Pope Francis says Jesus is not our hope, Mary and the Mother Church are

โœ”๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฏ Pope Francis says Jesus is not our hope, Mary and the Mother Church are Pope Francis, speaking to mark the occasion of the Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows in
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What Narcissist Abuse Effect , affect an Empathetic , loving ๐Ÿฅฐ individual

afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2019/09/02/narcissism-101-there-are-no-adequate-words-to-describe-the-feeling-of-what-this-abuse-does-to-a-good-sane-and-loving-person-of-empathy/

Extra arts education boosts studentsโ€™ writing scores โ€”ย and their compassion, big new study finds

One of the largest gold-standard studies on arts education ever conducted finds measurable benefits to giving students more music, theater, and dance.
โ€” Read on www.chalkbeat.org/posts/us/2019/02/12/study-arts-education-boosted-compassion-and-writing-scores/

Stuck ?! : No More. No more Middles ๐Ÿ‘โ˜ฎ๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Stuck In The Middle With You –

The energy of the past few days has been strange

with realities , that create a need for , a demand for

solitude ..One that I am beginning to consider my

life time commitment to.๐Ÿ˜Ž

I certainly understand people being people , and

into their own stuff .. I have enjoyed some nature

time with a few friends , who rarely initiate , and

I have chosen to not participate , any longer .

With a 40 plus cycle ending , that included many

jokers , clowns and masked people who may as

well be aliens for the advantage and abuses

against me , our children and grandchildren .

Today , I feel on my own , certainly guided by Divine

and note it’s always been so, and I accept it shall ever be.

I have known higher love, and have allowed higher love

to heal me .. Almost since my heart accepted Jesus , and

I sang , this little light , a force began to test that my light .

Today , I know it , I own it , without force , but great joy

and acceptance , that in removing all from me , Spirit

still remained and guided my recovery . I learned through

much heartache and heart break, lessons so freakish , so

out there , so inhumane …while hardly anyone else noted

or mumbled dismissal of blatant abuses , that seemed destined

to continue with each breath of the one whose focus is my

physical death ..

That I , survived cruelties that were allowed as an example

of my worth, my value to 3 souls .. times 6 now to appease

an elder of funds thus power , and her child who brutally

abused and used me as leverage with each other , a surrogate

for male heirs , an appearance of normalcy to the outside

world .

The shame and blame were omnipresent , as if a religion

projections of not being good enough that was perfection

by the time psychiatry gifted them , my induced Bipolar

which signaled a get out of marriage , family , as free

as possible ..

Bodies do talk and mine screamed , internally , for not

one word , was heard , nor mattered once I became

a legalized Big Pharma addict .. Malleable that an end

should be as former wished , indeed taking 5 years to

enact an exit .

Little of it was lost on me, only the Devil and his Details

a new beginning for happiness , and no concerns or

worry or love lost as he promised friendship , that never

actually was a reality .

That reality and happy faded very quickly but an investment

had been made , and barely a shadow of her former self , she

left …Kudos .. However , I never blamed her totally , as she too

was casually used to produce abuses , which included my

not being allowed in any space she might be , especially

where our sons were concerned . Her image was of wife

and mother of our sons , whom she screamed at me found

me fat, lazy, crazy and wanted nothing to do with me .

Trauma that existed , was enhanced living a life of detachment

that was and always be self absorbed , lacking consciousness

or love .. Embarking yet again , for a cup that is never full .

The Monkey and his circus are endangered .. our sons as are

many are awakening to the facts , which indeed can be pain-filled.

We are made for these times ..

I released the eternal partiers , the non reciprocal friends , the hug-less

the bound , restricted take no prisoner projectionist , who have

nada to offer me , as I did the earth family , that remained after

the vulgar display of family values …as I long ago rejected

that I was unfit , but lacking in blind support of an immorality

in a marriage that has been spun in shadow so dank , and dark

an exhumation is demanded , a requirement for stepping out

of the nightmare of abuses , with desire to continue until my

last breath .

Tonight I sit alone , I will sleep alone , but I feel no lack only

comfort that I am not stuck in the middle of anything .

My place is not in the middle .

I am ever grateful to the Karmic ladies , those whose

goal, game effort are to possess the man I favor

for they take on the whole of that dark matter

and rarely last .. Former was done way before she

became ill, but held on. His causal , fun , rover life

style didn’t change , he had a home that deceived

irregular , non normal people and activities.

His secret clubs , still secret .. A double life , always

With dire results , an ending is justified ; closure

and all the masked , all the deceits , all the abuses

are Karmic boomerangs…

I am lucky to have noted long ago , when I went

against Divine , Karmic lessons followed often

so heart and head co joined , I am patient

as thy will be done , surrendered to all that

is , all that will be . Love , and Heaven on Earth

are here .. Seeing that in another , his witness

of mine … Meeting delicious new soul connections

as residence reveals change is not an option

for others …๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

Our train, our bags , our faith is not in

others but of our selves .

Non Delusional Pisces โ™“๏ธ

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Indigenous matriarchs stand together in dark times | National Observer

A group of eight North American Indigenous elder women, weathered in front-line resistance, fluent in their languages and rich in traditional teachings, have joined forces to protect the sacred knowledge needed for future generations to face a climate in crisis. 
โ€” Read on www.nationalobserver.com/2019/05/07/features/indigenous-matriarchs-stand-together-dark-times

Pediatricians: Black Children Suffer Significantly From Racism | | BlackPressUSA

NEW TRI-STATE DEFENDER โ€” Surprise! Racismโ€”that “thing” white people say doesn’t existโ€”has dire long-term effects on the health of black children and adolescents
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How to Contact Your Higher Self Alan Watts ๐Ÿ‘ Virtue ๐ŸŒŽBreeding

Interference of Nature discussed .

Choice , Variety, as nature provided , not selecting by , or induced

by with non nature , only greed, and control .

So Thankful that lower energy is being transmuted , vaporized

poof ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ‘

Tie a knot in the end of your rope and hold on.

ยฉ๏ธ

Blessings & Peace ,

Doรฑa Luna

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Childress: Absence Of Parental Empathy Profoundly Damages Child ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

The absence of parental empathy is profoundly damaging for the child.

A damaged and manipulative parent turns the child into a weapon of revenge against the other spouse. This severely damages the child. It’s psychological child abuse.

The manipulation is strong. The court, therapists… the other parent, all focus on the child. This is spousal abuse, why is everyone looking at the weapon and not at the abuse?

The allied parent’s manipulations empower the child’s “voice” in the conflict – “we need to listen to the child’s voice” – it says. The child speaks false. Some believe the false, while others see the lie, but the conflict swirls around the child, the child is the focus, that’s the purpose, that’s the lie, make the child a battlefield.

When the lie is placed in the child, the parents battle – using the child – for the truth or the lie, one parent seeks the truth from the child, the other parent seeks the lie.

The child is the battlefield.

No one stops. Both “sides” are trying to win. For the targeted parent, it is literally a matter of life and death, if they lose, they lose the child, they become “dead” to their child. Naturally they will fight for their child… which is what the pathogen wants… the child is the battlefield.

A masterful manipulation. The court… focuses on the child. The custody evaluator, focuses on the child. The reunification therapist, focuses on the child. The targeted parent… fights for the child. The focus is on the child.

The child is the battlefield. A masterful manipulation.

We must not allow the lie to make the child a battlefield.

I know targeted parents want to “fight” for the child – but our “weapon” is empathy, authentic empathy, for the child’s self-authenticity, this will release the child from the manipulation and the lie. The directional flow of love is from parent to child, not the other way.

The current flow of love from child to parent is surface bumpy right now, but solid, I’m not worried about that direction. Easy to fix what’s on display from that direction.

I know what the child is saying and doing. None of that is true. It’s easy to find the flow of love from the child to the parent, the one we want is from parent to child.

I’m not going to make the child a battlefield over the manipulation. I’m not going to play, pathogen. Different game. Called empathy, authentic empathy.

We recover by finding, not by fighting.

Not your fault, parents. You’re supposed to have family therapists supporting you in all of this, and all of this should be getting fixed by the mental health people in six months, all done, all fixed.

We’re failing you. Professional psychology is failing you and your children.

I am very-very cross with my professional colleagues for not fixing this. We will get you the help and support you need to unlock the manipulation and unlock the lie.

You’re trying to do it on your own, and it is a masterful manipulation based on many subtle lies. It is entrapping you into fighting (defending), and it is entrapping everyone into a focus on the child.

This is not about the child, it’s about the targeted parent. This is IPV spousal abuse of the ex-spouse targeted parent by the allied parent, using the child as the weapon. The child is not the focus, the child is the weapon.

The target is… the targeted parent, targeted for severe and savage emotional abuse by the ex-spouse/allied parent, using the child as the weapon.

Our focus needs to be off the lie that is being placed into the child, and our true vision must see the authentic child, that vision is called our authentic empathy.

The pathogen in the other parent knows your triggers, knows how to activate you into fighting. It puts those triggers into the child. You respond, you fight… with your ex-… in your child… your child is the battlefield.

It is a manipulation of you. Masterful manipulation. The triggers are so embedded, and so available. Alter your triggers.

The pathogen knows where your buttons are, your ex- knows exactly what to export into the child to push those buttons, and trigger the spousal fight through the child, the child becomes the battlefield.

Shift those buttons. Lose them, hide them, make them go away… because currently, your ex- knows exactly what those triggers are. Please stop being triggered.

How?

Exactly. That is exactly the right question that will put you exactly on the proper path.

When you alter how you show up… it changes the corresponding puzzle-piece of your child, change the other by changing me, changing how I show up for my child.

Fears. It’s all born in fears, this is a trauma pathology, and trauma is a pathology of fear, unresolved fear seeking to protect itself against the enemy. Trauma is a fear-oriented brain.

Healthy is an attachment, reaching out, bonding brain. It is a relaxed brain that allows others close, and bonds easily.

Fear destroys that, and it feeds itself. We need one of you, the child or the parent, to find and remain outside fear and in the healthy brain of attachment, reaching out, and bonding.

You’re the parent, that’s you. That’s your responsibility, not the child’s, the child’s a child, you’re the grown-up, that’s you, you’re the chosen parent. I want you to find your healthy place of relaxed.

You’re child is easy to recover. It’s you that’s hard. You’re made afraid by the manipulation, all your proper buttons have been pushed in you by your ex-… using the child.

The battlefield is a lie, it’s not real. You make it real because you believe it. The child loves you bunches and bunches, I know what the child’s saying, it’s not true, it’s the lie. And you believe that? No, don’t believe the lie.

Stay here, in reality. Your child loves you bunches, your ex- is pushing your buttons using the child. Why are you letting them do that? Please stop letting them do that. Move your buttons, make them go away, paint them different colors, something.

Because your ex- knows right where they are and is using your buttons to manipulate you using the child.

Children are not a battlefield. They are children. Don’t be triggered into your fears, stay grounded in your relaxed place of empathy, authentic empathy for the child’s experience.

You’ll hear much of Dorcy’s language in my descriptions. There are resources available to help in the reorientation to empathy, and away from the lie. She’ll help you find those resources.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

1619 commemoration: Hampton family traces back to first black child born in Va. | WAVY.com

How cool is this ?

The Tucker family has spent years researching and digging into their lineage after hearing from older family members they may be related to the first documented African child born in the Virginia colony.
โ€” Read on www.wavy.com/news/national/1619-commemoration-hampton-family-traces-back-to-first-black-child-born-in-va/