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Tag: C-PTSD
Silence
As a target of weaponized silence I am aware when anyone uses this against me .
As such I’m aware of the distortion within the heart mind and soul of such an individual whose actions do not keep pace with their words . Or these words are omitted thus a feeling of correctness for not having truth within and challenged resort to covert acts .
Crying
The advice from Dr Spock was to let baby cry up to 15 minutes . I tried this not knowing these horrific results .
There have been many advisors promoting detached parenting which is NOT what babies or children need not deserve .
Single Married Mama who had to be in the glow with a partner who had no idea or interest in parenting . Comfortable with brotherhood or uncle status that did not teach our sons well .
I regret not stopping everything to hold my baby , co sleep and had better intuitive skills that would have not allowed our sons to be alone with certain energies who masked many secrets
Crying it out: the foundation for NPD and BPD
(Borderline Personality Disorder
and Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
“One of the ways children have to adjust to a new order is called ‘letting them cry themselves out’.
The Mother puts the child into the crib at night to sleep. It is bedtime. But the sense of aloneness and the loss of contact with the mothers body terrifies the child, who begins to scream and cry.
No animal mother would fail to respond to a baby’s cry. Some human mothers believe, however that to respond would be wrong.
To give in to a child’s crying will spoil the child.
Besides, they have been told, crying is good for a child…
The first time this happens the child might cry for hours before falling asleep.
The mother might think the child has learned a lesson, but, the child doesn’t have the energy for a repeat performance…
After several experiences of this kind, the child learns to give up the struggle for contact with the mother. In effect, the child has cut off the longing for his contact and so no longer feels the pain of frustration.
A new reality in which the desire for intimacy and closeness is not expressed, has been accepted.
The foundations for narcissism and the borderline personality have been laid.”
Alexander Lowen,
Narcissism, Denial of True Self
Drama Queens NPD
WHEW do I know this for real 😮
Stagnation Over : The Daily Vibe
Multiple Lives Of Narcissist
I learned this the hard way
Traumatic experiences that took years to heal
Masked Man
Child Psychological Abuse /PA
The heartbreaking and frustrating thing for alienated parents is that we can’t force our child/children to see things from our point of view or, at the very least, to see things in a more balanced way. We crave justice. It is hard to resist trying to tell them right from wrong, to teach them that this (parental alienation) isn’t the way a loving parent behaves, that we love them, we want them in our lives, we’re not who they’ve been led to believe we are … If we push all this on them, we risk pushing them away. They don’t (want to) see their alienation or that they’ve been in any way complicit. They were acting in the only way they knew how to survive the nightmare situation their alienating parent put them in. It is a test of patience and love, waiting for them to wake up from this nightmare and see the light.
Homelessness & Trauma
The case discussed had alcohol addiction and ” behavioral ” health treatment included a lot of prescribed drugs . These are supposed to be short term use only.
A survivor of childhood sex abuse , her lover became abusive and this sadly points to changes being required.
Homelessness alters everything and in my opinion she should not have been evicted while in treatment .
I don’t feel the obstacles to heal addictions are necessary in the name of service and help , including a list of RX which ongoing in treatment bring a whole new problem when seeking balance in life … seems never ending
www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/i-have-no-one-understanding-homelessness-and-trauma
Childress : Child becomes “regulator object for NPD/Borderline Personality
Ann’s Behavior & Timing of Accident / Death
Child Abuse and Child Sex Trafficking. Ann had lots of trauma and this piece brings up many pertinent facts .
Read some of the comments . Another gal had a fatal car accident who worked with Ann on her documentary on child trafficking.
It’s also possible that this was staged as I’ve learned other have , altering their looks and life style in order to escape the shadow that corrupts small children .
I knew a gal who was molested by her Dad at 9 months , and yes like Ann , Mom knew and did nothing to protect her .
I had uneasy feelings about folks / family around our sons but the reality of what could have harmed them , when I wasn’t there is my reality .
I had that feeling leaving them with their Dad … and made my excursions short , but I realize too late how vulnerable they were and possibly brain washed in secretive ceremony, I wasn’t aware of until 2007 that ex was a member !?
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