The body can overcome all manner of genetic and environmental insults provided it has the energy to do so. Mitochondria supply that energy.
— Read on www.hormonesmatter.com/mitochondria-energy-not-genetics-underlies-health-disease/
Benedict Cumberbatch Says He’ll Turn Down A Role If His Female Co-Star Isn’t Paid The Same 😘
Benedict Cumberbatch Says He’ll Turn Down A Role If His Female Co-Star Isn’t Paid The Same
— Read on www.nostraightnews.com/benedict-cumberbatch-says-hell-turn-down-a-role-if-his-female-co-star-isnt-paid-the-same/
4Driversof Childhood Anger
For many children, anger comes from 4 distinct drivers, each being a powerful inner feeling that “there is something inherently wrong with me”.
The four drivers are:
Competence
The feeling that I am “not good enough” at some skill or ability, like being popular, getting good grades, sports or something else I “should” be good at.
Body
The feeling that my body is not good enough — I am not thin enough, strong enough, tall enough or pretty enough.
Identity
The feeling that I am somehow the “wrong kind” of person — it could be my gender, my race, religion or even my personality.
Relationship
The feeling that “I will be loved only if I am X.” This “X” could be based on my grades (competence), my body appearance (body), my willingness to “change who I am” (identity) or something else, where the child feels he will ONLY get love, IF a separate condition is also met.
The Most Damaging Driver of Child Anger
Of these four, the most powerful and damaging is Relationship — the feeling that I am loved “only if” something else, because it implies that love depends on something other than the child himself – that he is not lovable simply on his own, with NO other requirements. For any person, child or adult, this is one of the deepest sources of lifelong emotional pain.
For a child, if the seed of this belief is planted and not corrected, it will lead to feelings of low self-worth, anxiety, depression and even self-harm, all throughout their lives.
For many children with anger issues, this is the where the anger is coming from.
It Comes From One’s Parents, But It’s Not Their Fault
The feeling of being loved “only if” comes primarily from one’s parents — BUT it is not their fault. It is the result of a simple but colossal misunderstanding between parents and children — one that is completely accidental and unintentional.
Thankfully, it can also be fixed and healed, using a series of protective measures to protect your child from the emotional pain of this unintentional wound.
Below is the link to the First Protective Measure, which you can use to self-assess and quickly fix this problem for your own child— it is an extremely effective and yet easy technique, and is explained in a short audio session so you can listen from anywhere.
You will be able do it immediately with your child, even as soon as you finish the briefing.
And YES it will work even if only one parent does it, and the other one is not involved.
I guarantee that by the end of this short session, you will have a powerful, yet straightforward technique to protect and immunize your child from this lifelong source of emotional pain and wounding.
Warmly,
Artie
founder, preside meditation
http://presidelife.com/the-first-protective-measure-audio-111/
Depression in Men: It Looks Different Than You Might Think
Much more to add , ASAP .
There is a big emphasis in our society on men being strong and tough. They should be able to handle anything and shouldn’t struggle with emotions and feelings.
— Read on psychcentral.com/lib/depression-in-men-it-looks-different-than-you-might-think/
Custody exchange in parking lot ends with father dead, mom’s boyfriend charged with murder
I suspect there is much more to the story …
The children, a boy and a girl, witnessed the shooting but neither were injured, officers say.
— Read on www.wgal.com/article/1-man-dead-another-behind-bars-after-shooting-during-child-custody-exchange-in-hamilton/25700456
For Domestic Violence Survivors, Family Court Becomes Site of Continued Abuse
This too is changing , as awareness becomes reality ,
compassionate folks who stand beside children in
courts , insuring no trauma, or advantage is targeted
against a child in continuation of a parent who
is indisposed , disadvantaged , out monied , ie
discriminated against in every way . A very grievous,
vulgar and unnecessary , socially accepted human
rights violation.. And it’s motion of transformation
is upon us as leaders domestically abuse us , shadow
is exposed and thankfully a million stars align
to open a healing as never imagined ..Heaven
on Hearth begins with Peace in Ones ♥️
Family courts often lean toward joint custody, a preference that some abusers use to continue harassing former partners.
— Read on truthout.org/articles/for-domestic-violence-survivors-family-court-becomes-site-of-continued-abuse/
Donald Trump Says Men WhoTake Care of Their Kids Are Acting ‘Like the Wife’ | Fortune
Discovery of this adaptation with the father of my child , was
further enhanced by an attitude of ownership . If I were graded t
it would have been incomplete in every way . His nurture was
seldom and utilized to remedy a situation , he was not able
to navigate emotionally. In our 1st year , I was subjected to
devastating abuses that I had to review in triggered C- PTSD
which was not known to me at the time…it was a hell
come to earth.
In denial of anything but surface , friendship that often insulted
even that , and the unexpected rages never afforded me security.
That became personified in his partner , and the committee of
3 enjoyed the insults that occurred when I was allowed to
participate in son’s life experiences .. I was not allowed knowledge
of much including a near death crisis as our youngest attended
college out of state .. Of course he feels I failed as a Mom
an addict via psychiatry by choice to get out of being his mom.
Lacking emotion , adhering to the male model of affluence,
belonging to the right clubs , knowing the right person to call
a ” brother” who will aide and never tell. His nickname in
his home ” brother” , cannot connect emotionally , a feminine
reaction abused out of him? Or modeled by a society that has
allowed his life lessons to be ” evaporated ” if disagreeable to
uphold his perception of importance in his world.
I represent his failures , his secrets , his failings , and his imbalance
of masculine and feminine energy . Disrespect , and Abuse is
from inside out , and very repressive and depressive .. he
withheld to the point of reducing himself to a void , and my
surrogacy as he embraced breakneck change and success in
his career , our home became ever more a place to drop in,
participate as much as he could , much in the social aspect
giving the look of normal family …Doors were never shut against
him , he busted them through ..he had ever increasing
meetings or out of towns , speaking his truths , ie confessing
by 3rd person stories , always another guy , which began 3
months into our marriage . His employees also were his cover
for sexual pursuits that I painfully discovered never conveyed
love, intimacy or attachment .
As a very sick, physically ill , misdiagnosed mental patient
his detachment was utterly soul snatching , as I painfully
watched the erosion of our ” family” knowing his search
for love would never end .. Draining those who failed him
he has chosen to continue his efforts to hold me responsible
for my abuse and the loss of all the connectedness with our
sons, his brother/friends , ever ” his ” …
Trump talks about his views on fatherhood in a series of past interviews
— Read on fortune.com/2016/04/24/trump-act-like-wife/
For myself , truthing the last 20 years plus of lies , liberates children . I’m past ready .
Silver dental fillings are 50% mercury ; Danger to Women & Children
Two new studies associating dental amalgam fillings with pregnancy risks confirm action is urgently needed to protect babies from the known risks of mercury, according to the International Academy of Oral Medicine and Toxicology (IAOMT). A growing number of countries have taken measures to prevent the placement of dental amalgam “silver” fillings in women and children because it contains approximately 50% mercury. However, dental amalgam is still used widely in the United States with no restrictions for these or other susceptible populations.
