Of profound concern to me for 20 plus years .
Tag: legacy
The Shadow Of Society by Dr Gabor Mate’
His bottom line with which I concur
is : end the mourning , and organize
Thy Will , Be 🤩 Done ✅
How a parent’s affection shapes a child’s happiness for life – Motherly
Plus, how you can bring more affection into your family’s day.
— Read on www.mother.ly/child/how-a-parents-affection-shapes-a-childs-happiness-for-life
Releasing old for new
One Small Heart , MCC
Dad served a mission as a trucker .
He was away for extended periods of time, wasted
tired for days of rest , and it showed as time
passed.
His loneliness and out of sync with Mom and us
showed up in explosions I knew as pain. He revealed
his feelings of unworthiness , and I was quick to
high5 him.. I knew he did his best , how very deep
his heart and soul that brings me comfort and joy
for having had him in my life to mentor me .❤️
How Narcissistic Parents Infantilize Kids | Psychology Today
This perfectly explains the dynamics I have been
aware of since Mid year 1978 , after sharing our joy
and witnessing the immaturity , and projected
blame of a man who had known this dynamic for
his entire life.
Typically saving the storied that solidified a lifestyle
that afforded a connection to call and a resolution
to all acceptance of responsibility. As our children
were abused in GM’s care, I have no doubt of physical
and mental abuse that was supported by money as
a god. I was , along with our sons were considered a
drain , financially , and slowly that combined with
drink , and sex addictions, with adverse parenting that
was more ” uncle” that dad. Partnership was with the
mother, never me, nor the ” replacement” , and of course
neither were ” liked” by mom , only tolerated until
shredding the completion .
Affluence, memberships, religious afflictions , secrets abound
with the constant projection of blame at any target . Our sons
and DIL have been ” targeted ” as well, depending on what’s
going on at the time. Vampires, emotionally , spiritually
who choose to remain ignorant and defensive of any
and all responsibility , considering my demise completed
old history .. Hero’s , the mom and son, who ” saved ” our
children by killing me alive , to save their abuse secrets
lies, begetting more lies..
Very comfortable that money and connections are their
constant out, which has been supported by professionals
who choose to do that in a network of dank dark shadow.
Narcissists as parents create children who themselves can develop their own problems. New research shows how infantilization plays out when those children grow up.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201810/how-narcissistic-parents-infantilize-kids
AOC’s Call For Abolishing Billionaires Is Deeply American
Totally in alignment of this concept becoming a reality soon.
Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez says that billionaires should not exist, because concentrated is immoral and a threat to democracy. Those ides might seem radical to Sean Hannity. But to America’s founders, it seemed like common sense.
— Read on nymag.com/intelligencer/2019/01/ocasio-cortez-aocs-billionaires-taxes-hannity-american-democracy.html
There’s No Perfect Thing to Say When Someone’s in a Crisis
It can be overwhelming to a sensitive, who feels deep pain
and frustration.
My reactions used to be extremely weird in my not knowing
acting spontaneously in a triggered response.. It’s lovely to
have transformed it enough to not over react , allowing I can
think it out ..and release it .
When a friend gets fired, or a family member is getting divorced, it’s normal to feel at a loss for words. Nothing feels exactly right. Science backs this up: Nothing is exactly right.
— Read on curiosity.com/topics/theres-no-perfect-thing-to-say-when-someones-in-a-crisis-curiosity/
Push to make Va. last state to ratify ERA hits dead end in House – Virginia Mercury
This is not a ” good thing ” for my state legislators .
Push to make Va. last state to ratify ERA hits dead end in House – Virginia Mercury
— Read on www.virginiamercury.com/blog-va/push-to-make-va-last-state-to-ratify-era-hits-dead-end-in-house/
Trauma before we can remember still leaves a mark – Futurity
” There is so many empowering healing modalities
it’s a matter of research and personal choice.
And that make it so much easier to hold hope
for.
The denial is over however , as is the ” targeted ”
parent/partner .
“there may be a ‘sensitive period’ in which stress is more likely to affect the development of the hippocampus.”
— Read on www.futurity.org/trauma-babies-teens-depression-1959832/
