You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Your Ex To Co-Parent Well

Co was never part of marriage, divorce , or kids ..still

If you have decided to be civil but not friends with your ex, that’s okay.
— Read on www.scarymommy.com/co-parents-dont-have-be-friends/

Older women will rule the world as we live longer ( only part of the story )

Far from a take down of Divine Masculines or a power

play it is a genetic restoration of balance , that for hundreds

of thousands of years was balanced in feminine being

in positions of power , in alignment with peaceful prosperity

higher education , spiritual wellness , nutritional and healing

empathic knowing of generations . Intuitiveness has not been

allowed as a masculine trait , rather fear has been instilled

in competition rather than cooperation ie balance within

and without .. integration is key, and we witness a shift

and fall out from fear based individuals , in returning to

heaven on earth ..

Older women can sometimes feel like they’re invisible, but they’re the trailblazers others should be watching, says the director of the MIT AgeLab.
— Read on www.today.com/health/older-women-will-rule-world-we-live-longer-t119645

How domestic abusers use household finances to trap their victims  | Commentary | Dallas News

99% of Domestically Abused women are also financially abused,

as I was and am.. NPD , has a superpower , in controlling , and coveting

money.

I will open my story in the coming days , that confirms how this

never ends , as a non partnered , sharing of commercial property

enables his threats , continues his train of thought that my 1/2

warrants his being the surviving parent hero to our children

who adapted to the power of money early on accepting my

worthlessness as a Mom which was induced , as ” unfit ” that

offered a much less equal divorce .. As was our marriage ..

One day, after 23 years in an abusive marriage, Rhonda Voss’ ex-husband told her he had closed their checking account and credit cards, withdrawn…
— Read on www.dallasnews.com/opinion/commentary/2019/01/13/domestic-abusers-use-household-finances-trap-victims

A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Your Heart, Your Soul And Your LIFE – Mystical Raven

The reality of being reduced to mentally ill, induced by toxic

RX as I became unable to decipher my life , diminished capacity

was advantaged to better his story as the victim . He extols how

he had a fat lazy, crazy wife , becoming the hero . Response

nor responsibility eluded him, rebuilding a life , a foundation

with another who offered him happiness that also crumbled

2018… Repeated insanity , not knowing nor caring of the

emotional inflictions , more over enjoying the ” win”.

It is stated NPD is a never ending story … Offering glimpses

into how , this disorder demands being right, of prevailing

no matter what , life has presented irrefutable proof of what

it is, and how ignorance by those in charge , professionals

and influence by parent , social accepts a lier that is convinced

lies are truths , as needed ..

In the knowledge of what was , and is, I have peace . Choices

in healing are possible for NPD , however seldom utilized .

The glut of NPD is affecting men , in personal and generational

shame , which is undoing healing transformation for 2 years 2

months , intensely ..

With narcissists, it is a hideous, demeaning, debasing, ANGRY, and abusive coexistence that we get conned and TRAPPED into.
— Read on mysticalraven.com/relationships/4456/a-narcissists-damage-they-poison-your-mind-your-heart-your-soul-and-your-life

Video sparks outrage after Manitoba officials seize newborn from Indigenous mother in hospital – The Globe and Mail

This supports personal stories , shared with me for

years , which have no clue of how Mother/Child bonding

are integral to overall outcome for both.

I supported a search for parents/family, with discovery of

11 siblings , only 1 adoption being friend . Mom had a “disorder”

and with each birth, that baby was removed , and another

born, that she would have her child .. Mom has passed , reunited

with 11 siblings in ❤️.

All too common a practice, CPS is under deep scrutiny . Perhaps

if federal government did not support each child by $30 k per year

and CPS were better trained , parents would not loose their

children to a system that does not have the best interest of the

child at heart .

The child was taken away because of a false accusation that the mother was drunk when she arrived at the hospital to give birth, the woman’s aunt said
— Read on www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-video-sparks-outrage-after-manitoba-officials-seize-newborn-from/

WARNING: WiFi Radiation Could Increase Miscarriage Risk By Up To 50%

Pregnant women could be more at risk of miscarriage and WiFi radiation could increase these odds by up to 50% according to recent data.
— Read on naturallyhealthynews.com/articles/healtharticles/warning-wifi-radiation-could-increase-miscarriage-risk-by-up-to-50/

Teacher Accused of Racism For Separating Students By Skin Color | Rare

The mother of a grade R learner from Laerskool Schweizer-Reneke in North West is outraged after a picture of her child, and three other black children sitting separately from white children in their classroom.
— Read on rare.us/rare-news/race-in-america/teacher-seperates-students-by-skin-color/

ADHD,etc. Lack of Nurture ..Parents Matter

www.youtube.com/watch

In The Fight For Paid Parental Leave, 6 Months Should Be The Minimum

Totally into this Mom and Dad bonding with child.

In the U.S. where only 14% of civilian workers have access to paid parental leave and 25% of women go back to work within 2 weeks of giving birth, it’s become normal to feel grateful if you have any access to paid leave. But 6, 8, even 12 weeks is not enough for the wellbeing of your employees.
— Read on www.forbes.com/

Shefali Tsabary Quotes (Author of The Conscious Parent)

Tape into your inner and outer child , all your children

in all those around you , by honoring their child.

Of course many have been lead astray in their quest

as did I , however this book like none other addressed my

core beliefs , and faced with repeated abuses , denials and

distracted detachment, our partnership never balanced

in raising balanced children, who I know strive for , and the

impact physically and spiritually.

So I speak out and up, and I nurture , I listen , I travel with

you in darkest dark because , I took that journey alone.

I don’t get it 100% , don’t have to be right, nor be the fool.

Once I cleared toxic medications out off my system

relocated and surrendered to the unraveling that would

tenderly heal me , in my mountain home.

And that gave a lot of souls permission , to begin liberation

from past generational karma and trauma and shame

which has no boundaries and is now exposed to heal

And transform each soul on earth .. Love is the way ..

This book is awesome !

59 quotes from Shefali Tsabary: ‘When you parent, it’s crucial you realize you aren’t raising a “mini me,” but a spirit throbbing with its own signature. For this reason, it’s important to separate who you are from who each of your children is. Children aren’t ours to possess or own in any way. When we know this in the depths of our soul, we tailor our raising of them to their needs, rather than molding them to fit our needs.’, ‘It’s no surprise we fail to tune into our children’s essence. How can we listen to them, when so many of us barely listen to ourselves? How can we feel their spirit and hear the beat of their heart if we can’t do this in our own life?’, and ‘to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority.’
— Read on www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/1055073.Shefali_Tsabary