Tag: Dire Results Of Domestic Abuse

Childress -Pruter Presents Paper to APA Convention 🤩VIP !

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Yesterday was a travel day for me back from the APA convention. Always a delight to see Dorcy. The paper presentation to the APA; Empathy, the Family, and the Core of Social Justice (Childress & Pruter, 2019), represents a major step forward on the path to solution.

APA: Social Justice Paper (Childress & Pruter)

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APA: Powerpoint of APA Presentation

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In 2017, Dr. Childress and Dorcy Pruter presented to the national convention of the AFCC in Boston:

AFCC: Powerpoint of AFCC Presesentation

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We have spoken to the AFCC and to the APA.

I post here to the Alliance Facebook group as the current edge of movement. I post to my blog for more lasting documentation purposes.

We are on a path. There are milestones along that path.

The paper presentation to the APA of Empathy, the Family, and the Core of Social Justice (Childress & Pruter, 2019) represents one of these milestone markers.

We have shifted into a new phase.

I have posted a blog of importance, a phase marker along the path of change. It provides a review the prior phases toward solution, and a look ahead to the coming phase emerging now.

Phases of Immediate Solution

Phases of Immediate Solution

Change is coming, the world is changing… because we are changing it.

It needs to change. I didn’t like the rabbit hole of trauma, it’s too crazy there. I’ll bet you didn’t like it there either. Let’s leave.

It’s time to climb out from the rabbit hole, and reestablish ourselves on the foundational ground knowledge of professional psychology.

We’re like a colony of relentless ants, building a chain out, a collaborative chain out of the tunnels and dark holes of abuse and trauma, and back into the world of sunlight and solid ground, foundations to stand on.

We are an alliance, you are an alliance. Your voice is the power, your united voice coming together into a single relentless voice for change.

The publication of Foundations in 2015, the Petition to the APA signed by 20,000 parents in 2018, the presentations of Dr. Childress and Dorcy Pruter to the AFCC and APA in 2017 and 2019, we are relentlessly creating change.

Because your children need us to, because you need us to. We’re leaving Wonderland and returning to reality, where truth exists and professionals are held to the highest standards of professional practice with children and families, and with the court.

With the paper presentation by Dr. Childress and Dorcy Pruter to the American Psychological Association Division 24, Theoretical and Philosophical Psychology, the earth shifted on its foundations. We are entering a new phase.

The solution is available immediately. Right now. The moment we apply knowledge. Like the magical ruby slippers in Oz, you’ve always had the ability to go home, just apply knowledge, just apply knowledge, just apply knowledge; Bowlby, Minuchin, Beck.

My next phase is writing. I’ll be collaborating with Dorcy who will be leading some change processes with mental health and legal professionals in the days ahead.

We are relentless. We will recover your authentic wonderful children.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

How Abusers Use the Courts Against Their Victims – The Atlantic

I could write chapters on this 🤪

After a breakup, litigation is often a way for harassers to force their victims to keep seeing them.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/how-abusers-use-courts-against-their-victims/593086/

Common Statements by a Narcissist

Adding more examples , including these ..however the words

of love , tenderly used were spartan , compliments were a desert ,

rude , crude and hurtful words , lacking compassion much less

intimacy deserving a marriage or partnership .. in the eternal

silence of the long entombed , nothing existed ..in that tomb love

died ..long before he walked away ..

It is part of the deep trauma, mindset , mentoring , abuse

that mutes the male child or adolescent, teen doing much

harm that is largely ignored ..And deadly ….

Spiritually and Physically and Mentally, I am aware of the

efforts of purging by masculine energies , and I am very

proud at each burden they lay down as they move closer

to the light 👁🤓😘🎁💯🌈🙏🏼✊🏽♥️©️

#WeNotIGitThis✔️✔️✔️😎🥳

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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Children of Divorce Aren’t “Resilient”; They Just Suffer in Secret

Proof positive , of the continuation of Domestic Abuse

which is supported , and ignored , as a human rights

violation , mental and physical abuse . Silenced and ignored

as normal , missing the varied side effects of children

and targeted parent. Shame , Denial and continued

abuse , Intimate Partner Violence damn well

affects children adversely .

It’s past time for education and change , which is under

way ..

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Children of Divorce Aren’t “Resilient”; They Just Suffer in Secret
— Read on www.ncregister.com/blog/jimgraves/children-of-divorce-arent-resilient-they-just-suffer-in-secret

Legally Kidnapped: ‘Foster dad begged for custody of girl, 7, he said was in danger then raped her’

The matrix of abuses of children has been revealing more

and more of these cases , and I try to focus on the best possible

outcome for the child(ren) who in reality have no rights …

Getting worse before it gets better is upon us ..

Our New Earth 🌏 will not allow these impactful abuses

that can be life long trauma ..

As a parent , as a Mom , witnessing , and the intuitive

knowing , yet not knowing these years of separation

that’s been the weapon utilized , the results of which

are child abuse , with legacies for survivors that are

as if sexually abused .

The circus and the monkeys that assist, encourage , profit

and abuse is extinct .. Facts are facts , and the truth is going

to liberate a lot of folks from the side effects of societies

who were misled , and induced into the culture of suicide

that’s conscious and awake , and transforming a horrific

span of time ..

Of this I am 110% sure , and doing my best despite adversities

that include knowing my death is the goal, forgiveness is

not a character trait , certainly not for himself , which is were

fear , trauma, dis ease , shame , etc keep one stuck.

Deserving to step out of that matrix , staying with what has

worked in the past , denial of facts , is more difficult

when lying became easier , long ago.

As exampled by this post, purging these toxic abuses , for

awareness of what it is …it is epidemic …

Having been educated in so many ways , it is my job

to share as much as possible of what I am in Awareness

of , in large part , Faith that I would be shown the truths

and light would dispel the darkness… that our children

matter , that I matter .. To end this malignant , High Conflict

20 plus year effort to target , abuse , exposure with legitimate

facts , which are the unfortunate experience for many families

as many in number come together we are heard ..

This is unfolding , with variable offerings , which can be

extremely expensive at present … As the truth is revealed

education , and training , will include much easier , simpler

modalities , of which I lean into holistically as possible

that allow the empowerment of survivors.

We want the best possible outcome , including the healing

of the deep trauma of the abuser , as we step out of shadow

and into the light … it is not our job to fix anyone …

Just to assure that the best interest of a child , in each of us

to be empowered to survive and thrive in all ways of

mind, body and spirit .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Legally Kidnapped: ‘Foster dad begged for custody of girl, 7, he said was in danger then raped her’
— Read on legallykidnapped.blogspot.com/2019/07/foster-dad-begged-for-custody-of-girl-7.html

If You’re Angry, You’re Part of the Problem, Not the Solution

Tuff nut , I know , but truth …

The impulse to resort to outrage is only making things worse.
— Read on gen.medium.com/if-youre-angry-you-re-part-of-the-problem-not-the-solution-d50a74b119cb

Donald Trump Accusers: Women Who Alleged Sexual Misconduct | Time

Speaks of character , lack of it . Lies supported

only keep the lie in play .. Truths are the Light

of healing , and it’s wonderful to note the

multi lighted voices, raised in fact ..

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

More than a dozen women have accused President Donald Trump of sexual misconduct. Here are the Trump accusers’ allegations
— Read on time.com/5058646/donald-trump-accusers/

Schools getting more police but at the expense of counselors, nurses: Report – ABC News

Lockdown on Children is very concerning to me

and many others .

#ProHomeSchooling🙏🏼🌏✊🏽☮️

Despite a shortage of counselors in schools, funding is increasingly put toward staffing up on police officers in the hallways, a new ACLU report found.
— Read on abcnews.go.com/Politics/students-color-students-disabilities-arrested-school-police-report/story