This perfectly explains the dynamics I have been
aware of since Mid year 1978 , after sharing our joy
and witnessing the immaturity , and projected
blame of a man who had known this dynamic for
his entire life.
Typically saving the storied that solidified a lifestyle
that afforded a connection to call and a resolution
to all acceptance of responsibility. As our children
were abused in GM’s care, I have no doubt of physical
and mental abuse that was supported by money as
a god. I was , along with our sons were considered a
drain , financially , and slowly that combined with
drink , and sex addictions, with adverse parenting that
was more ” uncle” that dad. Partnership was with the
mother, never me, nor the ” replacement” , and of course
neither were ” liked” by mom , only tolerated until
shredding the completion .
Affluence, memberships, religious afflictions , secrets abound
with the constant projection of blame at any target . Our sons
and DIL have been ” targeted ” as well, depending on what’s
going on at the time. Vampires, emotionally , spiritually
who choose to remain ignorant and defensive of any
and all responsibility , considering my demise completed
old history .. Hero’s , the mom and son, who ” saved ” our
children by killing me alive , to save their abuse secrets
lies, begetting more lies..
Very comfortable that money and connections are their
constant out, which has been supported by professionals
who choose to do that in a network of dank dark shadow.
Narcissists as parents create children who themselves can develop their own problems. New research shows how infantilization plays out when those children grow up.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201810/how-narcissistic-parents-infantilize-kids