The plan was to discontinue the DSM in the UK , prior to
2016
dhss.delaware.gov/dsamh/files/si2013_dsm5foraddictionsmhandcriminaljustice.pdf
The plan was to discontinue the DSM in the UK , prior to
2016
dhss.delaware.gov/dsamh/files/si2013_dsm5foraddictionsmhandcriminaljustice.pdf
This song came to mind , upon an update from a deserving
soul , who is liberating themselves today …
In homage to those who have been empowered to remove
themselves from harms way , and those who deserve support
derived from this soul who had to do it the hard way
but today feels nothing but independence from generations
of abuse .. Supported by spirit , by ancestors who did not
fare well in matters of children and marriage , finances
home , and AMA APA …socially …clearing this is amazing .
My intent was for a clearing for my earth family , each
unique son Divine graced me with , as well as myself .
I mourned for what I missed, what I lost , what was abused
and Bless my former self , whose fragments are less tragic
in lieu of the many gifts I have received and many of those
are intangible .
I would have never knowingly married anyone who was
masking trauma, addiction, etc who would harm me
or our children . My deepest , darkest pain has been
transformed , resulting in a purity of love and promise
the life I dreamed of , on my own with Beloved’s
love and respect ..new year , new beginnings ..
Truth is Light that is Love
©️
Blessings & Peace
Doña Luna
Honoring a very long goodbye 👋
Independence Day ,
The GOP has no heart. They show time and again that all they care about is money and power, control and domination. In fact, they very much fit the profile of men who abuse women. And the fact is that their actions and words empower abusers (and domestic terrorists like the KKK). A staggering statistic: 1 in 3 women in the USA experience domestic violence, and since Trump took office, even more men feel entitled to abuse women. And they are getting away with it because Republicans in congress continue to rollback protections and victim services for women. Just like they have rolled back protections for children, for the environment, for our health, and are planning to do to our elderly by reducing or even eliminating social security. At this point, saying you support Trump and the GOP is like saying you support your own abuser.
Excerpt: “In February this year, the Violence Against Women Act, expired. Signed into law twenty-five years ago in 1994 by President Clinton, the VAWA was, in large part, precipitated by O.J. Simpson’s murder of his wife Nicole, resulting in the public’s greater awareness about domestic violence. To date, Republicans have opposed the reauthorization of this updated bill, objecting to the exclusion of the “boyfriend loophole” which allowed people convicted of stalking or abusing non-spouse partners to continue to buy firearms. Republicans claim the bill is a veiled attempt to restrict gun ownership rights. However, a higher rate of gun ownership correlates with a higher rate of femicide in our country and presence of a gun in a domestic violence situation increases the risk of a woman’s death 500%, according to the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
… In effect, as long as women live in a world where Republicans attach more value to the right for abusive men to own guns over women’s safety, women like Megan Montgomery will continue to die at the hands of a man she once loved.
Megan Montgomery isn’t a statistic. She’s a friend, a mother, a daughter, a defender against the inhumane treatment of animals. Moreover, she’s OUR friend, mother, daughter, one who was writing a book to help survivors of domestic violence.
She’s Everywoman, and with her died her hopes and dreams. And with her died a piece of every woman’s hopes and dreams for a more just and humane society.”
Full article:
With her death, a piece of every woman’s dream for a more just society also died – al.com
— Read on www.al.com/opinion/2019/12/with-her-death-so-died-a-piece-of-every-womans-dream-for-a-more-just-society.html
Greg has a very good bead on the insanity of narcissist abuse
Much has been my experience as the continued target , regrettably
no positive movement forward , or end via the truth , requires
action …
Laws must be enacted, courts , therapist, society , clergy require
education .
Targets loose so very much , our sons their children …Still in the
matrix / cult….
#NoPhotosOnMilkCartonsofLostChildren
Let’s Put this Together – Narcissism 101. Knowledge and education is vital to starting out on your journey to recovery – OR – great for a brush up course to remember where we came from and where we NEVER want to return to!
https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2019/12/25/lets-put-this-together-narcissism-101-knowledge-and-education-is-vital-to-starting-out-on-your-journey-to-recovery-or-great-for-a-brush-up-course-to-remember-where-we-came-from-and-wh/
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Me, Myself, and I. At its core narcissism is very simple because it solely operates on the principle that the narcissist’s needs come first and foremost!
https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2019/12/17/me-myself-and-i-at-its-core-narcissism-is-very-simple-because-it-solely-operates-on-the-principle-that-the-narcissists-needs-come-first-and-foremost-2/
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Tested repeatedly, I have come to the awareness
recently tested , I am positive I cannot and will not
tolerate being coerced , especially in foundational
heart matters .
Walking on eggshells – where a person feels coerced into silence to avoid the conflict from an abusive person – NOBODY SHOULD EVER HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS TYPE OF TOXICITY AND ABUSE with anyone, no matter if it is a parent, relative, friend, co-worker, spouse, partner, or professional!
https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2019/12/17/walking-on-eggshells-where-a-person-feels-coerced-into-silence-to-avoid-the-conflict-from-an-abusive-person-nobody-should-ever-have-to-deal-with-this-type-of-toxicity-and-abuse-with-anyone-no-mat/
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Hard to ignore the intensification…
People who enjoy hurting others and seeing them in pain are more likely to seek revenge against those who have wronged them, according to a new study.
— Read on www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/11/171130133827.htm
Indeed , or at least that’s the social projection .
Extremely chummy right from the get go , I
recall meeting his roommate/childhood friend
1st , so it could have been one up man’s ship.
Plus I had pots and pans , could keep house
and he had not done that yet.. my caregiving
my empathy , and having no true reason to
doubt , or to over react to behaviors I had noted
as extremely angry and abusive in brothers
which I did not heal nor comprehend in its
totality until Dad’s exit began in Aug 2011…
The healing has been happening over a long
time .. I had synced with Dad as my main
nurturer , and extra sensitive to his mood , sense
deep and profound pain and shadow that he had
no resources for , and much shame and guilt
for ..
I have never known the shame or guilt for his very
open relationships , out of towners , my own sister
and god knows who else.
As he joined in union , then exited our home , he
was delirious with joy, a younger , more attractive
more adversary, partner who would be by his side
as twins , enjoying the increased targeting and abuse
while binding our sons closer and tighter in a web
of lies that’s been unraveling .
Like crumbs he leaves a trail.. Regrettably Reclamation
requires the truth , n light and apparently he’s been
inoculated.
But he does have a new gal ❤️.
This clearing includes them as well, if he chooses to accept this .
Blessings & Peace ,🙏❤️🥰
©️
Doña Luna
This was masked , and over time became apparent
though very loyal in all appearances and actions
the negative language of mom , and much later
his 3rd person stories of his cheating .. Calling
him out on every lie or weirdness would have
consumed me.. As we were rushed in to parenthood
my blessing , his nightmare , and the decent in acknowledging
his deep detachment .. I did see growth, then it was
shadow again.. sensing he held a lot of pain, but he
never shared deeply , only this behavior described
in the video. It was dank and haunting , as a possessive
man, I was well aware of my chances in a divorce .
Causal and Toxic till the end …
©️Doña Luna
Blessings & Peace 🎄🎁🥳
What a Christmas gift 🎁, to hear this young man .
Hear his message to avoid the dark place that I complied
with , let’s make each experience that abuses children count
doing what we can in family reunification and simplify children’s
lives, families lives …
©️
Blessings & Peace ❤️🎄
Doña Luna