Tag: survivors

Narcissists Blame You for Their Cheating & Betrayal: Here’s Why | QueenBeeing Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support

3rd person usually , former stepped out of his own

stuff and discussed the betrayal story , naming a close

friend . It took me a long time to connect the dots ..

As a ” mental patient ” I learned of his effort to bed

a sister , who was 7 when we wed.

His reasoning included the compliment of ” her body

reminded me of yours …before kids ”

There are a lot of very frustrating moments with a

” marriage ” to such a lost soul , and I’m sure he believed

his stories , as if they happened . I didn’t trust him ,

but did not consider his other pursuits as fact , only

intuitive , as my body responded in many stress related

illness that were lost on professionals ..

In his world winning is everything , the only thing ,

is retaining power, money and truths , disregarding

anyone and everyone whose not adhering, supportive

and honors his needs , lessoned by the experience .

always spewing toxic shame and disposal.

Coming back at me , upping the ante , when faced with

financial indiscretions, a ploy utilized to effectively

shut me up …I choose to be honest and truthful

leaving a message , clearing and calmly pointing

out the trail , could not be wiped clean , all pointing

to the facts.

The force that separates , by force any child out of

a parent’s life is indeed a hate crime .

Boom !

Narcissists Blame You for Their Cheating & Betrayal: Here’s Why | QueenBeeing Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support
— Read on queenbeeing.com/narcissists-blame-you-for-their-cheating-betrayal-heres-why/

This has been fact within 42 years: Weaponized Silence Abuse

narcsite.com/2019/02/23/17-salvos-of-silence-8/

When The U.S. Government Tried To Replace Migrant Farmworkers With High Schoolers : The Salt : NPR

The recoil was again witnessed as migrants disabled by

our resident Corp Prez , thus unable to labor , that left

food rotting …

Industrial farming is out , as is a life style, parenting ,

education , and socialization that as much as possible

instills a love for the earth and replenishing instead

of extracting , of balance in life that prepares each child

supportively for life …creating a safe world for that to

happen is evolving rapidly ..

As with so many current issues , this one will be created

and individualized , perhaps evolving with babies who

are equipped for humanhood , just as some critters ,

stand and walk just after birthing ..

It’s possible , so I’m reading …oh my

We sure as hades are not in Kansas , Toto 🤩

Blessing & Peace

Doña Luna

In 1964, a program that brought migrant Mexican laborers to the U.S. ended. So the U.S. recruited American students to pick crops instead. When they saw their living conditions, strikes ensued.
— Read on www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2018/07/31/634442195/when-the-u-s-government-tried-to-replace-migrant-farmworkers-with-high-schoolers

ICE Detention Center Says It’s Not Responsible for Staff’s Sexual Abuse of Detainees | American Civil Liberties Union

There is seldom a government agency that is interested

in rape , neither gender .. it’s horrific and due a huge

transformation.. this is hellish reasoning .

#NotResponsible

All 50 states, the District of Columbia, and the federal government impose criminal liability on correctional facility staff who have sexual contact with people in their custody. These laws recognize that any sexual activity between detainees and detention facility staff, with or without the use of force, is unlawful because of the inherent power imbalance when people are in custody. Yet, one immigration detention center is trying to avoid responsibility for sexual violence within its walls by arguing that the detainee “consented” to sexual abuse.
— Read on www.aclu.org/blog/immigrants-rights/immigrants-rights-and-detention/ice-detention-center-says-its-not-responsible

Monsters Are Real : Listen

MONSTERS ARE REAL

On Monday, Billy didn’t have his homework

And when the teacher asked him why

He said, “Because a monster ripped it up,

After I told him a lie.”

“You know monsters don’t exist,

And if you don’t turn in your homework

No recess you will get

On Tuesday, Billy had a stomachache

And when the teacher asked him why

He said, “A monster took away my dinner,

even my cherry pie.”

“Billy, I’ve told you once before,

Monsters are not real.

You’ll have to wait till lunchtime

Before you get a meal.”

On Wednesday, Billy had a bandage,

Which covered his right eye.

When the teacher asked him how it happened,

This was his reply:

“A monster was running after me

When I ran into the door:”

“Billy please,” the teacher said,

“I don’t want to hear any more.”

On Thursday, Billy refused to sit down,

And when the teacher asked him why,

Billy said, “A monster whipped my bottom,

Because I started to cry,”

“Billy, said the teacher,

” this is getting out of hand,

And if you continue with these stories,

In the corner you will stand.”

On Friday, Billy didn’t come to school,

And when the teacher found out why,

She said a little prayer to God

In hopes Billy would survive.

For a monster had beaten Billy

and threatened him with a knife.

Now Billy lay in a hospital bed,

Fighting for his life.

So teachers please remember,

That monsters are for real.

Listen closely to kids stories,

A wounded heart you may heal

Author Unknown…

*The Pain To Children is All Too Real… I found this and felt I had to share it!

Parental alienation: parents share messages they’ve sent to their alienated children – Kidspot

I’m told repeatedly that my text and phone calls

go to a dead file..It’s very important from me

to be told each time we do talk .. of course

“former” blocks or ignores efforts to reach

him of financial errors . He then randomly

calls after a time, with no reference to the

matter I messaged , offering he’s not sure why

he’s not getting my calls or text .. on money

shortages , he again ignores , always going

to the need for a building repair ( faulty design

by his choice ) as well as my entrapment in regard

to signing papers in a state of induced mental

illness. Brazenly suggesting a 30/50 k expenditure

to which I am responsible for 1/2 …

Holding children hostage to hide abuses ongoing

sanctioned by a culture adapted to social

suicide .

Being prevented from seeing or communicating with your child is a special kind of hell – but a parent’s love never dies.
— Read on www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/real-life/in-the-news/alienated-parents-share-unanswered-texts-to-their-kids-and-its-crushing/news-story/0f0cd0f0d1a202655bc944b913298891

To the Suicidal Mama Fighting to Stay Alive for Her Kids | The Mighty

A mom writes a letter to her fellow mama’s who struggle with suicidal thoughts, acknowledging the struggle of mental illness and motherhood and reminding them that they are heard and they should stay.
— Read on themighty.com/2017/12/mom-want-to-die-suicidal/

No Visible Bruises: Domestic Violence and Traumatic Brain Injury | The New Yorker

In the first version of her story, Grace Costa says that, on the night after Christmas, in 2012, her ex-boyfriend broke into her house, hid behind her bedroom door, and then attacked her as she and her two grown children—a son and a daughter—were about to eat dinner. In the second version, it’s still the
— Read on www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/the-unseen-victims-of-traumatic-brain-injury-from-domestic-violence