Tag: marriage
Partnership : Triangles fail
Your partner should be your BEST FRIEND.
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No one takes presidence over your lover.
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Not mom. Not dad. Not the homies or the girls you’ve known since kindergarten.
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Your lover should be where you go in every season. Good days. Shit days. Sunshine or rain, your lover is HOME.
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I hear so many men talk shit on their “old lady”. How she’s this or that, nags and bitches about everything. I see women sipping martinis and cackling about him.
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Nothing is more sacred than the UNION between lovers.
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Nothing is more POWERFUL than that bond.
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NO ONE, regardless of blood or time known comes above your lover. EVER… the second you allow anyone in between you two is the second you crack your own foundation. The second you take your problems, concerns or frustrations to anyone outside of your UNION is the moment in time you alienate that trust and bond.
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I love my family and my friends, but my wife comes before all. My ideas and passions and fears and frustrations land with her above all else. Concerns with our connection don’t go to a Theripist or fellas on the golf course, they go to my queen.
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I made a vow when I committed to my queen. Fuck the paper and the “legality”, I gave my word to my queen that she would be my partner and my best friend. That I would give her everything regardless of its intensity, depth, or emotional charge.
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I have friends and family and acquaintances, all of whom I cherish and love, but my queen is my queen. She sits beside me and holds the keys to the kingdom. She knows my heart when it’s softened and when it rages. She gets ALL OF ME long before I give even a piece of me to anyone else.
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Friends, your partner is your greatest advocate. Your partner is the builder of the same foundation your home is being built on. Are you edifying and strengthening that foundation, or chipping away at the foundation? Because if the house falls, you both end up on the street.
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A union with a lover is STRENGTH. It is RADICAL POWER. Giving another human the keys isn’t weakness or scary, it’s liberating and divine.
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Fear comes from the unknown.
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Make your heart KNOWN. Make your union SACRED. Make your union the source of POWER that nothing can shake.
Intimacy Without Responsibility | DailyOM
To be responsible is to respond , and I used to be overly
responsive , and weighted down with caregiving while
receiving little to none , which repeated childhood
lessons ..
Targeted “softly” from the get go, it became undeniable
personal experiences.
Discrimination , corrupting poison taking form in
legal chemical addiction via AMA , Big Pharma
and a legal system and government tricledowns of
revenue supporting the partner who had favored
representation . Erasing Families for profit , ignoring
glaring omissions of distortion and abuse , adding to
trauma and abuse as well as financial loss ,
plus the social stigma deepening the trauma and
isolation in divorce .
The systems are flawed deeply , corrupt .
Its not been balanced for generations , responding in
responsibility and we are on the eve of birthing the
more equitable solution preventing the horrors of
Family Law , CHIPS and Child Immigration Services
which DO much harm ..
Intimacy is trusting , communication , responding , compassion and care equitably …
💯 Blessings & Peace
Dona Luna
Woman’s OBGYN told her she needed her husband’s permission to get her tubes tied…in 2020
They wouldn’t sign off on the procedure without permission from her husband.
— Read on megaphone.upworthy.com/p/obgyn-husband-permission-tubes-tied
Medicated Darkness gave me the awareness of just how Dark partner was, off/on..
The Smear Campaigns of the Narcissist
Rocking this , I am the abuser, whore, unworthy snake
and he is long suffering victim .. Family and friends supporting
him, have heard the lies , enjoyed his favor , in black and white
that has been fabricated …like a spiral it just gathers momentum
the shaming and blaming , sick punishment as the gloating pride
often laughing at the win ,the power, the control, often stating
the blame was mine ..
Flying Monkeys , His Monkeys encourage attacks , by all around
him, in his circus towards his target .
I stepped out of this energetic , business and liberating our family
and generations of Domestic & Child Abuse . WE are many …mighty
and Divinely Guided …🙏🥰💗
Come to think of it , I’m no damn Domestic
#IntimatePartnerViolence/ChildAbuse
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Blessings & Peace ,
DonaLuna
The Hovering Of Narcissist
With more plays and twist and turns than an Agatha Christie novel
the stories he believed in so deeply , and still does …I became aware
early on of the deep sensitivity and unknowing, revealing little , but
projecting the strength of a consciousness man . Very quickly
After I Do’s and baby announcement , sensitively vacated .
Sharing this fear and toxicity of shame unhealed , influenced daily
by his main female teammate , I was the outsider .. My respect for him
was threatened , a year in quashed and my nightmare masked
for reasons I am going to post later .. secrets he considered worthy
of my death after destruction …as his energy ebbs, he continues
Revelations of truths , the lies and actions that destroyed 4 others right
to love , in peace and Harmony .
Huge breach of Universal Law
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Doña Luna
Narcissist Generated Love Triangles. Prevention worthy
Erasing Families : Holiday Message 😘🎄🥳
All of the volunteers at Erasing Family wish Everyone a Safe and blessed holiday! We encourage you to send a thoughtful note and invitation to your child; underneath their pain your children still love you. For children who have been erased, your parents love you. No matter how long it has been, it’s never too late to start fresh. We know how painful it is for kids to miss a parent and their family; and for parents to miss their children. It’s time to heal! Join us in shining light and solutions to awaken the world. Everyone needs more love and children need the love of both parents; let’s do this!❤️🙏❤️
Independence Day Martina McBride
This song came to mind , upon an update from a deserving
soul , who is liberating themselves today …
In homage to those who have been empowered to remove
themselves from harms way , and those who deserve support
derived from this soul who had to do it the hard way
but today feels nothing but independence from generations
of abuse .. Supported by spirit , by ancestors who did not
fare well in matters of children and marriage , finances
home , and AMA APA …socially …clearing this is amazing .
My intent was for a clearing for my earth family , each
unique son Divine graced me with , as well as myself .
I mourned for what I missed, what I lost , what was abused
and Bless my former self , whose fragments are less tragic
in lieu of the many gifts I have received and many of those
are intangible .
I would have never knowingly married anyone who was
masking trauma, addiction, etc who would harm me
or our children . My deepest , darkest pain has been
transformed , resulting in a purity of love and promise
the life I dreamed of , on my own with Beloved’s
love and respect ..new year , new beginnings ..
Truth is Light that is Love
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Blessings & Peace
Doña Luna
Honoring a very long goodbye 👋
Independence Day ,
GreatCosmicMothersUnite 