Donald Trump Says Men WhoTake Care of Their Kids Are Acting ‘Like the Wife’ | Fortune

Discovery of this adaptation with the father of my child , was

further enhanced by an attitude of ownership . If I were graded t

it would have been incomplete in every way . His nurture was

seldom and utilized to remedy a situation , he was not able

to navigate emotionally. In our 1st year , I was subjected to

devastating abuses that I had to review in triggered C- PTSD

which was not known to me at the time…it was a hell

come to earth.

In denial of anything but surface , friendship that often insulted

even that , and the unexpected rages never afforded me security.

That became personified in his partner , and the committee of

3 enjoyed the insults that occurred when I was allowed to

participate in son’s life experiences .. I was not allowed knowledge

of much including a near death crisis as our youngest attended

college out of state .. Of course he feels I failed as a Mom

an addict via psychiatry by choice to get out of being his mom.

Lacking emotion , adhering to the male model of affluence,

belonging to the right clubs , knowing the right person to call

a ” brother” who will aide and never tell. His nickname in

his home ” brother” , cannot connect emotionally , a feminine

reaction abused out of him? Or modeled by a society that has

allowed his life lessons to be ” evaporated ” if disagreeable to

uphold his perception of importance in his world.

I represent his failures , his secrets , his failings , and his imbalance

of masculine and feminine energy . Disrespect , and Abuse is

from inside out , and very repressive and depressive .. he

withheld to the point of reducing himself to a void , and my

surrogacy as he embraced breakneck change and success in

his career , our home became ever more a place to drop in,

participate as much as he could , much in the social aspect

giving the look of normal family …Doors were never shut against

him , he busted them through ..he had ever increasing

meetings or out of towns , speaking his truths , ie confessing

by 3rd person stories , always another guy , which began 3

months into our marriage . His employees also were his cover

for sexual pursuits that I painfully discovered never conveyed

love, intimacy or attachment .

As a very sick, physically ill , misdiagnosed mental patient

his detachment was utterly soul snatching , as I painfully

watched the erosion of our ” family” knowing his search

for love would never end .. Draining those who failed him

he has chosen to continue his efforts to hold me responsible

for my abuse and the loss of all the connectedness with our

sons, his brother/friends , ever ” his ” …

Trump talks about his views on fatherhood in a series of past interviews
— Read on fortune.com/2016/04/24/trump-act-like-wife/

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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