Abuse Victims Are Not Codependent, They’re Trauma-Bonded | HuffPost

This is very true, and I sense this dynamic

on steroids with children ..still

Ever had a victim-blamer claim you were “codependent?” That you in some way deserved the abuse, or that it was your fault? Let them know: Codependency wa…
— Read on www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/581cfc1de4b0334571e09b49

Man ’10 days from death’ after being starved and abused by controlling girlfriend over six years – Daily Record

The physical and emotional abuse by women towards

man, is underreported , and shadowed by stigma , shame

and fear ..Threats , constant threats in a game of such

extreme competition , that only selected friends and family

are allowed ..Cutting a partner off from friends and family

is common with NPD , as it’s determined who is allowed

and whose not.

Spiritual beliefs trigger the non believer , who feels

empowered and justified in all actions and non actions.

Alex Skeel had boiling water poured over him and kept isolated from loved ones by partner Jordan Worth.

— Read on www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/man-10-days-death-after-14012561

When the kind parent is the targeted scapegoat

Tears flowed freely reading this , so much has been

evoked, and still each stands as is, not one true act

of family..quite the opposite …still.. Self revealing

and bound , with holding in secrets that uphold lies

and abuses sanctioned and supported in a corruption

of souls that decided I should be targeted .

Judges and critics , mentored children to dispose of me

and their survival required my living death . It’s very

hard to ignore , as my finances have been adversely affected

and still he threatens .

Adult Children with Cluster B personalities tend to use and abuse loving parents. Learn how to help them and yourself by setting healthy lifestyle boundaries.
— Read on flyingmonkeysdenied.com/2016/04/15/when-the-kind-parent-is-the-targeted-scapegoat/

There Are 64,000 Missing Black Women and Girls in the United States and No One Seems to Care

Over the years, a disturbingly disproportionate number of Black women and girls across the United States have gone missing. What’s even more alarming is that the media coverage and legislation that missing Black girls are getting seems to be lacking compared to missing White girls.
— Read on www.blacknews.com/news/64000-missing-black-women-girls-in-the-united-states/

How Children Suffering Trauma and Toxic Stress See the World | Time

The key to tackling trauma is a constant, loving caregiver. That makes separating migrant families even more troubling
— Read on time.com/longform/toxic-stress-children-migrant-trauma/

Maryland Passed a Bill to Strip Rapists of Parental Rights

Maryland Passed a Bill to Strip Rapists of Parental Rights
— Read on www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/maryland-rape-law-parental-rights-child-marriage/

Catholic Archbishop Blames Disobedient Wives For Domestic Violence | Michael Stone

I see this, but noticing it’s not just a wife

thing…

#BothGendersAbuse

Blaming the victim: A Catholic archbishop tells his congregation that the root cause of domestic violence is a woman’s disobedience to her husband. Speaking to his congregation in Toledo, Spain, Archbishop Braulio Rodriguez said that wives could escape being physically abused by not being disobedient and by not
— Read on www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2016/01/catholic-archbishop-blames-disobedient-wives-for-domestic-violence/

Media silence as gang rape survivor from northern Iraq wins Nobel Peace Prize – World Tribune: Window on the Real World

Typically that which is not communicated , not heard

festers and becomes a burden , or a weak spot

that can set up a child for lots of harsh lessons.

It’s beautiful when some is heard , who can flip

the worst , transform to become more holy , thus

more honored , a light bearer for sure !

Media silence as gang rape survivor from northern Iraq wins Nobel Peace Prize – World Tribune: Window on the Real World
— Read on www.worldtribune.com/media-silence-as-rape-survivor-from-northern-iraq-wins-nobel-peace-prize/