Labeling homeless people doesn’t help. Addressing economic issues that swell the ranks of the homeless as well as the mental illness, addiction, disability, and other issues the homeless battle will. | The Olympian

My last 5 years of marriage where ” homes less”

The next 5 years were vegged out in a 4 level grey

condo, no earth, no sky, just knocked out . Grief

& guilt , no joy , shadow had me in total

2 years of home ownership . Fear , Anger , My

primal came out , but hope and light 💡 began

to take root.. Prayers & Plans 2006 .Sold at a loss

lived in a hotel , my things in a truck , to be met

with a nightmare living space wise.

Blessings increased ❤️💯

Moved into a friend’s house, left due to non replacing

of fridge , which he did replace for the next tenant .

Which catalyzed my move towards my dream.

2 years in my 1st home in the mountains, and

a LL who ignored , full septic tanks, power line

responsibility etc , and after replacing a rusted heat

pump , he wanted to raise the rent.

I moved to a house with garden space , and

more privacy.. I failed to realize the extent of the

work, and cost required to create a livable

home , spending 8 k on labor and materials,

gardening etc..

I left over Abuse by he and his reps , when he

planned to add a heat pump , raise the rent

and refused to replace a bathtub that was exposed

to toxic metals .

The next house had a do drop in landlord who

suggested I write my own lease, that I sign a 30

year lease . 2 years in m the 60’s stove was shot

and replacing it, as well as capping the fireplace

that has leaked during a flood , on the outside

as well as inside . Flashing was also placed .

The next months I found a 30 day evict notice.

I stayed Feb thru May, in relocating efforts

and a major health issue that resulted( as I

had been told I would not have rent increased

and the house would not be sold )

The farm house I went too, had been for sale for

8 years , had black mold , dampness was horrific

and a new agent repeatedly abused my privacy

and safety but sold the white elephant , and

a friend rescued me.. A farm house that I could

do what I wanted with , was fraught with toxic

issues, and an addiction in LL that tested me

with 90 plus days of no hot water ..

LL was heard , attesting to the more revenue

and more connections , the more heard you are

in court ..

Again my things packed in a U Haul , homeless

for 2 weeks , and all that negative rendering .

Currently in an apartment , just learning

of arsenic in bricks, mold in ceiling tiles

with a LL who wants me to move so a redo

can transform this over 100 year old elephant

that has been neglected and abused over long.

It’s been brought up in court , my excessive

moving , like I choose this experience.

It is but another cause I hope to embrace ,

given the adversities of holding a home has

reached so many, and will only grow , it’s

past time to educate and enforce landlord

tenant law , to the benefit of all involved .

Homelessness happens when personal misfortune and economic and political forces collide. The challenge in Thurston County and Olympia is to address both the individual issues — addiction, mental illness, disabilities, and other challenges — and the larger structural problems.
— Read on www.theolympian.com/opinion/editorials/article225108245.html

Prisons are housing mental health patients who’ve committed no crimes

This has been going on, and accepted for decades.

I was jailed , daring to try to show the abuse to the court.

Our sons were there per my request, so I could end the abuse

they were pulled into.. After listening to the lies of ” former”

the judge asked our sons..” Do you want your mother jailed?”

Triggered does not describe the truths revealed in that

sentence ..

After a very discriminating check in, my cell had no mattress

a sink over the toilet, deputies who told me to stop my Buddhist

prayer, a gal across from me who had no real what she did after

ingesting RX and drinking .. her chatter about possibly knifing

her man, a harsh sentence due to priors , as an elegant drunken

woman came in to sleep it off …

Hell on Earth , much like the mental ward , exactly the same.

I left at noon the next day, and curled in a fetal position for

a few days , the trauma as bad as it was was conformation

of many things I needed to witness.

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— Read on www.abajournal.com/magazine/article/breakdown_prisons_mental_health_patients/

$60m settlement reached in abuse at Haitian school tied to Jesuits – The Boston Globe

A very good thing , Exposure and Closure

$60m settlement reached in abuse at Haitian school tied to Jesuits – The Boston Globe
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Sharing shame , can reveal who is authentic

Empath’s fail , being vulnerable in sharing

shame , and having just 1 person who hears

you . I gave up trying to please those folks

who don’t earn the right, or hold space for

my story …

I’m getting more discerning , failing to acknowledge

the no shows , grateful for the brave hearts who

try ; knowing and doing better ..

Newton’s Law :

For every action ….

Shame by Brene’ Brown

www.youtube.com/watch

How Narcissistic Parents Infantilize Kids | Psychology Today

This perfectly explains the dynamics I have been

aware of since Mid year 1978 , after sharing our joy

and witnessing the immaturity , and projected

blame of a man who had known this dynamic for

his entire life.

Typically saving the storied that solidified a lifestyle

that afforded a connection to call and a resolution

to all acceptance of responsibility. As our children

were abused in GM’s care, I have no doubt of physical

and mental abuse that was supported by money as

a god. I was , along with our sons were considered a

drain , financially , and slowly that combined with

drink , and sex addictions, with adverse parenting that

was more ” uncle” that dad. Partnership was with the

mother, never me, nor the ” replacement” , and of course

neither were ” liked” by mom , only tolerated until

shredding the completion .

Affluence, memberships, religious afflictions , secrets abound

with the constant projection of blame at any target . Our sons

and DIL have been ” targeted ” as well, depending on what’s

going on at the time. Vampires, emotionally , spiritually

who choose to remain ignorant and defensive of any

and all responsibility , considering my demise completed

old history .. Hero’s , the mom and son, who ” saved ” our

children by killing me alive , to save their abuse secrets

lies, begetting more lies..

Very comfortable that money and connections are their

constant out, which has been supported by professionals

who choose to do that in a network of dank dark shadow.

Narcissists as parents create children who themselves can develop their own problems. New research shows how infantilization plays out when those children grow up.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201810/how-narcissistic-parents-infantilize-kids

AOC’s Call For Abolishing Billionaires Is Deeply American

Totally in alignment of this concept becoming a reality soon.

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez says that billionaires should not exist, because concentrated is immoral and a threat to democracy. Those ides might seem radical to Sean Hannity. But to America’s founders, it seemed like common sense.
— Read on nymag.com/intelligencer/2019/01/ocasio-cortez-aocs-billionaires-taxes-hannity-american-democracy.html

Strip Search Of Four Black Girls By Middle School Officials Draws Outrage From Parents, Community Members In Upstate New York | BLAVITY

So worthy of transforming 🤓

A New York state school district is facing a storm of…
— Read on blavity.com/strip-search-of-four-black-girls-by-middle-school-officials-draws-outrage-from-parents-community-members-in-upstate-new-york

Push to make Va. last state to ratify ERA hits dead end in House – Virginia Mercury

This is not a ” good thing ” for my state legislators .

Push to make Va. last state to ratify ERA hits dead end in House – Virginia Mercury
— Read on www.virginiamercury.com/blog-va/push-to-make-va-last-state-to-ratify-era-hits-dead-end-in-house/

After he cross-examined me, my abuser was allowed to see our sons – and he killed them | Metro News

In the trying times now upon us , this becomes more prevalent,

more ghastly, in large part to the adversary driven professionals

who benefit from the fragmented relationships.

That belief has been very impressive in profit for the law, and

the family has been erased in competition , game playing

detachment and power.

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of domestic abuse and violence. It took just 15 minutes on 22 October 2014 for my world to end and my heart to be…
— Read on metro.co.uk/2019/01/22/after-he-cross-examined-me-the-courts-allowed-my-abusive-ex-to-see-our-sons-and-he-killed-them-8372846/