” There is so many empowering healing modalities
it’s a matter of research and personal choice.
And that make it so much easier to hold hope
for.
The denial is over however , as is the ” targeted ”
parent/partner .
“there may be a ‘sensitive period’ in which stress is more likely to affect the development of the hippocampus.”
— Read on www.futurity.org/trauma-babies-teens-depression-1959832/
Consequences
The essence of domestic violence is that abusers use a variety of tactics to scare and coerce their partners to do what the abuser wants. This results in the mother and children living in fear. There are ten adverse childhood experiences. In the context of a contested custody case, the child usually starts with a score of one for the parents separating, one for domestic violence and one for emotional abuse of the child. Fathers who abuse the mother are 40-60% more likely to also abuse the children physically and sexually. If both, that would increase the score to 5. If one or both parents have a substance abuse problem or mental illness those are two more possible points. Physical or emotional neglect are two more possibilities. Significantly all of the other ACEs are more likely when a father abuses a mother. An ACE score of 6 results in an average reduction in life expectancy of 20 years.
— Read on nomas.org/family-courts-protect-children-ace-vs-pas/
This article offers so much info, but I would urge caution, in
acceptance of terms that have become lucrative labels for
human begins that is discrimination.
My co dependence was my expectation of a partner , my Christian
and social conditioning that allowed me compliant , Xanax
and professional denial of my abuse , by a partner , whose
ownership is still a force in his mind .
Rendered incapacitated , by any illness , which limits in
clarity , participation , being targeted has been a vulgar
acceptance of immorality that left our sons in alignment
with my unworthiness..
Addicted, legally , our children grew up , with addicts in the
house , as all that was normal was rejected , my faith eroded
in detachment that was very necessary in opposition coming
at me, openly disputing co anything..
What is codependency and how can it affect people, how to recognize signs of codependency, and resources for learning more about and overcoming it.
— Read on positivepsychologyprogram.com/codependency-definition-signs-worksheets/
Note : Trauma is not acknowledged C-PTSD
A watchdog’s 24-page report said the exact number of children separated from their families by immigration authorities is “unknown.”
— Read on www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/why-we-may-never-know-the-true-number-of-family-separations
Blessings raining in , as more awareness prevails that this
is epidemic .
Science Shift: Parent Alienation is Child Abuse and Violence
— Read on protectingfathersforkids.com/blog/f/inaugural-piece
A horrific example , for this Dad and his sons , a mother’s
secret does much harm..It’s difficult to wrap my mind around
anyone who would do this to a partner, to children 👶🏼…
What drives us?
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