Tag: marriage

A Song Called ‘Quiet’ Struck A Chord With Women. Two Years Later, It’s Still Ringing : NPR

Born as a vessel for one person’s trauma, the song by MILCK became an anthem overnight after the 2017 Women’s March. But it wasn’t done growing.
— Read on www.npr.org/2019/01/14/683694934/milck-quiet-womens-march-american-anthem

Do mothers really have stronger bonds with their children than fathers do?

Fathers experience an equal rise in the bonding chemical oxytocin as mothers do when interacting with their infant.
— Read on theconversation.com/do-mothers-really-have-stronger-bonds-with-their-children-than-fathers-do-57590

Science or Scam – Psychiatry – A Personal Experience

The following was produced by CCHR , who I networked

with but has some shadow , and has never aided me other

than the factual truths of what they have referred to as the

Industry of Death via psychiatry .

The loss of myself , unnoticed , of the abuse of myself thus

our children, all I held dear in life , at the direction of an

MD , whose office was adorned with proof of his trophies .

His sail boats , His Children , who were well educated ,

and I learned last summer via a conversation with a close

friend/senator ret , that he divorced his highly educated,

very professional 1st wife , Mother of His children …

I failed to note his ego, until I began to wake.

It was horrific to read his transcribed notes , recalling

he began his dictation before I left his office into

a handheld recorder …And within the file of Donna Lynn

I read , much like reading my own autopsy , triggered

time after time by errors , ignorance , and utter destruction

by a Virginia AMA sanctioned , and supported/protected

Dr . who has had Parkinson for over 20 years .

It appears an alliance was much like a ” brotherhood” ,

where “former”; was considered supportive.

Reading of my 1st Er visit , I told Dr , I had been hit .

I was ignored , legally addicted , a loss of Human Rights

based on profit and power ..

Ignoring the facts and truth , took me a lot of years , as

C-PTSD was considered hysteria ,drama , over-attached,

choosing addiction , and believed by 3 souls .

My experience is exampled far too much, normalized ..

In sharing myself , I am not condemning anyone who

had a better experience . My life of dark and shadow

opened to the color , the the light.. illuminated and

supported in clarification and clearing of falsehoods

that adversely erase families …

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You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Your Ex To Co-Parent Well

Co was never part of marriage, divorce , or kids ..still

If you have decided to be civil but not friends with your ex, that’s okay.
— Read on www.scarymommy.com/co-parents-dont-have-be-friends/

How domestic abusers use household finances to trap their victims  | Commentary | Dallas News

99% of Domestically Abused women are also financially abused,

as I was and am.. NPD , has a superpower , in controlling , and coveting

money.

I will open my story in the coming days , that confirms how this

never ends , as a non partnered , sharing of commercial property

enables his threats , continues his train of thought that my 1/2

warrants his being the surviving parent hero to our children

who adapted to the power of money early on accepting my

worthlessness as a Mom which was induced , as ” unfit ” that

offered a much less equal divorce .. As was our marriage ..

One day, after 23 years in an abusive marriage, Rhonda Voss’ ex-husband told her he had closed their checking account and credit cards, withdrawn…
— Read on www.dallasnews.com/opinion/commentary/2019/01/13/domestic-abusers-use-household-finances-trap-victims

A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Your Heart, Your Soul And Your LIFE – Mystical Raven

The reality of being reduced to mentally ill, induced by toxic

RX as I became unable to decipher my life , diminished capacity

was advantaged to better his story as the victim . He extols how

he had a fat lazy, crazy wife , becoming the hero . Response

nor responsibility eluded him, rebuilding a life , a foundation

with another who offered him happiness that also crumbled

2018… Repeated insanity , not knowing nor caring of the

emotional inflictions , more over enjoying the ” win”.

It is stated NPD is a never ending story … Offering glimpses

into how , this disorder demands being right, of prevailing

no matter what , life has presented irrefutable proof of what

it is, and how ignorance by those in charge , professionals

and influence by parent , social accepts a lier that is convinced

lies are truths , as needed ..

In the knowledge of what was , and is, I have peace . Choices

in healing are possible for NPD , however seldom utilized .

The glut of NPD is affecting men , in personal and generational

shame , which is undoing healing transformation for 2 years 2

months , intensely ..

With narcissists, it is a hideous, demeaning, debasing, ANGRY, and abusive coexistence that we get conned and TRAPPED into.
— Read on mysticalraven.com/relationships/4456/a-narcissists-damage-they-poison-your-mind-your-heart-your-soul-and-your-life

In The Fight For Paid Parental Leave, 6 Months Should Be The Minimum

Totally into this Mom and Dad bonding with child.

In the U.S. where only 14% of civilian workers have access to paid parental leave and 25% of women go back to work within 2 weeks of giving birth, it’s become normal to feel grateful if you have any access to paid leave. But 6, 8, even 12 weeks is not enough for the wellbeing of your employees.
— Read on www.forbes.com/

Shefali Tsabary Quotes (Author of The Conscious Parent)

Tape into your inner and outer child , all your children

in all those around you , by honoring their child.

Of course many have been lead astray in their quest

as did I , however this book like none other addressed my

core beliefs , and faced with repeated abuses , denials and

distracted detachment, our partnership never balanced

in raising balanced children, who I know strive for , and the

impact physically and spiritually.

So I speak out and up, and I nurture , I listen , I travel with

you in darkest dark because , I took that journey alone.

I don’t get it 100% , don’t have to be right, nor be the fool.

Once I cleared toxic medications out off my system

relocated and surrendered to the unraveling that would

tenderly heal me , in my mountain home.

And that gave a lot of souls permission , to begin liberation

from past generational karma and trauma and shame

which has no boundaries and is now exposed to heal

And transform each soul on earth .. Love is the way ..

This book is awesome !

59 quotes from Shefali Tsabary: ‘When you parent, it’s crucial you realize you aren’t raising a “mini me,” but a spirit throbbing with its own signature. For this reason, it’s important to separate who you are from who each of your children is. Children aren’t ours to possess or own in any way. When we know this in the depths of our soul, we tailor our raising of them to their needs, rather than molding them to fit our needs.’, ‘It’s no surprise we fail to tune into our children’s essence. How can we listen to them, when so many of us barely listen to ourselves? How can we feel their spirit and hear the beat of their heart if we can’t do this in our own life?’, and ‘to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority.’
— Read on www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/1055073.Shefali_Tsabary