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Monsters Are Real : Listen
MONSTERS ARE REAL
On Monday, Billy didn’t have his homework
And when the teacher asked him why
He said, “Because a monster ripped it up,
After I told him a lie.”
“You know monsters don’t exist,
And if you don’t turn in your homework
No recess you will get
On Tuesday, Billy had a stomachache
And when the teacher asked him why
He said, “A monster took away my dinner,
even my cherry pie.”
“Billy, I’ve told you once before,
Monsters are not real.
You’ll have to wait till lunchtime
Before you get a meal.”
On Wednesday, Billy had a bandage,
Which covered his right eye.
When the teacher asked him how it happened,
This was his reply:
“A monster was running after me
When I ran into the door:”
“Billy please,” the teacher said,
“I don’t want to hear any more.”
On Thursday, Billy refused to sit down,
And when the teacher asked him why,
Billy said, “A monster whipped my bottom,
Because I started to cry,”
“Billy, said the teacher,
” this is getting out of hand,
And if you continue with these stories,
In the corner you will stand.”
On Friday, Billy didn’t come to school,
And when the teacher found out why,
She said a little prayer to God
In hopes Billy would survive.
For a monster had beaten Billy
and threatened him with a knife.
Now Billy lay in a hospital bed,
Fighting for his life.
So teachers please remember,
That monsters are for real.
Listen closely to kids stories,
A wounded heart you may heal
Author Unknown…
*The Pain To Children is All Too Real… I found this and felt I had to share it!

Parental alienation: parents share messages they’ve sent to their alienated children – Kidspot
I’m told repeatedly that my text and phone calls
go to a dead file..It’s very important from me
to be told each time we do talk .. of course
“former” blocks or ignores efforts to reach
him of financial errors . He then randomly
calls after a time, with no reference to the
matter I messaged , offering he’s not sure why
he’s not getting my calls or text .. on money
shortages , he again ignores , always going
to the need for a building repair ( faulty design
by his choice ) as well as my entrapment in regard
to signing papers in a state of induced mental
illness. Brazenly suggesting a 30/50 k expenditure
to which I am responsible for 1/2 …
Holding children hostage to hide abuses ongoing
sanctioned by a culture adapted to social
suicide .
Being prevented from seeing or communicating with your child is a special kind of hell – but a parent’s love never dies.
— Read on www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/real-life/in-the-news/alienated-parents-share-unanswered-texts-to-their-kids-and-its-crushing/news-story/0f0cd0f0d1a202655bc944b913298891
To the Suicidal Mama Fighting to Stay Alive for Her Kids | The Mighty
A mom writes a letter to her fellow mama’s who struggle with suicidal thoughts, acknowledging the struggle of mental illness and motherhood and reminding them that they are heard and they should stay.
— Read on themighty.com/2017/12/mom-want-to-die-suicidal/
How To Talk To Your Kids About Sexual Abuse | HuffPost
Looking back on the Larry Nassar scandal, we spoke to experts about how to address these difficult issues with kids of all ages.
— Read on www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-to-talk-to-kids-sexual-abuse_us_5c3fac5ee4b027c3bbbdb667
No Visible Bruises: Domestic Violence and Traumatic Brain Injury | The New Yorker
In the first version of her story, Grace Costa says that, on the night after Christmas, in 2012, her ex-boyfriend broke into her house, hid behind her bedroom door, and then attacked her as she and her two grown children—a son and a daughter—were about to eat dinner. In the second version, it’s still the
— Read on www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/the-unseen-victims-of-traumatic-brain-injury-from-domestic-violence
Amid immigration debate, top teachers gather to protest child detention | PBS NewsHour
Some of the nation’s top teachers recently gathered in El Paso, Texas, to speak out against the government’s practice of detaining children who cross the U.S.-Mexico border. Dismissing the notion that they shouldn’t get involved in political advocacy, teachers said they see some U.S. policy and procedures as “abusive.” Special correspondent Kavitha Cardoza of Education Week reports.
— Read on www.pbs.org/newshour/show/amid-immigration-debate-top-teachers-gather-to-protest-child-detention
13 Signs It’s Time to Build Some Goddamn Self-Respect (Stop Being Used) ⋆ LonerWolf
This was hard ..
Without self-respect, we are susceptible to being used, abused, and mistreated by other people. Learn how to protect, honor, and take pride in yourself!
— Read on lonerwolf.com/self-respect/
Eggshell Relationships | Psychology Today
2Many Years Of this .
How can you recognize an emotionally unstable personality before he or she harms you?
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/spycatcher/201601/eggshell-relationships
Deported parents may lose kids to adoption, investigation finds
An Associated Press investigation identified holes in the system that allow judges to grant custody of migrant children to American families.
— Read on www.nbcnews.com/news/latino/deported-parents-may-lose-kids-adoption-investigation-finds-n918261
