I stayed in an abusive relationship with my wife because she threatened to not let me see my kids if I left – and there are plenty of other men like me

This is horrific and yes I see this , it’s hard to miss.

No one deserves to be targeted by an abuser ,

deeply traumatized , but the results are #ErasedDads

#ErasedMoms #EraseFamilies



Blessings & Peace ,

Doรฑa Luna

I stayed in an abusive relationship with my wife because she threatened to not let me see my kids if I left – and there are plenty of other men like me
โ€” Read on www.thesun.co.uk/sun-men/8782632/abusive-relationship-wife-threatened-not-let-me-see-kids-coercive/amp/

Releasing Old Contracts , Expansion..New Beginnings

Time lines are collapsing in order to surrender to

new beginnings from the inside out.

My vast amount of me time , once I to Truths

explained , I knew too the force that shadow had

in my life, secret societies ,and my awareness

reinforced with fear and horror as legal and

professions ignored my efforts to expose the

illegal , ill-moral, unprofessional , disconnected

religious support mirrored in each child , each

relative , and in my self .. and shame enveloped

me , as I began to understand it. Why I held so

much shame .

To acknowledge , I was no more , no less that a

surrogate , a maid , a concubine , a servant

in the soul of a family that has done so much

harm , as Christians , demanded acknowledgement

of 3 young souls who watched the deconstruct of

their Mom. Legalized addiction, drugged to

submission , that a human being of male

dominance’s , fearing he might loose money

or be exposed in his darkness of abuse , allowed

doing nothing save make his own plans of

stepping out of a contracted marriage for happiness.

That’s all I know..

His every intent , to avenge me for my failure

as a homemaker, servant , companion , whatever

he needed , in order for his property to be his

bearing out the Me NOT We..

Erasing me, allowing all is my fault , he was guilt

free and holding a lot of repressed and depressed

within , and there it remains . The Karmic he chose

to align with , holding the same energy met him

equally to participate in abusing me , and have

had at it , wide open legally and socially, enjoying

the experience of shame and abuse in our

culture of suicide . This has been his example

to our children and grandchildren ..

Trust does not exist between our sons and I.

This could show up in continued abuse through my

inheritance as one son referred to my partnership

that is his rulership . The experience of learning

of a near 300k liability against our shared property

and contracts I signed in induced compliance

allows my grave concerns about the facts , opposed

to his word as the time line crushes , exposing

what is , not what he says.

So yea , I failed , failed to acknowledge the truth

earlier , and involve myself socially , responsibly

exiting the matrix that made every effort to

destroy me, by removal of all I held dear .

I am very honoring and grateful for every

lesson, every shadow , every shame filled

projection , as I rejected the false for the truths

that are the air I breathe , the blood in my veins

the electric magnetic heart that is

multidimensional , which is unknown to

those who cannot see, cannot hear , cannot see


Endings are very painful , the separation heralded

as permanent, having no empathy , no desire

to move forwards as responsible compassionate

mindful folks , who take care of their mind

body and spirit . who live to reduce , avenge

overpower , Abuse , using children and soul

connections and connectedness as weapons ?

I stepped out of that long ago, and a review

only intensified as a 3rd generation is

indoctrinated to hold the judgement and

shame , Clarity is the priceless gift ๐ŸŽ I

present , in light and in love, no fear as

it is this clarity that’s so needed , I but

pray for the words that convey the urgency

for the messages with what we all must

transcend , from a fear based ideology and

life model to one of pure light and love.

That I have a deeply traumatic life story

has issued my living death , leaving

3 souls whose light was drained of me

as I was created to exhibit the dankest darkest

evil projected at me .. a mirror or hatred and fear

reduced to a state of helplessness , which fed

him , served him.

Deserving of redemption , as each resolution

has been been rejected , the clearing of financial,

demanding money to counteract , along with

tangible truths , to off set his clinging to his

falsehoods and mask , demand action , now

for as mentioned here , a lot of folks are not

packed ( mind body spirit) for this train .

and it shows .

Mourning has been ongoing for far too many

years for what has no light no life as I’m

affirmed by free wills who choose to

shame, reject and falsify , project blame

etc .. I surrendered to my highest good

my bags are packed .

I am worthy .

As are you ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ฏ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŒˆโ˜ฎ๏ธโค๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ’•

Listen as she explains in her way , nuancing

much of what I know in my heart and soul

words that were strange in my unknowing

as they might be with you ..

The message will come to you in the way you

require , if you but surrender to your highest good.

I am a seer , I am aware , I release that I may never

physically , or spiritually reconnect with sons .

I have been forced to accept this loss each and

every minute , beyond endurance , without

compassion, or support , but a Divine support

and love that has been they’re all along , guiding

me , and I’ll honor that Divinity as a humane

Being in knowing and doing better .

Joy in my heart โค๏ธ, I celebrate ..thankful for

the truths that liberated me from the dark

that consumes far too many .

I had no other choice

Survival breakthrough to Thriving .

I am rich in heart , Thankful ! Amazed !


Listening to Victims Can Reduce Domestic Violence Deaths

2 women from my hometown were murdered

after repeated request for police intervention.

1 had 2 children and an ex who would not

release her. He waited until their children

were away, entered at night , killed her as well

as himself.


The mother who had an adult son, who apparently

was mentally ill, repeatedly as and was ignored

by police .

Son used a Samurai Sword and cut her up..

It was a week before police found her body in

their house , with son.

He was sentenced to 60 years , as he heard

the judgement You killed the only person

who loved you, and cared.



An advocate and survivor shares how some states are currently working to end domestic violence homicides.
โ€” Read on www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/listening-to-victims-can-reduce-domestic-violence-deaths

This exhibition has put up clothes worn by rape victims to prove it wasn’t ‘their fault’ – Lifestyle News

Transforming this will be a pleasure ; point

well made , however the ” root” issue can be

stemmed and certainly more humane .

How about sliding scale , holistic ” safe places”

where victims are not re-Abused , safe places

for all affected .

I could envision the feminine grasping the

masculine experience and bonding and healing

this act of violence .

The society of suicide has accepted this as normal.

We are here to say , No More ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

Looking forward to the unification of genders

that will face the shadow and light together ,

fearlessly .

This exhibition aims to debunk the myth that it is women’s provocative clothing that incites rape.
โ€” Read on www.indiatoday.in/lifestyle/what-s-hot/story/this-exhibition-has-put-up-clothes-worn-by-rape-victims-to-prove-it-wasn-t-their-fault-1132679-2018-01-11

How Society Gaslights Survivors of Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths (A Guide for Therapists, Law Enforcement and Loved Ones) – US Health Secure

It’s difficult to read these , so examples my experience , much

of what I have witnessed towards and by children ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ.

I am working hard to share as much as possible and will

ask a teacher for lessons on how to post without the ads


Blessings & Much Peace

Dona Luna

How Society Gaslights Survivors of Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths (A Guide for Therapists, Law Enforcement and Loved Ones) – US Health Secure
โ€” Read on ushealthsecure.com/how-society-gaslights-survivors-of-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-a-guide-for-therapists-law-enforcement-and-loved-ones.html

Video sparks outrage after Manitoba officials seize newborn from Indigenous mother in hospital – The Globe and Mail

This supports personal stories , shared with me for

years , which have no clue of how Mother/Child bonding

are integral to overall outcome for both.

I supported a search for parents/family, with discovery of

11 siblings , only 1 adoption being friend . Mom had a “disorder”

and with each birth, that baby was removed , and another

born, that she would have her child .. Mom has passed , reunited

with 11 siblings in โค๏ธ.

All too common a practice, CPS is under deep scrutiny . Perhaps

if federal government did not support each child by $30 k per year

and CPS were better trained , parents would not loose their

children to a system that does not have the best interest of the

child at heart .

The child was taken away because of a false accusation that the mother was drunk when she arrived at the hospital to give birth, the womanโ€™s aunt said
โ€” Read on www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-video-sparks-outrage-after-manitoba-officials-seize-newborn-from/

Cyntoia Brown is granted clemency after serving 15 years in prison for killing man who bought her for sex – CNN

Cyntoia Denise Brown, a woman serving a life sentence for killing a man who bought her for sex when she was 16 years old, has been granted clemency, the Tennessee governor’s office said Monday.
โ€” Read on www.cnn.com/2019/01/07/us/tennessee-cyntoia-brown-granted-clemency/index.html