Over a third of domestic abuse victims trying to flee their partner plagued with financial abuse | The Independent

Way under , way under .. each woman I work with says the same thing .

Lies , cheats, steals …

#MoneyEqualsGodPower

One in three domestic abuse victims trying to flee their partner have been plagued with financial abuse that leaves them unable to escape danger, figures show.
— Read on www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/domestic-abuse-victims-financial-abuse-women-refuge-debt-a9253901.html

Losing Oneself After Being Married to a Narcissist – Invisible Illness – Medium

Much of her experience rings true , similar traits do show up..

Rejection of myself , our 1st pregnancy , projection of Blame and Shame

only 3 months in a marriage . Horrific birthing support and rape

and trauma and fear , compliance in my awareness that though he was

not happy, nor pleased , what was his was his….and indeed it became worse

and very natural for his exit to salvage himself in all ways 1st . Greed

and power are covenants that prohibit equality , normalcy , partnership

and a healthy foundation for children/grandchildren … Taking anything of

mine, any joy , monies , reputation , foundation etc gives him great joy .

Illness even more so, being his target for over 40 years , a way to get empathy,

sympathy and support from source supply/partner , who made him the man

he is today …peter pan .

#GrowthisOptional

,For as long as I can remember I have never been in control. The significant people in my life have controlled me. I have to take some accountability for this, and I do. But I think I never learned…
— Read on medium.com/invisible-illness/lessons-on-losing-oneself-after-being-married-to-a-narcissist-f8111486dfe0

12 warning signs you’re in a toxic friendship | Considerable

Non gender specific …

12 warning signs you’re in a toxic friendship | Considerable
— Read on www.considerable.com/life/people/12-warning-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-friendship/

On Cognitive Dissonance. – Invisible Illness – Medium

All this and more …

The term cognitive dissonance is used to describe the feelings of discomfort that result when your beliefs run counter to your behaviors and/or new information that is presented to you. People tend…
— Read on medium.com/invisible-illness/on-cognitive-dissonance-61821269204

True Soulmates Don’t Complete You, They Inspire You To Complete Yourself – Awareness Act

Inner awareness, took hit after hit , but yea , I reached the place

many years ago of peace and surrender , now accept this in its totality .

No longer need anyone or anything to complete me …no body does

in reality …we do have folks who join us in our person evolution

Far from rejecting love , I rejoice in the deepest love I’ve known in

many years; as such it’s worthy of further exploration , and sharing

love and peace , trust within , guidance all around me , nothing is going

to remove me from that love , fun and joy . I’m very blessed to share

this with beloved’s 🙏🥰

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

True Soulmates Don’t Complete You, They Inspire You To Complete Yourself – Awareness Act
— Read on awarenessact.com/true-soulmates-dont-complete-you-they-inspire-you-to-complete-yourself/

A Breakdown Can Be A JumpStart Towards Wellness Towards Growth Of Self Equalling a Breakthrough

Totally unfortunate when professionally medicated , numbed comfortably

which normally only masked trauma, and can and will find one in a most

vulnerable place .

When the partner chooses this vulnerable time to strike , it reveals their

truth , their character , as in my case 20 plus years later , the ever present

strike of toxic projections , has no home within me .

It’s triggering , and each time , surrender to the lack of growth , that is starkly

revealing in these days of change , and spiritual evolution . ☮️♥️✊🙏

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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They’ll Grow Into It – Trusting Children to Develop Manners, Toilet Skills, Emotional Regulation and More – Janet Lansbury

They’ll Grow Into It – Trusting Children to Develop Manners, Toilet Skills, Emotional Regulation and More – Janet Lansbury
— Read on www.janetlansbury.com/2014/01/theyll-grow-into-it-trusting-children-to-develop-manners-toilet-skills-emotional-regulation-and-more/

Can Narcissists Actually Change Their Ways? We Asked The Experts. | HuffPost Life

It isn’t easy, but it’s possible.
— Read on www.huffpost.com/entry/can-narcissist-change-their-ways_n_5a95a5fae4b03a8f3a23288c