Tag: family
Grandparents
Joy in 3
my sister and I visited recently and as I shared recent
pictures of youngest son, we both broke out in tears
due to his current bald head .
Clearly he is returning to his original hair status lol
Such a beautiful joy filling loving depiction captured
35 years ago.. Beauty and Light 🥰
‘Why Family/CPS Courts Target ‘Fit’ Parents & Why the General Public is Unaware of this National Crisis’ (short version) | HuffPost
“Rich, poor, middle-class — no child in America is safe.” These words of award-winning investigative journalist Keith Harmon Snow (author of The Worst In… I am crying , rejoicing.. #WeGotThis
— Read on www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/why-familycps-courts-target-fit-parents-why-the_us_59cf1dc2e4b034ae778d4ab1
Love for the Father n The Son , Vince Gill, Allison Kris’s, & Ricky Scaggs
My offering to Dad , always my truth, and his to me
As much as possible .
That became intense in his decline as I cleared enough
to be present for him. Failures were not anticipated
as shadow fought and won on levels , that light could not
yet transform.
That time is here, and so for all Fathers and all Sons
the Divinity of masculine healing began March 15
in a 3 year intensive . We shall hold you but not hold
on to you , as you rise , doing no harm😍
Dad is rocking this ! And so I rejoice that he ” made it”
in the highest possible Divinity despite the adversity
that tested him , all his days 🥰
I Believe
I Believe – Shout out to “Booty” , My 1st Divine Love ❤️ 1st to Exit
I chose this song for the celebration of Dad’s life
which is where I stayed openly. I reserved the release
of his physical form for privacy , and still do.
More than ever , I Believe, speaks to the miracles
that we are , against odds that try our souls , so many
Beloveds share their experience of receiving love
and guidance , everlasting .
He is here, and he’s proud on so many levels , that
truth n light, n love 💝 has won.
Love ya Dad ,
Forever n Ever , A -men
Why men abuse women and what makes them stop | Stop Abuse Campaign
WaterWorks (tears) in many truths exposed here .
It’s surreal that truth on this shadow is liberating
so many , that they may evoke light n healing .
Let go, We shall catch you in a love hug 🤗 of understanding
#WeGotThis
Four decades after domestic violence first became a public issue our courts still don’t understand why men abuse women. That’s dangerous for children.
— Read on stopabusecampaign.org/2019/01/03/why-men-abuse-women-and-what-makes-them-stop/
Middle school reduces bad behavior dramatically with ‘reverse suspensions’ that invite parents to school when students misbehave – TheBlaze
“Who as a parent wants to sit in class? It’s embarrassing.”
— Read on www.theblaze.com/news/2016/05/02/middle-school-reduces-bad-behavior-dramatically-with-reverse-suspensions-that-invite-parents-to-school-when-students-misbehave
Raising overcomers: How to teach your kids to do hard things – Motherly
Incoroperative Biased Elitist Critic Won Long Before I arrived
I was allowed to participate in a family , that I reproduce
and surrogate his children, who defer to the path projected
as safe and true .
Land Minds trigger and trip that belief , and finally it’s
truth in disclosure that releases old contracts that were
not reality based ..lack of authentic self has been
reconciled as shadow was highlighted by 💡
I haven’t taught any of my children to ride a bike. Not one of the four.I’ve helped, for sure. I’ve held on to the seat and steadied them while they will their bodies to balance and their feet to push the pedals, but my husband has always been the one to let go of the seat and enable their independe…
— Read on www.mother.ly/child/raising-overcomers-how-to-teach-your-kids-to-do-hard-things
J.A. Wheeler , Celebrating the birth and life of Dad😘❤️
My ” mom/dad” , nurturing Dad , James , who exited
in January 2012, and whose birthing day was January
5 th , 1930. I was born Feb 29 , 1952, his desire for a son
first time child with Mom, Joyce . Mom had a daughter
who was born on Feb 29th 1948, whom was 1 year
old at the time of their marriage March 4 th 1949
In 1951, Mom was rejected by OB as being in labor
and spontaneously delivered Joyce Marie in 1951,
who had died and begun signs of decomposing
Dad explained . Blisters on her body , which is
buried , unmarked in the ancestral church grave
yard ..
I was born in 52, and I’m sure Mom had C-PTSD
and my inability to nurse ,regrettably created
more grief and shame . I had to be returned to the
hospital , severely dehydrated , 5 days after birth.
Dad explained that Mom’s had been unable to
nurture me, and if he had not nurtured me
no one else would have .
I was very happy to have the awareness that he
was slipping away , slowly and we talked of
heart matters and cleared so much , that lacked
only his being made aware , as I did from child
hood on. One pop from his belt , left one mark
and I stood up to him at that time , aged 4/5
and he never ever used physical violence
against me.
He may not have understood me , always but
he wasn’t vicious , or silently withdrawn , we
cleared our stuff and moved onward , never
brought up again.
His last years , were of lifting from a depression
of Mom’s exit in 1999. His restricted life was
a form of self protection , and withdrawal from
family members he came to be reunited with
his last years..The last 5 1/2 months , were high
low and everything between, until his finale .
The growth , the healing, the love as well
as undeniable realities , will lend themselves
to my efforts in transformation , as I witnessed
denial of dignity , and much adverse action
that’s is barbaric . I grasp that it was after-all his
his journey , and I was but a part of it.
The dynamics allowed me to understand my
” caregiving ” was and is instinctive , and
more on mark than not , and the Divinity
and Light of my essence was always tested
in a family , that’s fractured traumatic parts
are denied , and that allowed my poor choices
and failures to escape the mindset of energy
of compliance to abuse in male dominate
examples, ie ” former” ..
I’m not the ” fixer” , it’s not my job , but the
experience of being with Dad as he exited
watching his awareness of spirit guides
and his acceptance , as I witnessed his ” labor”
in returning to the womb of the great mother
my joy was absolute for I knew he would return
as he has in spirit. Our circle , will not be
broken, and he will present in another form,
as he pledged to me , and I to him , as “family
soul mates ” , I His ” Mom, and emotional partner
who grasped his deepest joy and pain, as it
came up in loudness, or harshness or anger ,
his lack of understanding , helplessness
and yes his failings and unhealed trauma ..
We nurtured each other , and it wasn’t grasped
in a dynamic of not communication basic life
issues , and silently approved of disenchantments
and divisions within families .
With Dad’s exit , I stepped away from ” family”
withholders, and abuses that defy what my
perception of family is..
Certainly many ” triggered” acts that related to
” formers” disposal/abuses as if from a play book,
and finally much can be put to rights .
And that gift 🎁, from Dad to me, was not to give
up.. truth and light did , and still do cast away
shadows ; James (supplementor) Abner( Father Of
Light) Wheeler ( wheelwright) was transforming
and transformed from moral suffering , very passionate
and attached , who missed his Mom, Minnie
and felt Mom’s presence and essence until
he exited. Time stopped for him with her passing
as I witnessed in preparing their home for
organization , and ease in preparing , finding
treasures along the way , sharing with him
then siblings ..
Challenges were many , but I know, that he
knows I did my best; he lets me know👍🏼🤓♥️
So missing his actual voice , or physical
presence is tempered by his freedom from
the constraints and trauma and torture of
our current transformation , towards heaven
on earth , I fully expected to be reunited with
Dad , and Mom, on a cosmic level for a reunion
of joy , and bliss that will include many souls
gone before me ..
Happy Birthday Daddy
Love Always & Forever
Punkin’
GreatCosmicMothersUnite 