It’s a beginning , balance in all things . Especially in those abled in
all ways to represent ” we”; not me .
The 116th Congress has 127 female members — 102 of them in the House. That’s far more than the previous record, but it also is far from gender parity.
— Read on www.npr.org/2019/01/04/678227272/what-it-looks-like-to-have-a-record-number-of-women-in-the-house-of-representati
Stewart witnessed his Mom’s abuse , and is very outspoken against
Domestic Violence
Stewart, David Challen and the Hart brothers know the devastation abuse can wreak – and are challenging the idea that it is a women’s issue
— Read on www.theguardian.com/society/2018/dec/04/domestic-violence-abuse-patrick-stewart-david-challen-hart-brothers
Benedict Cumberbatch Says He’ll Turn Down A Role If His Female Co-Star Isn’t Paid The Same
— Read on www.nostraightnews.com/benedict-cumberbatch-says-hell-turn-down-a-role-if-his-female-co-star-isnt-paid-the-same/
Much more to add , ASAP .
There is a big emphasis in our society on men being strong and tough. They should be able to handle anything and shouldn’t struggle with emotions and feelings.
— Read on psychcentral.com/lib/depression-in-men-it-looks-different-than-you-might-think/
Discovery of this adaptation with the father of my child , was
further enhanced by an attitude of ownership . If I were graded t
it would have been incomplete in every way . His nurture was
seldom and utilized to remedy a situation , he was not able
to navigate emotionally. In our 1st year , I was subjected to
devastating abuses that I had to review in triggered C- PTSD
which was not known to me at the time…it was a hell
come to earth.
In denial of anything but surface , friendship that often insulted
even that , and the unexpected rages never afforded me security.
That became personified in his partner , and the committee of
3 enjoyed the insults that occurred when I was allowed to
participate in son’s life experiences .. I was not allowed knowledge
of much including a near death crisis as our youngest attended
college out of state .. Of course he feels I failed as a Mom
an addict via psychiatry by choice to get out of being his mom.
Lacking emotion , adhering to the male model of affluence,
belonging to the right clubs , knowing the right person to call
a ” brother” who will aide and never tell. His nickname in
his home ” brother” , cannot connect emotionally , a feminine
reaction abused out of him? Or modeled by a society that has
allowed his life lessons to be ” evaporated ” if disagreeable to
uphold his perception of importance in his world.
I represent his failures , his secrets , his failings , and his imbalance
of masculine and feminine energy . Disrespect , and Abuse is
from inside out , and very repressive and depressive .. he
withheld to the point of reducing himself to a void , and my
surrogacy as he embraced breakneck change and success in
his career , our home became ever more a place to drop in,
participate as much as he could , much in the social aspect
giving the look of normal family …Doors were never shut against
him , he busted them through ..he had ever increasing
meetings or out of towns , speaking his truths , ie confessing
by 3rd person stories , always another guy , which began 3
months into our marriage . His employees also were his cover
for sexual pursuits that I painfully discovered never conveyed
love, intimacy or attachment .
As a very sick, physically ill , misdiagnosed mental patient
his detachment was utterly soul snatching , as I painfully
watched the erosion of our ” family” knowing his search
for love would never end .. Draining those who failed him
he has chosen to continue his efforts to hold me responsible
for my abuse and the loss of all the connectedness with our
sons, his brother/friends , ever ” his ” …
Trump talks about his views on fatherhood in a series of past interviews
— Read on fortune.com/2016/04/24/trump-act-like-wife/
Psychiatric Dr created the ” unfit mother ” in me
with toxic RX , incapacitating me , so my abuser
had a clear shot to have a separation and divorce
he paid 2 lawyers to put together his way.
3 men came together , to cut me off at the knees
avoiding facts, for which I had 30 days to respond
to …I incorrectly thought my lawyer had my best
interest at heart .
He had been partners with ex’s lawyer , and over
powered, with only 6 % of his work in family law.
Of course it took, coming to , reading the contracts
of dissolution as if I were in agreement , ” no fault”
was his desire . Making me responsible for my own
health care , and legal fees. As to personal property
he had me signing loan notes , buying himself
and sons cars, and his new love and he going through
our home , keeping all he wanted ..
To say I had a choice, as a misdiagnosed and medicated
mental patient , cover up of such much abuse
where winner takes all, and that’s generated by money.
Whose lawyer is connected and or owed a favor
and not about what’s best for children. Of course
he saved tons , waiting until youngest was 16…
Gone Guy ARE You Happy ? Yet . That gal he left
with/for left him this year …
And all he said as he left , was he had to leave to be
happy , openly dating immediately, living with her
leaving our youngest to live in our very neglected
and abused home .
Of course that was my fault too. Too sick to do
my job , was laziness .
As a Dad , as a partner he did much harm..As a
monied landowner , he has had family connections
and seemingly a permanent ” get out of jail free
card ” and it’s always the other person’s fault.
“It’s funny how sometimes the people you’d take the bullet for, are the ones behind the trigger.” What exactly is parental alienation in the context of a
— Read on pro.psychcentral.com/recovery-expert/2017/11/what-causes-attachment-based-parental-alienation-in-narcissistic-relationships/
Missing the very valid point
Domestic Abuse with children in house / witness
is Child Abuse ,
Wisconsin Lawyer: Domestic Abuse: Little Impact on Child Custody and Placement:
— Read on www.wisbar.org/NewsPublications/WisconsinLawyer/Pages/Article.aspx
50/50 is the best interest of the child.
Heath Eckstein and Philippe Morgese share their stories about fighting for custody of their children and how the laws are changing to better support kids.
— Read on www.babble.com/parenting/fathers-who-fight-for-child-custody/
Anti parenting , ie my ” death” is his best work, in his
heart and mind .
New Support Group for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist | QueenBeeing
— Read on queenbeeing.com/new-support-group-for-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/
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