Tag: marriage

After Abuse, a High-Priced Divorce Is the Next Trauma

Mine was 12k, he paid . His was most likely more.

Former partners , heard my D.A. , and I , legally

addicted mental patient , had 30 days to oppose

any language of a divorce , I was assured was gracious

for me for life .

2001 finale

Quattro in play years later due to professional failure .

Proud of their efforts to aide ex to keep as much as

possible of his money and his possessions . Sons

included ..his mind says I got property I did not deserve

he gets children and a coverup of corruption , that #erased

me from my family .

A high-priced divorce often follows domestic abuse, traumatizing survivors even more.
— Read on www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/after-abuse-a-high-priced-divorce-is-the-next-trauma

Narcissists Blame You for Their Cheating & Betrayal: Here’s Why | QueenBeeing Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support

3rd person usually , former stepped out of his own

stuff and discussed the betrayal story , naming a close

friend . It took me a long time to connect the dots ..

As a ” mental patient ” I learned of his effort to bed

a sister , who was 7 when we wed.

His reasoning included the compliment of ” her body

reminded me of yours …before kids ”

There are a lot of very frustrating moments with a

” marriage ” to such a lost soul , and I’m sure he believed

his stories , as if they happened . I didn’t trust him ,

but did not consider his other pursuits as fact , only

intuitive , as my body responded in many stress related

illness that were lost on professionals ..

In his world winning is everything , the only thing ,

is retaining power, money and truths , disregarding

anyone and everyone whose not adhering, supportive

and honors his needs , lessoned by the experience .

always spewing toxic shame and disposal.

Coming back at me , upping the ante , when faced with

financial indiscretions, a ploy utilized to effectively

shut me up …I choose to be honest and truthful

leaving a message , clearing and calmly pointing

out the trail , could not be wiped clean , all pointing

to the facts.

The force that separates , by force any child out of

a parent’s life is indeed a hate crime .

Boom !

Narcissists Blame You for Their Cheating & Betrayal: Here’s Why | QueenBeeing Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support
— Read on queenbeeing.com/narcissists-blame-you-for-their-cheating-betrayal-heres-why/

No Visible Bruises: Domestic Violence and Traumatic Brain Injury | The New Yorker

In the first version of her story, Grace Costa says that, on the night after Christmas, in 2012, her ex-boyfriend broke into her house, hid behind her bedroom door, and then attacked her as she and her two grown children—a son and a daughter—were about to eat dinner. In the second version, it’s still the
— Read on www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/the-unseen-victims-of-traumatic-brain-injury-from-domestic-violence

When the kind parent is the targeted scapegoat

Tears flowed freely reading this , so much has been

evoked, and still each stands as is, not one true act

of family..quite the opposite …still.. Self revealing

and bound , with holding in secrets that uphold lies

and abuses sanctioned and supported in a corruption

of souls that decided I should be targeted .

Judges and critics , mentored children to dispose of me

and their survival required my living death . It’s very

hard to ignore , as my finances have been adversely affected

and still he threatens .

Adult Children with Cluster B personalities tend to use and abuse loving parents. Learn how to help them and yourself by setting healthy lifestyle boundaries.
— Read on flyingmonkeysdenied.com/2016/04/15/when-the-kind-parent-is-the-targeted-scapegoat/

Catholic Archbishop Blames Disobedient Wives For Domestic Violence | Michael Stone

I see this, but noticing it’s not just a wife

thing…

#BothGendersAbuse

Blaming the victim: A Catholic archbishop tells his congregation that the root cause of domestic violence is a woman’s disobedience to her husband. Speaking to his congregation in Toledo, Spain, Archbishop Braulio Rodriguez said that wives could escape being physically abused by not being disobedient and by not
— Read on www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2016/01/catholic-archbishop-blames-disobedient-wives-for-domestic-violence/

Chuck Norris Sues 11 Drug Companies for Poisoning His Wife

Totally support ya Chuck, your wife is Blessed

Not all husbands respond as favorably as you have.

Win for each of us hearted by chemicals that do much

harm ⚡️🌟

Chuck Norris, the hero of action shows and movies like Walker Texas Ranger and Martial Law may have taken on the biggest fight of his life…
— Read on realfarmacy.com/chuck-norris-sues/

Inflation Trends since 1914

I did not show up on the payroll until 2010 – 1099 wise. Not sure why

filed , based on former’s receiving 1 check that was 3 wayed .

He mailed me a check , then I filed, not sure what that looked

like . ( uber shadow years) So whose to know where MIA

funds are.

Needless to say, cost of living increases , as well as partial

health care cost after cobra serve ran out. I would not

have been so casual with my future . Request for funds

for education, were rejected ..Keeping each of us bound

in this quagmire is part of the character that ever conceals

even to the detriment and death of ” loved ones” . As a

teetered , bound in trauma mama , destroying me , was

revenge in a relationship where he is powerless, not heard .

Money is power ..so he thinks.. Please pray for the wounded

and wounder , that healing forgiveness is the focus of each

within, without..

So …

Nope , kindness was not a consideration, as my Sams Club

was revoke, I knew intent of hatred .. I kept forgetting .

I kept forgiving …These adults guided our sons in this fashion

and chooses to stay as is…only getting worse in fear , and anger

posed perhaps to do me harm..

Shall say much about former ..what he chooses ..

Virginia’s revelations open up the wormhole, of what it is .

Graphical Chart of the inflation/deflation cycle – See for yourself whether Inflation is rising or falling
— Read on inflationdata.com/Inflation/Inflation_Rate/Inflation_trends.asp

New bill would make equal parenting time standard in child custody cases – WEEK

Looks good huh? Last I heard 20 states were ready to instate this.

So who does judge this? What’s the education, experience ; at what level ?

Bring this into the 21st century , reading the last line, I am doubtful.

SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (WEEK) — A new bill before Illinois lawmakers would make equal parenting time the standard in child custody cases. House Bill 185,
— Read on week.com/news/political/2019/02/04/new-bill-would-make-equal-parenting-time-standard-in-child-custody-cases/

Pope Francis Admits Clergy Is Sexually Abusing Nuns, Keeping Nuns As Sex Slaves | Michael Stone

This has historic validation , and now Pope comes out..

Should they choose, marriage should be as well as women

on highest …

Inclusion folks is where it’s at …this is proof the brotherhood

not seeing , speaking or hearing …truths of brothers is concealed

It’s a revelation, that may contribute to the adversity of man’s

Religious beliefs being fabricated , and justifies abuse..

Umm No

No exemptions 👁🙏🏼

It’s not just children: Pope Francis confirms that clerics have been sexually abusing nuns, and even keeping nuns as sex slaves.
— Read on www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2019/02/pope-francis-admits-clergy-is-sexually-abusing-nuns-keeping-nuns-as-sex-slaves/

Do children in two-parent families do better? – BBC News

The children are presenting …are we listening as a collective ?

Can we know and do better?

Is this transformation from detachment to attachment ?

The heart ❤️ of Mother Earth , beats within each of us , and

she’s about restoration of nature ( father/sun) and nurture

( mother/moon ) , and natural time, peace and harmony for

each of us , ending the tragic erasure of families ..and harsh

lessons for many whose folks struggled , without the ” tools”

to heal , often generations of feeling separate .

It’s United We Stand , Divided We Fall.

Women Stand Against Division 1st ..Never doubt We are in this

together , and We are supported in every way, every day ..

Shadow teaches , once accustomed to fighting the ” monster” .

Light 💡 speaks to ” monster ” You no longer serve me . I

have NO need of you anymore . Be gone ! Poof 🧚🏿‍♂️💯☮️

Practice makes perfect .

😘

US and UK studies suggest on average, children of single parents fare worse on some measures.
— Read on www.bbc.com/news/education-47057787