DO you Love Me 💘

“Do you love me?” ” asked Alice.
“No, I don’t love you!” ” responded the White Rabbit.
Alice frown and shook her hands as she would whenever she felt hurt.
See ? the White Rabbit replied to her
Now you’re going to start wondering what makes you so imperfect and what did you do wrong so I can’t love you even a little.
You know, that’s why I can’t love you.
You won’t always be loved Alice, there will be days when others will be tired and bored of life, head in the clouds, and hurt you.
Because that’s how people are, they somehow end up hurting each other’s feelings, either through indifference, misunderstanding, or conflict with themselves.
If you do not love yourself, at least a little, if you do not create an armor of self-love and happiness around your heart, the weak nerves caused by others will become lethal and destroy you.

***The first time I saw you I made a pact with myself: “I will avoid loving you until you learn to love yourself. ” 💜

  • Lewis Carroll in Alice in Wonderland

Love yourself…….Get into your Power

Watch “LOVE. (Ultimate Mix, 2020) – John Lennon/Plastic Ono Band (official music video 4K)” on YouTube

The story behind the song in the words of John Lennon & Yoko Ono.

John: I’d always had a fantasy about a woman who would be a beautiful, intelligent, dark-haired, high-cheekboned, free-spirited artist (à la Juliette Gréco).

My soul mate. Someone that I had already known but somehow had lost. A woman who would give me what I got from a man intellectually. I wanted someone I could be myself with.

With Yoko I really knew love for the first time. The only woman I’d ever met who was my equal in every way imaginable. My better, actually. The dream became a reality.

Yoko: He had a very intelligent side that appealed to me and also a kind of sensitivity. He was awake but he was a bit unfocused, like a lost soul.

John: I was lonely. I didn’t have full communication with anybody and it took a bit of adjusting.

Yoko: and then when we met, he suddenly had a clear vision like he used to have when he was a boy.

John: She rediscovered the thing that existed in me before I left Liverpool and re-cultivated the natural John Lennon that had been lost in the Beatles.

She encouraged me to be myself because it was me that she fell in love with, not the Beatles or whatever I was.

Yoko: he was incredibly shy. I know you’re not going to believe this, but he was. And that made me feel like we were two of a kind.

John: She came and reminded me that there was light. And when you remember there’s light, you don’t want to get back in the dark again.

Yoko: I was a very lonely person before I met John. When I met him I stared to open up a little through love and that’s the greatest thing that happened to me yet.

I had never met anybody else who could understand me. That’s rare. Most men really don’t. We understand each other so well. I’m not lonely any more, which is a shocking experience, really.

John: Love is a great gift, like a precious flower. You have to feed it and look after it. It has to be nurtured like a very sensitive animal because that’s what it is.

You have to work at love. You don’t just sit round with it and it doesn’t just do it for you. You’ve got to be very careful with it. It’s the most delicate thing you can be given.

Yoko: When you send love to your loved one, you are not just sending love to the special person in your life, you are sending your love to yourself, our planet and the universe.

A dream you dream alone is only a dream.
A dream you dream together is reality.

Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

Sacred Romance

“The Sacred Romance calls to us every moment of our lives. It whispers to us on the wind, invites us through the laughter of good friends, reaches out to us through the touch of someone we love. We’ve heard it in our favorite music, sensed it at the birth of our first child, been drawn to it while watching the shimmer of a sunset on the ocean. It is even present in times of great personal suffering–the illness of a child, the loss of a marriage, the death of a friend. Something calls to us through experiences like these and rouses an inconsolable longing for intimacy, beauty, and adventure. This longing is the most important part of any human personality. It fuels our search for meaning, for wholeness, for a sense of being truly alive. However we may describe this deep desire, it is the most important thing about us, our heart of hearts, the passion of our life. A voice that calls to us in this place is none other that the voice of God.” 
John Eldredge from the book “Sacred Romance.”

Grief is a Portal Into Life

With the uttermost tenderness,
no need to rush,
place your hand on your heart
and gently knock on the Door of Grief.

What do you sense could be waiting for you
behind this door? What wants to be named,
honored and held?

Maybe it is obvious,
a loss so stark and unavoidable,
one that knocks you over
with a weight more massive and frightening
than you think you can bear.

Or maybe it is more of a subtle ache—
losses of hugs, of dreams,
of days, of relationships,
of the familiar slipping out of your hands.

Grief is a portal
into Life.

Grief shows us how deeply we loved.

Be gentle with your heart,

~ Chameli Ardagh

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Separation & Polarity, by Sharon Lyn Shepard

The current battleground of separation and polarity we are observing on earth right now is what continues to hold the antiquated 3d/4d matrix in place. 
If this is the timeline in which you choose to play on behalf of humanity, then by all means take action. However, in order to be of the highest service it’s important to consciously ask: Can I intervene from a place of neutrality, a place of love and compassion? Otherwise, no matter the intent, we are continuing to augment the matrix of duality. 
If, on the other hand, you are choosing a timeline as a creator of the New Earth, which has transcended the matrix of duality, there is no battleground. There is nothing to fight. And yet, how easy it is to get pulled into the chaos and drama that is happening all around us, distracting us from creating a new earth so those who are awakening will have a new reality to step into when they are ready. 
Multiple timelines are playing out right now. During this time of emotional turmoil, I caution each of us to take a step back. Disengage, go deep into our hearts, and listen to the Wisdom of our Soul which will never lead us asunder. We each have our own unique Soul path. Take the time to become clear what your role is and then allow that “Point of Consciousness” to become your guiding star. *~ Sharon Lyn Shepard~
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Message 4men : Surrender

**FOR HER SURRENDER – TRANSMISSION FOR MEN**⁣⁣I had a male client communicate to me today: “she’s so hard. I want her to be softer. It pisses me off when she is so hard. What do I do? I keep telling her to be softer and to surrender in her femininity, but it’s not working.”⁣⁣“Well firstly, you being annoyed by her “hardness” as you put it, is only going to support more hardness.” I replied.⁣⁣She is already “soft” by nature. If she is not willing to be in that energy with you, there are parts of your being which she does not fully trust at this point. ⁣⁣An emotionally reactive and unclear man, is felt as a weak untrustworthy man. You don’t have to like it. It simply is what it is. ⁣⁣Even if her mind wants to trust you, her body will never feel safe enough to open in your company. It will brace in your presence. There will be an energetic cocooning as a form of protection. Not because you are a bad man, but because there are too many parts of you which are unclear, uncertain, and dispersive. This is unsafe for her on every level of love & surrender. ⁣⁣Men, you must realize to some degree what it means for her to be in a place of deep softness and receptivity with you. For you, it turns you on. For her, it’s risking life. ⁣⁣It requires her to release all order and control, which she has been forced to barricade up around herself, based on her past experiences with males. ⁣⁣This is what you are asking when you request for her to “surrender” more. You are inviting her into absolute exposure.⁣⁣On top of that, you are also wanting to literally insert a part of your body up inside of her, in a way which allows you to have full control over how you move it inside of her, in the most sensitive part of her entire physicality. DO YOU REALIZE HOW MUCH TRUST THIS REQUIRES? ⁣⁣As men, we cannot ever truly feel the reality of this situation in our body, and what it must actually feel like when it is presented in a disconnected and hungry way. ⁣⁣On the other end of the scale, having such intimacy presented in a connected, sensitive and conscious way must be like taking silky rockets of love-drops, made of dark chocolate, to the milky way. Excuse me, I’m veering…⁣⁣Basically, you are requiring her to bathe in oceans of vulnerability. A vulnerability which has been many times before you; used against her – disrespected, judged & dropped.⁣⁣Based on all of this…why on earth would she trust a man who she hasn’t vetted repeatedly?⁣⁣Welcome her challenge. ⁣⁣Welcome her moment to moment tests. ⁣⁣Realize it’s because she actually gives a damn about you. If she didn’t, she would never feel the need to test anything about you.⁣ ⁣If any of this sounds like something you simply don’t want to engage with, then leave her alone. She can probably find someone safer than you. ⁣⁣What men need to see is the beauty in the challenge – the beauty present in the opportunity to demonstrate your wisdom and strength. This, is the dance. ⁣⁣If you are wanting to show up for yourself, for community, for her – regardless of how terrified you may be, beautiful! Stay there, in your integrity, and allow her to continuously experience you. ⁣⁣Finally, the question answered:⁣⁣How do we as men experience woman in her softness? ⁣⁣Through learning how to LOVE HER.⁣⁣Especially in her hardness. Especially in her anger. Especially in her frustration. Especially in her tension. Especially in all the places she has been mishandled and traumatized. ⁣⁣Love her!⁣⁣And then love her more…if you want to. ⁣⁣If you don’t want to, there’s nothing wrong with that – But leave her the fuck alone. She doesn’t need another half-assed version of undercooked love. None of us do. If you are going to be there, at least commit to it.⁣⁣You want her to be soft? Learn how to love her. ⁣⁣Much love,⁣Chris⁣

The Heart of Awakening , Matt Kahn

“When you go through a hard period, 
when everything seems
to oppose you, when you feel 
you cannot even bear one more minute, NEVER GIVE UP! 
Because it is the time and place that the course will divert.”-   

– Rumi

Everything that you have been given the power to survive is here to be honored as a confirmation of your highest expansion in motion.
 I honor your pain, no matter how often you look away or blame anyone for it. 
I honor your grief, despite how much faster you wish it could be resolved.
 I honor your regrets, no matter how deeply you judge yourself for being as you are. I honor your sadness, despite how much time may be spent trying to negotiate your way out of its grip. I honor your frustrations, no matter how drastically the vision of your life differs from the grace of your current reality.
I honor your losses, no matter how big of a case you build against yourself or life as a result of your encounters. I honor your fears, despite how much work may have been done to psychoanalyze yourself under a microscope of shame. I honor your feelings, no matter how often you interpret them as proof of being unworthy or less than the eternal perfection you already are. I honor your memories, despite your best efforts to empty your inner photo album that can be celebrated as your resume of cosmic redemption.
I honor your disappointments, no matter who you ridicule, reject, or abandon whenever life doesn’t go your way. I honor your innocence, whether or not it shines at the forefront or remains buried under layers of hurt, betrayal, agony, and anger. I honor your victories, whether recognized or overlooked throughout each breath. I honor your talents, no matter how much time is spent trying to be like those who are here to be transformed by the gift of your uniqueness. I honor your joy, in whatever form it takes, no matter how often or infrequently it seems to be. I honor your courage, regardless of how often you worry about the things you cannot control.
I honor your destiny, no matter how good of a job you believe you are doing in fulfilling it. I honor your truth, regardless of how often you lash out or shut down. I honor your divinity, whether you are aware of it, awaiting its arrival, or overlooking it wherever you go.
Each facet of experience, no matter how deeply we pray for its demise, in exchange for a more preferable set of circumstances, cannot leave your field and return to Source until it has fulfilled its Divine role of assisting you in becoming more unconditionally loving than ever before. Knowing the mission each aspect has been created to fulfill, perhaps now more than ever before, we may find more moments throughout the day to make embracing our hearts and supporting ourselves the most essential way to unlock the door to life’s most miraculous potential.
Even if becoming the one that loves you the way no one else has loved you before doesn’t produce the feelings you desire, or erase the things you have yet to face, it could only be an even greater opportunity to cherish the one who always seems to want exactly what they don’t have right now.
You have survived the past, which confirms your eternal safety, no matter how often painful emotions echo throughout your being. Despite the circumstances and outcomes at hand, each feeling is only here to be loved. Throughout each embrace, whether you think you are doing it right or would rather spend time doing anything else, the grace of love assists you in ending your internal battles with the kindness, support, and compassion only you can offer the innocence that calls you home. Whatever arises, Love that. 

This is the heart of awakening. 

Matt Kahn ❤