Hunter
Artwork by Katie m. Berggren
There were those who found fault , silently , critically and in alignment with the judgement that children did not need their Mom after age 7 .
Our youngest was 6 when psychiatry intervened and I was never the same .
It only got worse , until it ended our family .
My intentions were to be there for our sons and educate them in ways their Dad was not as to self love , forgiveness , compassion and wholeness ✔️
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Being a Mom -Like working 25 full time jobs
Having a detached father/child partner was draining and though I tried very hard ; I could not hold all the ” balls” in the air .
His expectation that he was the power and thus due the upmost attention and 3 sons challenged that . Of course he did nothing to support me , rather it was always competing and self serving with no growth or solidify of basic foundations .
Totally devalued me , psychiatrist drugged me into submission where I discovered his shadow and found myself in the unenviable position of his having total control of my life
He still feels entitled and feels I’m not grateful !
I feel Mothers are due support and respect and their many jobs should be acknowledged with services awarded the work force .
More balanced , children result from nurture and nature in balance and support of each other . No one person in the family should wield more power , and destroying the divinity of mother child has a kick back
Like France , we should automatically financially support Mother & Child for the 1st 5 years , until child begins school
Mom could work selected hours on line or take courses . It’s a WinWin💯
Blessings & Peace ☮️
Mom
A mom will text her twenty-year-old child, letting him know it’s going to rain and not to forget an umbrella.
She calls to see how the first day of school separation went for her grandkids and if her daughter made it to the car before tears streamed down her face.
She watches her daughter’s baby, so she can shower and take care of her postpartum body.
She texts her forty-year-old son, making sure he’s home safe from a wedding because knowing that is still the only way she can sleep well.
She buys her thirty-four-year-old daughter Wetzel’s Pretzels when she goes to the mall because she knows how much her daughter loves them.
And no, she no longer needs to do these things,
but she does them anyway.
Because a mother always wants to make life easier for her kids when she can
even when they’re capable, responsible humans and can do all the things for themselves.
And she always wants to know they’re safe.
Because mothering doesn’t stop when her kids turn eighteen, move far away, or have their own kids.
It just changes.
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Wake up Women
They have come for us
We who are female
We who bleed
They are trying to pull us backwards
To a time where their hatred of us was open
Where they controlled all of what we said and did
Their patriarchy perpetuates itself through their churches
WAKE UP WOMEN
Step out of your complacency
Step out of your father’s house
Step out of your husband’s house
Step out and lift your voice
Embrace your freedom
Embrace your sisters
Embrace your sovereignty
We women are sacred and whole unto ourselves
Shed the males who oppress you
Shed the beliefs that limit you
Shed anything that you wish
YOU are in charge of yourself
YOU are in charge of your body
YOU should be running the world
YOU are spiritual power embodied
REMEMBER WHO YOU REALLY ARE AND RISE
– Tizzy Hyatt
Image: Joey Spadaro
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