Family: Virginia toddler dies after reported sexual assault at motel

My home state ..Virginia

I have no words

#ChangeIsComingAngel

She will incarnate and return quickly

never to face such abuses ever again..

A promise I made out loud as I spoke

to Harper under construction ..

Her Mom and I have shared very bonded

exchanges , tears ….then expansive

silence

Richmond police are investigating the death of a toddler at a motel on Midlothian Turnpike last week.
— Read on www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Family-Virginia-toddler-dies-after-reported-sexual-assault-at-motel-509916801.html

Children with Attachment Based Narcissistic “Parental Alienation Syndrome”

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the unhealthy coalition between a narcissistic parent and his or her children against the targeted, non-narcissistic, non
— Read on pro.psychcentral.com/recovery-expert/2016/06/children-with-narcissistic-parental-alienation-syndrome/

Financially Ever After: What to Do If You’re Being Gaslighted with Meredith Shirey

Last week, we talked about financial abuse and gaslighting. On this episode of Financially Ever After, we’re diving deeper into the topic of gaslighting with our guest, Meredith Shirey. Meredith is the founder and practice director of her New York-based private practice, and is a psychotherapist who specializes in relationship issues through couples therapy. Today we’re talking about what gaslighting is, what to do to get yourself out of a gaslighting situation, and how to help someone who may be a victim. What is gaslighting? Gaslighting is when somebody makes you question your own reality. This is not a difference of opinion, this is a deliberate and malicious attempt to gain control over you. For example, secretly dimming the lights with their smartphone while acting like they don’t notice anything when you bring it up. When a gaslighter succeeds in making you question your own judgment, that opens the door to thinking like, if I can’t trust myself, then I must trust you — allowing that person to wield a lot of control and power in the relationship. Meredith shares some real life examples of gaslighting, and gives insight as to specific reasons abusers may choose to do this. Grounding yourself If you think you’re being gaslighted, do some simple grounding to remind yourself of your reality. Remind yourself you’re in your body. Remind yourself that you know your truth. Meredith shares some exercises you can do, like labeling items in the room out loud (“microphone, coffee cup”), or doing things with your five senses (What can you physically feel right now? What do you hear? What’s something you can smell?). Narcissism and gaslighting Narcissism and gaslighting go hand in hand. They like telling themselves they’re better than other people, that they’re superior. So if they’re feeling fragile or terrified, their way of defending against that is to act in ways that are very controlling. They have a need for attention, and sometimes they’re willing to get that attention in terrible ways, like gaslighting. What to do If you recognize that this is happening in your relationship, do not confront the perpetrator. Don’t think that you’re going to be able to change them or their behaviors by going toe to toe with them. Find a therapist who can help you work through this, but do not search on your home devices, in case they’re being monitored. Do not go to couples therapy. Go to individual therapy. The way couples therapy is held, it may enable the abuser even more — so this is something you need to do on your own. As an added note, be sure to go to a therapist instead of friends or family. A narcissist who gaslights will tend to rally people to back them up, and they’re very good at making sure these things happen behind closed doors so it’s your word against theirs. Helping someone else If you realize someone else is being gaslighted, be very mindful of not putting them in a situation that’s dangerous. Do not contact, confront, or engage the abuser in any way. When you bring it up, allow for a place of openness and transparency and no judgment. Do not validate the abuse, but validate their feelings and let them know this is safe and you love them unconditionally. Resources Meredith Shirey (LinkedIn) Meredith Shirey (Website) Psychology Today
— Read on francisfinancial.libsyn.com/what-to-do-if-youre-being-gaslighted-with-meredith-shirey

Jailed woman gives birth alone, public defender says | Miami Herald

This is a reality , that happens often , death , abuses that

are hidden , or found at no fault , no responsibility

of such inhumane abuses.

Justified for her speaking up and blogging .

1st Amendment Fail .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

A mentally ill woman jailed in Broward County gave birth last month alone in her cell without the help of medical personnel despite jailers knowing of her condition, the Broward Public Defender said in a letter to the sheriff.
— Read on www.miamiherald.com/news/local/community/broward/article230002894.html

Scapegoat : I had no idea it would go so far , trounce another generation 2 as well.

Ending this , is difficult, given the length and intensity

of the acceptance of erroneous information, drama

and hysteria , that lacks reason.. effectively having

revealed it self , and there is naught to do, but see

it through ..

Will I be heard ? Will I trigger some? Will retaliation be

the normal response ?

All is in perfect order ..

Revelations , open the wound to be healed , the best choice

and the free will to do what one chooses .

It was part of my experience in becoming

myself , interested , instead of the fractured , dislocated

disposed of , I know my dimensions ..And

what’s brought me to my knees time and time

again is love .

And light .

I am ever Thankful for this post of truth , the

Shadow , the deep study , taking time and

responsibility in transforming his life

as aiding others by sharing his experience .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

narcsite.com/2019/04/24/scapegoat-10/

Should “Parental Alienation” Be Criminalized? | Psychology Today

Yes

There may need to be consequences for a “parentectomy,” but criminalization is not the best route.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inside-the-criminal-mind/201905/should-parental-alienation-be-criminalized

School Cop Who Received Oral Sex From A Child Won’t Have To Register As Sex Offender – Black Main Street

Uncle , died horribly , no breath …

This officer’s fate will be other , that legal s blind eye

which will come back to bite legal in the ass.

Transforming the Insanity of this Evil .

Bank on it , it’s over ..

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

School Cop Who Received Oral Sex From A Child Won’t Have To Register As Sex Offender – Black Main Street
— Read on blackmainstreet.net/school-cop-received-oral-sex-child-wont-register-sex-offender/

Narcissist Father ? Save your child .

Again, I really had intense heart reaction

hearing what I sensed, too late .

It was a detached family trait, but

for 1 , for my time spent in the company

of..

I did not mind sitting at family diners

at the kids table ..it was a version of

family that was plastic and of course

I was treated like the surrogate , beneath

any honor , kindness , just tolerated .

Far too much within these traits ..

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

www.youtube.com/watch

Little Shaman ~ Narcissist & Children

This was disturbing , very much so..

I will have to watch it again, for clarity

and towards writing for a submission ,

before mid month ..

I am Thankful for this information .

Blessing on you Taurus New Moon.

It is my Moon’s home, balanced

harmonious , all home should be

in peace ..

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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