Australia is sending a strong message to domestic abusers worldwide: You’re not welcome here. Australia has recently broadened a migration law to bar any person who has been convicted of domestic violence anywhere in the world from getting a visa to enter the country. American R&B singer Chris B…
— Read on www.upworthy.com/australia-is-banning-entry-to-anyone-found-guilty-of-domestic-violence-anywhere-in-the-world
Tag: Domestic Abuse
Trump’s separation of families constitutes torture, doctors find | US news | The Guardian
I can testify to this , and am doing my best to get these facts out there .
#Torture&Trauma
Evaluations of 26 people by Physicians for Human Rights provides first in-depth look at policy’s psychological impact
— Read on www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/feb/25/trump-family-separations-children-torture-psychology
Triangulation: The Narcissist’s Best Play | The Psychology of Self
It’s all there , it’s very stark, but no more lies, no more riddle me this BS , no more
target, no more thievery of any sort , the facts for our children and theirs .
Ending this generational , currently epidemic, that affects too many families ..
Todays verdict against Henry Weinstein, is a victory for all, and a huge move
forward to ending this Domestic Abuse that’s upheld by the top.
Gone 🎉👏©️
Peace & Blessings
Doña Luna
Within the vast catalogue of toxic behavior, triangulation is amongst the most well-known. It is very common, especially among narcissistically inclined
— Read on blogs.psychcentral.com/psychology-self/2019/10/triangulation-and-narcissism/
Why You Aren’t ‘Lazy’ If You’re Exhausted in Trauma Recovery | The Mighty
Totally get this …
A woman living with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) describes why you aren’t being “lazy” if you’re feeling exhausted in trauma recovery.
— Read on themighty.com/2020/02/lazy-exhausted-in-trauma-recovery/
The Connection Between Pipelines and Sexual Violence | The New Republic
Attempts to address the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women Crisis could be counteracted by the problems “man camps” cause for reservation communities.
— Read on newrepublic.com/article/155367/connection-pipelines-sexual-violence
Over a third of domestic abuse victims trying to flee their partner plagued with financial abuse | The Independent
Way under , way under .. each woman I work with says the same thing .
Lies , cheats, steals …
#MoneyEqualsGodPower
One in three domestic abuse victims trying to flee their partner have been plagued with financial abuse that leaves them unable to escape danger, figures show.
— Read on www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/domestic-abuse-victims-financial-abuse-women-refuge-debt-a9253901.html
Note to Millennials: Boomers didn’t screw you. 😜Conservatives did.
Millennials today are rightfully anxious about their future and righteously angry that their parents’ generation has generally done a piss-poor job of safeguarding their inheritance. Millennials, it is often said, may be the first generation in…
— Read on www.dailykos.com/stories/2020/2/9/1918048/-Note-to-Millennials-Boomers-didn-t-screw-you-Conservatives-did
Coffeyville, Kansas medical debt: County in rural Kansas is jailing people over unpaid medical debt – CBS News
Oh yes, medical debt and bankruptcy , divorce , suicide , homicide due to medical debt
and illness that gets worse instead of better …Cash Cow for Corps , not caring of
responsibility .
#AVeryNarcissticApproachToHealing
If two court hearings are missed on unpaid medical debt, the judge issues an arrest warrant for contempt of court.
— Read on www.cbsnews.com/news/coffeyville-kansas-medical-debt-county-in-rural-kansas-is-jailing-people-over-unpaid-medical-debt/
Losing Oneself After Being Married to a Narcissist – Invisible Illness – Medium
Much of her experience rings true , similar traits do show up..
Rejection of myself , our 1st pregnancy , projection of Blame and Shame
only 3 months in a marriage . Horrific birthing support and rape
and trauma and fear , compliance in my awareness that though he was
not happy, nor pleased , what was his was his….and indeed it became worse
and very natural for his exit to salvage himself in all ways 1st . Greed
and power are covenants that prohibit equality , normalcy , partnership
and a healthy foundation for children/grandchildren … Taking anything of
mine, any joy , monies , reputation , foundation etc gives him great joy .
Illness even more so, being his target for over 40 years , a way to get empathy,
sympathy and support from source supply/partner , who made him the man
he is today …peter pan .
#GrowthisOptional
,For as long as I can remember I have never been in control. The significant people in my life have controlled me. I have to take some accountability for this, and I do. But I think I never learned…
— Read on medium.com/invisible-illness/lessons-on-losing-oneself-after-being-married-to-a-narcissist-f8111486dfe0
Graphic picture and statement on Abuse “Side-effects”
I apologize in advance if this is too graphic and hard to view for those of you that personally know me and must have thought that a “boss” like me would’ve never allowed this to happen to myself . . But when you get knocked out from a one hitter quitter by someone you share a child with , it’s an obvious unfair fight . He’s twice my size . He trains at a boxing gym . He PLANNED on this to happen with a conscious sober mind . He preyed on me . He left me on the floor like this , he never offered to take me to a hospital , I was afraid that if I mentioned his name aloud or came out to the open about this , he would’ve sent people to ruin my life . But I have a VOICE and I will NOT be silenced any longer . Chance after chance , three strikes & I could’ve been DEAD . This could’ve easily happened to my kids so I welcome any and all the punches ! BUT no matter how heavy an argument is , no matter how bad you wanna escape or seek closure in asking yourself “does this person still love me?” It made me feel SICK trying to protect his name after he beat me to a pulp thinking that I wouldn’t work up the courage to finally put myself first before continuously defending and protecting him . I now know that people WAKE UP with clarity . God woke me up ! I’m alive , breathing , completely heartbroken , devastated but I WILL find strength . I’m so loved by many people I can’t even fathom how much . . All this relationship left me with was a broken nose , fractured cheekbone , broken pinky , scarred tissue in my lip , and nerve damage to my gums . Thank you Lord . You’re a great God . My ONLY God . Thank you for giving me the strength to fight for myself .–
Abused children, whose heritage of fear has clouded all ; awaken to the power of change
GreatCosmicMothersUnite 