“You’re Dead To Me,” Why Estrangement Hurts So Much | Psychology Today

Being estranged by a family member can be one of the most painful events to occur across the lifespan.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/family-conflict/201410/you-re-dead-me-why-estrangement-hurts-so-much-0

Woman lied about husband’s abuse and tried to exclude him from child’s life – Care Appointments

Woman lied about husband’s abuse and tried to exclude him from child’s life – Care Appointments
— Read on careappointments.com/care-news/england/124965/woman-lied-about-husbands-abuse-and-tried-to-exclude-him-from-childs-life/

How Abusers Trap Victims By Draining Their Finances – Talk Poverty

For 99 percent of domestic violence victims, that includes financial abuse that can leave victims facing economic insecurity and poor credit. Financial abuse is insidious—it gradually takes away a survivor’s agency by controlling their money, hindering their ability to keep a job, and withholding necessities like food and medicine. Despite its prevalence, 78 percent of Americans had not heard about financial abuse as it relates to domestic violence.

I did not even register, had no credit . Short-sheeting my income

making me responsible for medical and legal, nullifying our

marriage , lacking contractural increases in incomes, while

increases in Cost Of Living, is another transformation required

in my case but for all moms ( and Dads) who follow the more

natural flow of nurturing children at home, until foundations

are set , and integrated socially , begin school or are home

schooled .

Soon the facts will be revealed and clear the falsehoods ,

per several contracts engineered by an individual whose

abusive control continues, sanctioned by structures bereft

of humane consciousness to allow so many adversely

affected , #erasingfamiliesNoMore

How Abusers Trap Victims By Draining Their Finances – Talk Poverty
— Read on talkpoverty.org/2018/01/12/abusers-trap-victims-draining-finances/

Your life’s Blood – Passion

The energies of the past few days has been extraordinary

intense , from high, lower , between , through, and around .

Hanging in Past Present Future , cycling whilst sharing , caring

and releasing phone calls…I have never had so many light

exchanges , and shared messages for each of our Sun’s

willing Divine that they listen in real time.

The video I’m posting was a gift , for me this morning on

a facet of my journey that’s not socially cool to acknowledge

of mothering being a job, and for some a passion . To

create a peaceful home , a loving foundation was exactly

what I spoke of , which did not mean a career outside our

home. A baby the 1st year blew his imprint of what he wanted

but did not speak of with clarity and informed , educated

factual truth. Only that his Mom worked, which was drummed

into a social suprematism, perfection ,oriented high speed

Mom who did not see him , did not hear him, allowed his rage

and taught him nothing of self growth and care . Our marriage

failed and trapped him , and it grew and grew over years .

He never heard me, I was his in house receiver , of whatever

he chose in a non regulated , total shut down that was

was without light. Rages sprung up like cyclones , he

thrived on fear. Mine my servitude , doing my job

which in his mind was to meet father knows best and has

all the power, all the money , all the glory.

Amongst my lessons yesterday was a young woman who

spoke of one of my earliest dreams , which I feel can be

implanted easily now just as I envisioned it .

So I marvel at the circle of life that continues to support

and lift me up in my passion, and upon completion

of my job, to 3 beautiful souls who came through me,

chose me as their mom, in cutting all cords , exposing

the adversity of families supported in a culture of suicide

that in its fake falseness induced trauma shadow

addicted us , creating delusional sickened peoples , infected

with moralities often depraved . Certainly void of our most

basic needs .. Loving homes , with compassionate educated

informed and balanced parents , elders as a solid safe

foundation establishes a state for thriving .

This shift is happening as we see rise to parents , putting

all that affects their child’s world 1st , for a prepared

life where need is met lovingly logically, holistically

and that makes me very happy.

Hearing this week, that babies born at this time are clear of

any and all trans generational family trauma/abuse ….

How freaking great is that? How freaking quantum.🤓

So I have surrendered , my private self, my low energy

are going to be uplifted and my passions are being realized

so I Present yet another soul whose had the experience . Less

than 10 minutes .

Blessings & Much Peace,

www.youtube.com/watch

Listening to Victims Can Reduce Domestic Violence Deaths

2 women from my hometown were murdered

after repeated request for police intervention.

1 had 2 children and an ex who would not

release her. He waited until their children

were away, entered at night , killed her as well

as himself.

#SheWasNotHeard

The mother who had an adult son, who apparently

was mentally ill, repeatedly as and was ignored

by police .

Son used a Samurai Sword and cut her up..

It was a week before police found her body in

their house , with son.

He was sentenced to 60 years , as he heard

the judgement You killed the only person

who loved you, and cared.

#SheWasNotHeard

#HeWasNotHeard

An advocate and survivor shares how some states are currently working to end domestic violence homicides.
— Read on www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/listening-to-victims-can-reduce-domestic-violence-deaths

Narcissist…the evil other

Monica’s point is valid ..If one has been abused

more than likely one has abused.

I am more than aware of trauma

deeply within ” former “and many

others ..I do still pray , and hold hope

for his truth and justice righted

enabling the necessary balance to

be established .

1 year ago 3/9/18 ,we signed the contracts

spent 4 hours in each other’s company

as he nearly wept , I honored his truth , his

heart , to discover a week later , it was all

an act ..

The Finale that must occur in order to secure

my future , that was horribly disadvantaged

by his greed .. Seems to be at an all time

high , those convinced their worth is how

family or society treats them .. I have been

stuck there , and that would be just fine

for a few folks , and it’s not to punish them

but to get the facts and figures , own the reality

of a contract . Nothing is binding me to him,

but I think he considers this property

as well as myself his to puppet master .

Umm no .

Great Piece Monica , Super acknowledgement that

most of us do have ego, certainly enough to stay

off our knees in surrender without a beloved’s

grace in joining us …I failed to note that lol🙏🏼

Narcissist…the evil other

Narcissist…the evil other
— Read on beyondmeds.com/2019/03/17/narcissist-the-evil-other/

Report: Texas foster kids left in psychiatric hospitals for weeks or months – News – Austin American-Statesman – Austin, TX

Hundreds of Texas foster children are languishing for weeks or months in psychiatric hospitals because they have nowhere else to go, hurting them psychologically, endangering them physically and costing the state millions of dollars.Nearly 600 foster kids in fiscal 2017 spent a total of almost 14,000 days in psychiatric hospitals after doctors said they were ready to leave, according to a new report by Disability Rights Texas, an advocacy group for people with disabilities.The consequences can
— Read on www.statesman.com/news/20190308/report-texas-foster-kids-left-in-psychiatric-hospitals-for-weeks-or-months

Michigan Family Court Judge Found to have Abused Power on the Bench in Parental Custody Cases

Much more of this to be revealed ..

A controversial Michigan family court judge has been found to have abused her power on the bench. The Michigan Judicial Tenure Commission has found that Judge
— Read on medicalkidnap.com/2016/07/04/michigan-family-court-judge-found-to-have-abused-power-on-the-bench-in-parental-custody-cases/

Erasing Families Trailer . Folks This is Huge

$50 Billion Corp profit from erasure of

families

That’s just in the legal Corp, Medical Corp

is hugely profitable , several generations

and must end .

www.youtube.com/watch

What Happens In A Relationship That Does Not Last – Spiritual Unite

A great many break ups would be breakthroughs , IF

those Corps who benefit from misery , bankrupting and

and erasing families .

And so it is .

Transformation underway 🤓🎁😘

What Happens In A Relationship That Does Not Last – Spiritual Unite
— Read on www.spiritualunite.com/articles/what-really-happens-in-any-relationship-that-does-not-last/