Better Man – Clint Black

It was early on , in his career, when I witnessed Clint

Black in concert , which was pretty awesome .

This song Better Man, is an enlightened divine masculine

and his clarity in such a strong voice spoke to me

in the past .

Preferably, how transformations will bring acknowledgement

and implementing of a higher manner , less anger , and

awareness of divine feminine energy in less competitive

and controlling equality ..

Grasping our unique missions , individually and collectively

whilst being supported , utilizing the very best, transforming

the negatives of past with facts, truths , and healing via

empowering …

The delicious signs are all around , of healing , of awakenings

of truths with held .. Even in this frigid weather , Sun shines

to love is my Pisces ♓️ Nature …To receive is Divine’s Message

I can be loving without overdoing , which was ongoing lessons

allowing the end of painful experiences.. Me first , has never

been my gig , withdrawal was for balance , retreat , and sadly

seldom have I mattered enough for support in horrific situations

within family ..As a veteran of that imbalance , discernment

and faith in Divine who does hear my prayers and reveals

each and every day , just how much I matter , and to continue

my liberation that provides the foundation .

Perhaps as a better wo’man , the better man will arrive in

vibration , liberated from his past , and leaping forward in

sacred friendship with space for growth , all round .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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From a Dad who has been targeted , hang strong for your kids

On another thread there is a discussion of Ted Talks, get this human a Ted Talk. That is an excellent description of both the situation and what parents can do, at least as far as the broken mental health and legal systems will allow the parents to do.

Get this guy a Ted Talk. Oh wait, he’s already available on YouTube. Anyone anytime can hear this. They just don’t care. Sloth, laziness, apathy, exploitation… they don’t care.

He’s my Ted Talk, I’m posting a link to this personal “Ted Talk” of a dad on my website. We have enough “experts.” He’s an expert. He knows this pathology well.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychology, PSY 18857

youtu.be/XHZ92KthccQ

Erasing Families : Holiday Message 😘🎄🥳

All of the volunteers at Erasing Family wish Everyone a Safe and blessed holiday! We encourage you to send a thoughtful note and invitation to your child; underneath their pain your children still love you. For children who have been erased, your parents love you. No matter how long it has been, it’s never too late to start fresh. We know how painful it is for kids to miss a parent and their family; and for parents to miss their children. It’s time to heal! Join us in shining light and solutions to awaken the world. Everyone needs more love and children need the love of both parents; let’s do this!❤️🙏❤️

Independence Day Martina McBride

This song came to mind , upon an update from a deserving

soul , who is liberating themselves today …

In homage to those who have been empowered to remove

themselves from harms way , and those who deserve support

derived from this soul who had to do it the hard way

but today feels nothing but independence from generations

of abuse .. Supported by spirit , by ancestors who did not

fare well in matters of children and marriage , finances

home , and AMA APA …socially …clearing this is amazing .

My intent was for a clearing for my earth family , each

unique son Divine graced me with , as well as myself .

I mourned for what I missed, what I lost , what was abused

and Bless my former self , whose fragments are less tragic

in lieu of the many gifts I have received and many of those

are intangible .

I would have never knowingly married anyone who was

masking trauma, addiction, etc who would harm me

or our children . My deepest , darkest pain has been

transformed , resulting in a purity of love and promise

the life I dreamed of , on my own with Beloved’s

love and respect ..new year , new beginnings ..

Truth is Light that is Love

©️

Blessings & Peace

Doña Luna

Honoring a very long goodbye 👋

Independence Day ,

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The Narcissist Always Over Idealizes Each New Partner 🎅🏼

Indeed , or at least that’s the social projection .

Extremely chummy right from the get go , I

recall meeting his roommate/childhood friend

1st , so it could have been one up man’s ship.

Plus I had pots and pans , could keep house

and he had not done that yet.. my caregiving

my empathy , and having no true reason to

doubt , or to over react to behaviors I had noted

as extremely angry and abusive in brothers

which I did not heal nor comprehend in its

totality until Dad’s exit began in Aug 2011…

The healing has been happening over a long

time .. I had synced with Dad as my main

nurturer , and extra sensitive to his mood , sense

deep and profound pain and shadow that he had

no resources for , and much shame and guilt

for ..

I have never known the shame or guilt for his very

open relationships , out of towners , my own sister

and god knows who else.

As he joined in union , then exited our home , he

was delirious with joy, a younger , more attractive

more adversary, partner who would be by his side

as twins , enjoying the increased targeting and abuse

while binding our sons closer and tighter in a web

of lies that’s been unraveling .

Like crumbs he leaves a trail.. Regrettably Reclamation

requires the truth , n light and apparently he’s been

inoculated.

But he does have a new gal ❤️.

This clearing includes them as well, if he chooses to accept this .

Blessings & Peace ,🙏❤️🥰

©️

Doña Luna

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Narcissist have No Loyalty to Anyone Anything – Trevor J. Freeman

This was masked , and over time became apparent

though very loyal in all appearances and actions

the negative language of mom , and much later

his 3rd person stories of his cheating .. Calling

him out on every lie or weirdness would have

consumed me.. As we were rushed in to parenthood

my blessing , his nightmare , and the decent in acknowledging

his deep detachment .. I did see growth, then it was

shadow again.. sensing he held a lot of pain, but he

never shared deeply , only this behavior described

in the video. It was dank and haunting , as a possessive

man, I was well aware of my chances in a divorce .

Causal and Toxic till the end …

©️Doña Luna

Blessings & Peace 🎄🎁🥳

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Writing – Laura K. Kerr, PhD

I have followed and emailed back and forth Laura

who is extremely wise and very through in

all of her efforts .

Writing – Laura K. Kerr, PhD
— Read on www.laurakkerr.com/writing/

Smile by Judy Garland

Far from gloom and doom , I find my heart smiles

these days growing and expanding in peace and

harmony with as much as possible.

Awareness of deep pain, or covert mask has been

augmented , and thus in the healing process.

Awareness of shadow , and abilities to transform it

returning to comfort in heart , and mind , still contends

with body .. tweaking my diet plus clearing past

travesties of justice for sons and I , a few confidants

whom I treasure , as I’m on my own..I am in awe

and grateful beyond measure .

Smiles that greet me , hug my soul as I am received in

welcome … home…I am where I need and want to be

with great expectations of experiencing cheeks that ache

from smiling …eyes that are like waterfalls with tears

of release , equal to smiles …an ocean of tears

and fears/anger transformed , transmuted to love , and in

that peace ☮️..authentic smiles are cellular

All is well with my soul 🥰✊

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Smile by Judy Garland

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