BSO offers pizza to child protectors who cut caseload | Miami Herald

How very low of any boss .. disgusting

The Broward Sheriff’s Office wanted to reduce caseloads in its child abuse unit. But how to incentivize? The department brass offered a pizza party for whoever could close the most cases.
— Read on www.miamiherald.com/news/local/community/broward/article229394934.html

Narcissists Use Trauma Bonding and Intermittent Reinforcement To Get You Addicted To Them: Why Abuse Survivors Stay

In general not recognized by profession , who

ignore or close their eyes to what trauma bonds

are , as in my case since a Dr had labeled me

despite my honesty from the get go that I was

hit , and targeted by win at all cost , ” family”

in denial that they were not perfect .

Sacrificing their grandchildren and me , was

a piece of cake.. a horrid truth I discovered

adversely affects more folks in hollowed halls

of law and men.

It’s a very good thing to witness healing of

this pick of speed as many wake to the erasure

of families , and the profit by bottom-feeders

whose deserving of being spotlighted , as

poster child’s , abuses that no Hail Mary

Father Forgive Me excuses . Holding this

abuse as excusable, is foolhardy, a higher

power begs surrender , residence puts

abusers , front and center .

I am more that ready , Thy Will Be Done

#FlyingMonkeys

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Blessings & Peace,

Doña Luna

Trauma bonds are intense, unshakeable attachments which occur in abusive relationships, making it difficult for abuse survivors to leave. Here are signs you might be trauma bonded to a narcissistic abuser.
— Read on blogs.psychcentral.com/recovering-narcissist/2019/03/narcissists-use-trauma-bonding-and-intermittent-reinforcement-to-get-you-addicted-to-them-why-abuse-survivors-stay/

For Abuse Survivors, Custody Remains a Means by Which Their Abusers Can Retain Control – Pacific Standard

This is a year old , and though my state does not has

not addressed this, and I can and will add supporters

and vision that addresses family in a consciousness

that is demanded for thriving, instead of serving .

Creating a safe foundation where each member is heard

seen , and knows they matter …it’s happening in greater

numbers that ever ..

#HarmonicHomesForFamilies

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Blessings & Peace,

Doña Luna

Despite growing evidence that abusers often use custody battles to retain control over their former spouses, Congress is still punting on basic protections for survivors.
— Read on psmag.com/

Narcisstic Cannot Answer this Question

This guy is so correct , I am triggered , at what

I must acknowledge.

I must retain my conciseness, acknowledging

watching the mentoring of this upon sons

the imprint, the demand and perhaps secrets

I cannot libel myself for , or insight ..

that this is trauma . Deeply held Trauma

vulnerable is not something they do.

Needs , are abused early on, utilized

by the parent , in love.

Our sons parked all that in me, as I was

induced into mental illness.. Awareness of

the AMA , induces , disease , A to Z

and I am going to grab a hot shower ,

Detox these truths of shadow

and head out into the Sunshine .

Days away from the writings of such clarity

and release, I am weak.

#NotMyMonkeyNotMyCircus.

🙏🏼#AllWillUnfloldInMyHighestGood

#ThyWillBeDone

#AllIsInDivineOrder

#SweetRelease

#PrayForOurChildInEachToIntergrateSafely

Blessings & Peace ,

DonaLuna

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Black children commit suicide at twice the rate of white kids | Science News

I was unaware of this horrifying fact .

This must , this statistic will be transformed ,

transmuted , eradicated ..

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#WeGotThis ✔️💯🔥

The suicide rates for young black kids are higher than those of their white counterparts, a pattern that flips in older kids, researchers find.
— Read on www.sciencenews.org/article/black-children-commit-suicide-twice-rate-white-kids

The Narcissist & Silence

A very effect weapon, utilized 90%

of the time .. I am allowed only to

know , what serves ..I allow this

as it says so much about the with

holder.

Silence is judgement , a critical

with holding ; a detachment that

has an effect on me , due to Mom

her Mom, and former had it down

to an art .

Mentoring , Demanding , the same

from our sons , their families else

they loose favor , wills will reflect

as well as actions or non actions

that convey how unworthy I am of

his time or attention unless it benefits

him. So sudden communication , such

as last year’s contract signing , was irregular

beginning with , I have unblocked you

as if his partner was the blame for his

blocking, non communication .

How sad .

Silence , is a void that’s no longer acceptable

no longer tolerable , and will fade away connections

who do not initiate , or balance communication

with out justification ..

It deters , balance, and trust , and I find it

telling of internal dialog .

I have been graced by hearing that a need to

not overload , as the inability to receive

which was a gift .

I realize how zoned out he was , deep in his

own ever present misery ..

Projecting, blaming , ghosting , the MeMeMe

that has no US , was non partnership

that’s certainly been exhibited , abused

and ignored .

Self talk , was transmuted , with surrender

to who , what , when and where .. took a

lot of loads off my back that were not mine .

That’s liberation ..

Transforming this is a pleasure

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Blessing & Peace ,

Doña Luna

narcsite.com/2019/04/17/the-expanded-narcissistic-truths-no-4-6/

NPD, Father’s Abuse – Ignored -Supported #ErasingFamlies

www.youtube.com/watch

Distorting Embellishing Playing On Vulnerable Spots ( Children) to Keep you Down

I escaped that matrix , a long time ago.

Shocked at the vulgarity of untruths

Realizing the belief of their own fake news

Noting the stuck energy of abuse , Pete and Repeat .

Noting the importance of denial, and control.

The non acceptance of responsibility , facts

truths , Divinity , Compassion any depth of

positive character which is a mask..

Grasping how many filters are honored

in the matrix , he is not attempting to

escape..ongoing 6 decades .

Praying for his surrender and acceptance

and healing , of his own accord , his own

power .

Facing himself with nurture, forgiveness,

compassion and love , instead of hatred .

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Blessings & Peace

Doña Luna

afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2019/04/16/a-narcissist-will-distort-embellish-and-play-on-your-vulnerabilities-to-manage-you-down/