Sherrie Campbell PhD :Toxic Family

Tuesday Teachings

Too often we allow our toxic family members to make us feel cruel when they are forced to face the consequences of their own transgressions. Whenever you confront them they immediately fall into the histrionics of the “hurt person” role. Why? They loathe being called out. When you call them out, they accuse you of being “cruel” to them.

It is never cruel to let any person, especially a family member, know when they are grossly mistreating you. In healthy relationships this type of respect and openness is encouraged.

Instead of openness and ownership, our toxic family members guilt us for telling the truth. Do not fall for this. Never feel guilty for respecting someone enough to tell them the truth. If they think the truth is a cruel thing to bring up, that’s their problem. Not yours. Stand your solid ground.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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