Tag: survivors

The Inconvenience of your Illness to Narcissistic

It was soul snatching to become aware just how little support I had in matters of my heath . It began with pregnancy and only grew worse .

A fall and sprained elbow had to await his need to continue an evening out of dinner and drink.

Hours after my fall ,I screamed as I tried to move my arm ,I had thrown up in pain ; did he take me to the ER

A former Vietnam ” Mash ” Dr examined me and gave me a shot of pain medicine.

Certainly had complaints when he helped wash my hair , commenting on my long hair , stating I should cut it off ! as it’s too long and I wasn’t worth his time nor effort

Lots of that ; much shadow involved that did much harm to our family .

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Child Psychological Abuse , Childress

Stop using “parental alienation” in a professional capacity, it will only lead you to your destruction. Use Child Psychological Abuse instead.

“I am concerned the other parent is psychologically abusing our child. I am concerned that the other parent has formed a shared persecutory delusion with my child targeting me, that is destroying my child’s attachment bond to me… as described in these quotes from Walters & Friedlander.

From Walters & Friedlander: “In some RRD families [resist-refuse dynamic], a parent’s underlying encapsulated delusion about the other parent is at the root of the intractability (cf. Johnston & Campbell, 1988, p. 53ff; Childress, 2013). An encapsulated delusion is a fixed, circumscribed belief that persists over time and is not altered by evidence of the inaccuracy of the belief.” (Walters & Friedlander, 2016, p. 426)

From Walters & Friedlander: “When alienation is the predominant factor in the RRD [resist-refuse dynamic}, the theme of the favored parent’s fixed delusion often is that the rejected parent is sexually, physically, and/or emotionally abusing the child. The child may come to share the parent’s encapsulated delusion and to regard the beliefs as his/her own (cf. Childress, 2013).” (Walters & Friedlander, 2016, p. 426)

Walters, M. G., & Friedlander, S. (2016). When a child rejects a parent: Working with the intractable resist/refuse dynamic. Family Court Review, 54(3), 424–445. 

“I’d like a risk assessment for possible Child Psychological Abuse surrounding a possible shared persecutory delusion of the other parent with the child.”

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

The Dark Side of Awakening -Mental Health

I certainly did not expect the decades of past energy and repeats of segments of the past .

I’m clear on being Thankful for the journey as I surrender to unaware and unawake as I have been there .

I’m clear on my effort to explain and leave the understanding to the individual.

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Earth Rising Vibrationally

By Dolores Cannon

We’re moving away from the negativity of the Old Earth, and it’s going to be a complete turnaround, beyond belief, and we’re all going there now.

The New Earth is where it’s all at.

We are living in the most important time in the history of the Universe, and it’s very important to be here now.

There are thousands of souls who want to be here to experience this – even if they can just be here for a few hours. For some, even if they’re born and die right away, they can say, ‘I was there when this occurred.’ This is how important this is to the entire Universe

The world is changing its frequency and its vibration. It’s already doing it. Time is speeding up, everything is speeding up. The earth, itself, has a tone, a frequency.

That tone has changed and it has speeded up. Scientists know this, it’s very definite.

The frequencies and vibrations of the earth are changing. We’re getting ready to shift into a totally new dimension. We have to.

The old earth has gotten to the point where we can’t do anything else to help it. We’re destroying so much here that there’s gonna have to be a separation to move into the new frequency.

They said the entire universe is watching, this is the greatest show on earth because this has never happened in the history of the universe before where an entire planet will make the shift at one time.

Your frequencies are changing, we’re shifting already.

You can feel it in your own bodies. A lot of people are having physical ailments.

They’re going to the doctors and the doctors can’t find anything wrong with them because it’s not anything that they’ve experienced before. The doctors aren’t aware of what’s happening to the bodies now. Our DNA is being changed, the vibration rate is being changed and we are shifting with the planet. We have to.

Dolores Cannon

Shared by Ascension Lightworkers

Making Light of the Dark

IT WAS WOMEN – “It was not witches who burned.

It was women.

Women who were seen as

Too beautiful

Too outspoken

Had too much water in the well (yes, seriously)

Who had a birthmark

Women who were too skilled with herbal medicine

Too loud

Too quiet

Too much red in her hair

Women who had a strong nature connection

Women who danced

Women who sung

or anything else, really.

ANY WOMAN WAS AT RISK BURNING IN THE SIXTEEN HUNDREDS

Sisters testified and turned on each other when their babies were held under ice.

Children were tortured to confess their experiences with “witches” by being fake executed in ovens.

Women were held under water and if they float, they were guilty and executed.

If they sunk and drowned they were innocent.

Women were thrown off cliffs.

Women were put in deep holes in the ground.

The start of this madness was years of famine, war between religions and lots of fear. The churches said that witches, demons and the devil did exist and women were nothing but trouble. As we see even today, there is often a scapegoat created, and the chaos escalated in Sweden when the Bible became law and everything that did not line up with what the church said became lethal. The Bible fanaticism killed thousands of women.

Everything connected to a women became feared, especially her sexuality. It became labeled as dark and dangerous and was the core of the witch trials through out the world.

Why do I write this?

Because I think the usage of words are important, especially when we are doing the work to pull these murky, repressed and forgotten about stories to the surface. Because knowing our history is important when we are building the new world. When we are doing the healing work of our lineages and as women. To give the women who were slaughtered a voice, to give them redress and a chance of peace.

It was not witches who burned.

It was women.”~

~Fia Forsström

MY STORY: Horror of Family Court, Religion & Burning Witches

https://www.coralanikatheill.com/single-post/2016/02/20/horror-of-family-court-religion-burning-witches

#upendpatriarchy

11 Year Old Girl : Speech All Should hear

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Gaia Daily ! Dream a Little Dream

Holding tight to my core beliefs and dreams has been my survival superpower …

A Grand Cross factored into a favorable alignment in 2016 and yea the revelations were not all good 👍, but truths were and are much better than lies and shadow that does much harm stepped in secrets .

Boomerang 🪃 or Karma it’s better to be authentic but polite ✌️😊👁🙏

Blessings & Peace ☮️

❤️ Dona Luna

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Gabby’s parents file for 50 Million

Gabby’s death and the deaths of millions of women ; many of color are taken after not being heard by those who should protect and serve .

Training is needed because as horrific as this is , boys , men are abused and murdered but at no point confide nor heal those abuses and it’s time to address this for ALL in ways that does not support abuses and the awareness to know the difference . A plan B to ensure no one gets by with such abuses as Gabby and many more have given their lives for …

It’s time for change in intimate partner violence

It’s time to expose the harm done when parents support illegal acts , who ignore the signs etc

Win Win weather the $50 million is actualized because it’s wayyyy past time for change in this area of Law Enforcement .

EDUCATION

FACTS

www.accessonline.com/videos/gabby-petitos-family-will-file-50-million-wrongful-death-lawsuit-against-utah-police