Dr Craig Childress, Family & Change

From Dr Craig Childress: 
“We are family.  All of us.
There’s not you and me – there’s us.
The only reason we see you and me instead of family is because we’re insane.  True.  It comes from our biological-mind (Sapolsky), we do things based on how we’re wired up.
Yet we also have the ability to over-ride the wiring – that’s our amazing adaptability – frontal lobe executive function systems.
We all came from Africa.  That’s where we are all from.  All of us.  All of us are on an unbroken line of ancestors, from our parents to our grandparents, to theirs and theirs, all the way back.  We are on an unbroken chain of life.
Many – many – many died in their pixelated journeys through time, they left no progeny, no children.  We are not descended from any of those journeys through life.  We are directly descended from the ones who survived.
We were one once.  We still are.  We’re not them and us, we’re family… of African origin, that’s our homeland, all of us.  Some of our family maintain their original beautiful hue and features, some of us have become pale and washed out from living up north in the snow and cold.  We’re still family, you, me, us, you’re tall, you’re short, you’re in a wheelchair, you’re gay, you’re straight, you’re non-binary, black, white, brown, yellow, purple, plaid, you are an absolutely beautiful child, welcome to the world.
They’re not the enemy – their family.  And… they are insane.  And… so are we.   Them and us, we are both insane, because we see enemies and not family… and because of that we do insanely violent and immensely cruel things to each other – to family.
That’s not right.  We shouldn’t do that.  We shouldn’t hurt them… and they shouldn’t hurt us.  We started in Africa and some of us left, we wandered around a lot and forgot who we are, where we came from.
Then we met each other again, and we got scared.  We had lost our connections as family, we didn’t understand.  We remained pockets of small family governed by our biological-mind.  
Then something changed 10,000 years ago.  We began our journey to transformation, out of our biological-mind and into our humanity.  It has been an immensely violent, sad, and traumatic journey.
We have reached the end.  We are the final generations of the rippling trauma of our transformation, our children will be free of our traumas – they will face their own – but their traumas will be of their own choices and decisions – conscious and aware and handled differently.
We have been insane for so long, the violence and trauma was so vast and deep.  It was a long-long journey of much suffering… too much… far too much.  Our violence and insanity was out of control.
We’ve spasmed our recovery in the French Revolution (1790s), the Trail of Tears (1850) and the Civil War (1860), and in the Holocaust (1940).  We are not so far away, we are still rippling the traumas of those who came before, our parents, their parents, and their’s and their’s.
I’ve watched the change, from Eisenhower and WW-II that I ripple, to Obama and Trump that are rippling our traumas still, our fears.
Our children are watching, are children are being traumatized in their childhoods, by economic uncertainty, a pandemic society of social isolation and fear, and social unrest and injustice.
We have two old-guys running to lead America.  I remember both from their entire histories.  I predate both in my cultural history, I’m Kennedy and Johnson, they’re 1980s and 90s.  They’re both old as dirt, they are from a different era, a different time.
They all are, all of our leaders are old.  That needs to change, and I suspect it will change once we clear pandemic.  There is immense motivation for change, from our children, to create something better – for them – which is their absolute right.
I support their voice for change – we need to do a lot about providing economic opportunity for them… for our children.  We need to do a lot about providing them with a safe, affordable, and top-tier education… for our children.  We need to do a lot to ensure that our children have affordable healthcare for themselves and their families… for our children.
These are not “them” – they are family – our brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, cousins, grandparents, and our children… most importantly our children – not your children and my children – our children – we’re family… we are not enemies.  You are simply insane.  That’s okay, we’re still family… with an insane member, you, who simply needs some compassionate help to find sanity again.  You’re still not my enemy, you’re just my crazy uncle Joe, or crazy aunt Mable.
First thing… stop being so mean.  Social skills, you learned those in preschool.  Use them.  Second thing… stop shooting people. Everyone, stop it.  Holy cow, everyone thinks that’s okay… no… it’s not.  Stop shooting people.
“What if they’re a bad guy and they want to take my stuff and hurt me?”  That’s crazy Bob, he’s the son of Mary and Joseph, no don’t shoot him, he’s family, let’s get him some help.  Don’t kill him… let’s get him some help, he’s family and he’s having a hard time.
Stop shooting people.
“What about Nazis in WW-II, can we shoot them?”  First off, there shouldn’t be Nazis, that should be a DSM-5.1 disorder; Pathological Anger and Pathological Violence. That should be a diagnosable psychiatric condition that receives treatment.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857”

Federal Agencies Admit To $1.2 Trillion In Improper Payments Since 2004

In the finale of compiling , completing the same situation

in my experience of partnership , that gets worse in intent .

Deadly !

Exposing it lends a voice to the cause of better laws in lieu

of current , multi fractured corporate , oppositional

is intended to render more revenue .. Erasing families

The main factor in high conflict experiences , is the

malignant, never ending desire to destroy the financial

spiritual, and mental/physical health of their target .

I have no doubt of the abuse by leaders , with so much

shadow , and consciousness that’s displayed for

effect, as the mask of social norm decries .

No one seemed to note the horrific adverse behavior

but me , in what was the culture of suicide …

I am so blessed to note the awareness grows daily

as many awaken to the opportunities provided

in this crisis .

My preference thus to stay in that place of balance .

Now we know who , what , where , and when , we may

better act and enact as a conscious body in the best

interest of the family of Gaia …

©️☮️🙏🏼💯

Blessings & Peace

Doña Luna

Last year, these improper payments totaled $140 billion – that’s about $12 billion per month.
— Read on www.forbes.com/

Social Worker Charged With Fatal Child Abuse Cover-Up – CBS Los Angeles

Stefanie Rodriguez is one of four social workers who are charged with child abuse and falsifying records in Gabriel Fernandez’s case.

— Read on losangeles.cbslocal.com/2017/01/30/social-worker-charged-with-fatal-child-abuse-cover-up/

Kentucky Judges Pre-Signed Blank Legal Documents So That Child Services Could Take Custody of Kids on Nights and Weekends – Reason.com

Kentucky’s Cabinet for Health and Family Services—the state agency that provides child protective services—has a practice of obtaining blank emergency custody orders pre-signed by judges. Social workers then fill out the documents with the necessary information after they’ve been signed by a judge and then use them to take custody of children from parents who have come under investigation. Let me repeat that: no judge actually reviews these orders, or the evidence used to justify separating a family, before signing them.

#OpExposeCPS #HumanTrafficking

“Children are being illegally taken from their home without judges’ proper authority.”
— Read on reason.com/2019/05/09/kentucky-cabinet-family-health-child-services-judges-pre-signed/

People don’t become ‘adults’ until they’re in their 30s, say scientists

I totally concur , in the family who fails to consciously

and spiritually educated a child ; the adulting can be

in mid 30s after careers and families are established ,

spirituality begins to tug at the near 40 year old , who

reviews their life so far. Feeling the need to stand for

something , as if unaccomplished can motivate unnecessarily

instead of simply reviewing , setting intentions , and

enjoying the journey .

It was at 37 , as our youngest was 6 , that my mothering

was challenged by RX addiction , 17 days in hell that is

a psychiatric unit , establishing the matrix of domestic

abuse ignored in lieu of mental illness.

I tried to go with the flow for the next 5, allowing I was

mentally ill, as no one supported domestic abuse, hearing

or seeing the truth .

A definite hindered effort to mature …

Experts say it’s “increasingly absurd” to say we move instantly from childhood to adulthood
— Read on www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/people-don-apos-t-become-100300736.html

Psychological manipulation: An expert explains parental alienation to “48 Hours” – CBS News

She’s good, charging over $1500 per hour, unobtainable for many

the humongous need for education is vital . Thwarted by the

control of all involved professionals who must stick to government

guidelines is not the best thing for families , being erased largely

for profit and control .

Ms Baker is expert , and does have truths to educate the public

who has accepted the abuse normal.

How can one parent turn a child against the other parent? Amy Baker, Ph.D, a researcher and author, explains parental alienation.
— Read on www.cbsnews.com/video/psychological-manipulation-an-expert-explains-parental-alienation-to-48-hours/

Most cancers are caused by ‘eating processed food’ and ‘toxic ingredients’, study confirms

Huge factor , amongst others .

Most cancers are caused by ‘eating processed food’ and ‘toxic ingredients’, study confirms
— Read on www.getholistichealth.com/78986/cancers-processed-food/

Religious Children Have Trouble Distinguishing Reality From Fiction

Seeing this exampled is scary …

A study out of Boston University examined how exposure to religion affects a child’s ability to distinguish between fact and fiction.
— Read on themindunleashed.com/2018/11/religious-children-have-trouble-distinguishing-reality-from-fiction.html

#GirlsToo Pledge – Unite & Stop Sexual Harassment & Violence

For your consideration, I share this , and look forward

to signing for the Boy Scouts very soon.

Blessings & Peace

DonaLuna

Pledge to join the movement against sexual harassment & violence toward women & girls. Recognize the Problem. Become the Solution. Make the Change.
— Read on girlstoo.girlsinc.org/