2 types of alienated children…which is yours? – Ryan Thomas Speaks

Accepted , in our suicidal culture as normal.

The side effects are equal to a sexually abused

child..those side effects don’t just go away.

Ryan Thomas, Child of Parental Alienation Helping Parents Reconnect
— Read on ryanthomasspeaks.com/blog-2/2-types-of-alienated-children-which-is-yours/

Shame is Lethal

I had a huge breakthrough in the Shame gig , so

worthy that I know I personally don’t have to go

there , nor allow anyone or anything to take me

to that place ..

I totally get it, and all it’s fall out , and have empathy

for anyone holding shame .

Allowing myself to be vulnerable , is part of my 51 out of

55 score on emotional intelligence .. My words , my actions

are catching up with my score 🙏🏼

www.youtube.com/watch

Codependency: What Are The Signs & How To Overcome It

This article offers so much info, but I would urge caution, in

acceptance of terms that have become lucrative labels for

human begins that is discrimination.

My co dependence was my expectation of a partner , my Christian

and social conditioning that allowed me compliant , Xanax

and professional denial of my abuse , by a partner , whose

ownership is still a force in his mind .

Rendered incapacitated , by any illness , which limits in

clarity , participation , being targeted has been a vulgar

acceptance of immorality that left our sons in alignment

with my unworthiness..

Addicted, legally , our children grew up , with addicts in the

house , as all that was normal was rejected , my faith eroded

in detachment that was very necessary in opposition coming

at me, openly disputing co anything..

What is codependency and how can it affect people, how to recognize signs of codependency, and resources for learning more about and overcoming it.
— Read on positivepsychologyprogram.com/codependency-definition-signs-worksheets/

Trump administration quietly changes definition of “domestic violence” and “sexual assault” | Salon.com

The past devaluation of rape , and life long ramifications , towards

anyone , of any gender, race , and age has been exposed as unimportant

from stockpiles of unprocessed rape kits , and being further abused

in a culture of profession acceptance .. Transforming this , will be

a community effort , in a consciousness that does not the rape,

of children, ( molestation seems to desensitize an act that overpowers

a child , doing much harm) .

Healing modalities , love and acceptance await , as we lift the bar

to reconnect with sacred soul contracts , ending so many doing

so much harm.

Last April, Justice Department office on violence against women began to narrowly redefine its basic concepts
— Read on www.salon.com/2019/01/23/trump-administration-quietly-changes-definition-of-domestic-violence-and-sexual-assault/

Family Violence, is Parental Alienation Unacknowledged

lookaside.fbsbx.com/file/APA Parental Alienation is a Form of Family Violence — American Psychological Association 2018 Psychological Bulletin.pdf

Moon and the Sky , Sade

I discovered Sade, in the years of darkness

even in my induced addiction and trauma

that was evoked too often, feeling suspended

looking at myself from inside out. That trauma

spewed in fear, not only for myself but for our

sons..Through their eyes , I grew , with the

imbalance of a highly traumatized , silent man.

What was in my heart for him changed , I had

to step out of his nightmares , and unfortunately

became a junkie via the standards and practices

of a system whose credo is do no harm.

Much harm done is being righted , and it’s way

past time..

Just as I stand up for my rights , I have always

been inclusive . I failed . Always a failure , a mere

projection , and it’s closure to have more truths

than required , and to be ignored . However it

is my mission to stand , for Beloveds, Father’s

Brothers, Sons, Uncles , Grandfathers , whose

life long challenges to be seen, and heard , to

be abled to come from their hearts , to know

their exquisite value , and respond in responsibility

but not be the whole of anything but the vita

elements for the dance of alchemy ..

It is our right, and many have the mission of

unification on the 1st leg of Christ Conscious

humankind ” work” . I have known this since

1st grade , when Beloved Teddy moved , and

I mourned him…Dad’s work took him away

and my defense against boys was verbal.

Reasoning did not work, and so the brother

I was in charge of, responsible for split .

Already ” split ” from our trauma, a bond

of trauma, increased his mistrust of his entire

world .

Reflecting on life, includes the bother of silence

fear and anger , and I do grasp his deep emotional

states , of what I know , and my intuition , he

has never known the Moon and the Sun.

Once touched , in the deepest soul , it’s found

a home, it matters not to pack your bags .

www.youtube.com/watch

Marianne Williamson: Acknowledging Abuse Nationwide @Announcement 1/18/19

A man I was speaking to in the city , spoke the following

when we delved into politics .

“We gave blacks, and women the right to vote!

We gave you minorities the right to vote, what

else do you want ? “

A civil war buff, coins and reenacted..was far too

ancient, and I ended the conversation , nixing potential.

As a ” minority ” woman, discrimination by a man and

his family , and the unconsciousness of all connected

that condones involuntary addiction, and Alienation/Abuse

of 3 souls who did not agree to the family codes.

www.youtube.com/watch

Science Shift: Parent Alienation is Child Abuse and Violence

Blessings raining in , as more awareness prevails that this

is epidemic .

Science Shift: Parent Alienation is Child Abuse and Violence
— Read on protectingfathersforkids.com/blog/f/inaugural-piece