Trauma/Shame ,clearing on high ; a very good thing 🤩🥰
Mary Lynn Bracht’s unique perspective focuses on the dark legacy of South Korea’s enforced prostitutes.
— Read on www.ozy.com/rising-stars/the-author-bringing-home-the-horror-of-comfort-women/92132
I can relate, I had many health and dental complications , the added effects of RX toxicity, years of triggers and events and memories to download and creating more , pushing myself so hard . I was so afraid, but little by little I realized I was far too drugged , far too into unhealthy eating, and damage by toxic RX , and holding profound abuse to my soul , of the entirety of my life that no one could know but me..So I began to unweave the fake parts and honor myself as a warrior who in time would stand in the light of truth , liberating millions of families who have been erased , which is ongoing in truth that has long deserved revealing .
Anger was a stage , and it was so adverse to my health , to my focus I stepped out of who I was to who I am… I have a preference for peace and harmony as well as debate 🤓 and discussions .. peaceful, easy silence works too ✔️
This perfectly explains the dynamics I have been
aware of since Mid year 1978 , after sharing our joy
and witnessing the immaturity , and projected
blame of a man who had known this dynamic for
his entire life.
Typically saving the storied that solidified a lifestyle
that afforded a connection to call and a resolution
to all acceptance of responsibility. As our children
were abused in GM’s care, I have no doubt of physical
and mental abuse that was supported by money as
a god. I was , along with our sons were considered a
drain , financially , and slowly that combined with
drink , and sex addictions, with adverse parenting that
was more ” uncle” that dad. Partnership was with the
mother, never me, nor the ” replacement” , and of course
neither were ” liked” by mom , only tolerated until
shredding the completion .
Affluence, memberships, religious afflictions , secrets abound
with the constant projection of blame at any target . Our sons
and DIL have been ” targeted ” as well, depending on what’s
going on at the time. Vampires, emotionally , spiritually
who choose to remain ignorant and defensive of any
and all responsibility , considering my demise completed
old history .. Hero’s , the mom and son, who ” saved ” our
children by killing me alive , to save their abuse secrets
lies, begetting more lies..
Very comfortable that money and connections are their
constant out, which has been supported by professionals
who choose to do that in a network of dank dark shadow.
Narcissists as parents create children who themselves can develop their own problems. New research shows how infantilization plays out when those children grow up.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201810/how-narcissistic-parents-infantilize-kids
This fall I had business with Suntrust , my former bank.
I took note of 3 males behind the counter of around age 25/30,
and 1 woman who came in from lunch , bearing the info
I needed ..
When SWAT got there, Xaver refused to allow them access to the victims.
— Read on news.vice.com/en_us/article/59xpdz/all-5-of-the-sebring-shooters-victims-were-women-police-chief-says
In the trying times now upon us , this becomes more prevalent,
more ghastly, in large part to the adversary driven professionals
who benefit from the fragmented relationships.
That belief has been very impressive in profit for the law, and
the family has been erased in competition , game playing
detachment and power.
Content warning: This article contains descriptions of domestic abuse and violence. It took just 15 minutes on 22 October 2014 for my world to end and my heart to be…
— Read on metro.co.uk/2019/01/22/after-he-cross-examined-me-the-courts-allowed-my-abusive-ex-to-see-our-sons-and-he-killed-them-8372846/
A law named after the horrific killing of Clare Wood will give women the right to force police into revealing a persons history of violence – which could save thousands of lives
— Read on www.thesun.co.uk/news/8236730/women-legal-right-new-domestic-violence-law/
Divorce is hard enough on children, but what if one parent tries to damage a child’s relationship with the other parent by saying untrue things and, in some severe cases, brainwashing the child.
— Read on www.abc27.com/investigators/investigations/parental-alienation-is-your-child-being-brainwashed-to-not-like-you/1723694671
Consequences
The essence of domestic violence is that abusers use a variety of tactics to scare and coerce their partners to do what the abuser wants. This results in the mother and children living in fear. There are ten adverse childhood experiences. In the context of a contested custody case, the child usually starts with a score of one for the parents separating, one for domestic violence and one for emotional abuse of the child. Fathers who abuse the mother are 40-60% more likely to also abuse the children physically and sexually. If both, that would increase the score to 5. If one or both parents have a substance abuse problem or mental illness those are two more possible points. Physical or emotional neglect are two more possibilities. Significantly all of the other ACEs are more likely when a father abuses a mother. An ACE score of 6 results in an average reduction in life expectancy of 20 years.
— Read on nomas.org/family-courts-protect-children-ace-vs-pas/
This article offers so much info, but I would urge caution, in
acceptance of terms that have become lucrative labels for
human begins that is discrimination.
My co dependence was my expectation of a partner , my Christian
and social conditioning that allowed me compliant , Xanax
and professional denial of my abuse , by a partner , whose
ownership is still a force in his mind .
Rendered incapacitated , by any illness , which limits in
clarity , participation , being targeted has been a vulgar
acceptance of immorality that left our sons in alignment
with my unworthiness..
Addicted, legally , our children grew up , with addicts in the
house , as all that was normal was rejected , my faith eroded
in detachment that was very necessary in opposition coming
at me, openly disputing co anything..
What is codependency and how can it affect people, how to recognize signs of codependency, and resources for learning more about and overcoming it.
— Read on positivepsychologyprogram.com/codependency-definition-signs-worksheets/
The past devaluation of rape , and life long ramifications , towards
anyone , of any gender, race , and age has been exposed as unimportant
from stockpiles of unprocessed rape kits , and being further abused
in a culture of profession acceptance .. Transforming this , will be
a community effort , in a consciousness that does not the rape,
of children, ( molestation seems to desensitize an act that overpowers
a child , doing much harm) .
Healing modalities , love and acceptance await , as we lift the bar
to reconnect with sacred soul contracts , ending so many doing
so much harm.
Last April, Justice Department office on violence against women began to narrowly redefine its basic concepts
— Read on www.salon.com/2019/01/23/trump-administration-quietly-changes-definition-of-domestic-violence-and-sexual-assault/
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