9 Things You Won’t Remember If You Had A Toxic Parent & What That Means

Not remembering can leave one vulnerable …

A toxic parent’s actions can seem obvious in hindsight, making you question why you didn’t see how wrong they were when you were young. But there are actually a lot of things you won’t remember if you had a toxic parent, and it’s the absences that…
— Read on www.romper.com/p/9-things-you-wont-remember-if-you-had-a-toxic-parent-what-that-means-18169679

Dads now spend 3 times as much time with their kids than previous generations 👏👏👏 – Motherly

This is a very good thing !

Modern dads take parenting seriously, spending three times as much time with their children as men did two generations ago, and they’re doing a lot more during that time.Back in 1982, a whopping 43% of fathers admitted they’d never changed a diaper. Today, that number is down to about 3%, and that’s great, because research indicates that when dads dress, diaper and bathe their babies, the father-child relationship grows stronger as the child grows.Today’s dads get that. Research shows millennial dads have more egalitarian beliefs about childcare, and are striving to see more even distribution of parenting duties in their own households. The numbers prove things aren’t perfect—many dads admit things aren’t yet even in their homes (mom still does more)— but one recent study found modern dads devote 30 more minutes to daily household chores than their own fathers did, and they’re spending more time with their kids than previous generations.That’s huge. Engaged fathers create all kind of benefits for kids. They’re teaching our daughters that they are not less than boys and teaching our sons that dishes and laundry aren’t “women’s work” (those things are just a part of being an adult).This trend of dads doing more at home isn’t just good for our kids, it’s good for our marriages (which is also good for our kids). Research indicates that when 60% or more of the parenting responsibilities fall to mom, the relationship between mom and dad suffers. But, when dads do their part around the house, couples have stronger relationships. Simple things, like dad loading the dishwasher, are so powerful.
— Read on www.mother.ly/news/millennial-dads-spend-more-time-with-their-kids

Sammy’s Law Would Require Recording CPS Interviews With Parents – CBS Sacramento

A new report by the state auditor reveals assessments by CPS workers in three counties were routinely “flawed” as well as “incomplete and inconsistent.”
— Read on sacramento.cbslocal.com/2014/04/08/sammys-law-would-require-recording-cps-interviews-with-parents/

Legally Kidnapped: ‘Foster dad begged for custody of girl, 7, he said was in danger then raped her’

The matrix of abuses of children has been revealing more

and more of these cases , and I try to focus on the best possible

outcome for the child(ren) who in reality have no rights …

Getting worse before it gets better is upon us ..

Our New Earth 🌏 will not allow these impactful abuses

that can be life long trauma ..

As a parent , as a Mom , witnessing , and the intuitive

knowing , yet not knowing these years of separation

that’s been the weapon utilized , the results of which

are child abuse , with legacies for survivors that are

as if sexually abused .

The circus and the monkeys that assist, encourage , profit

and abuse is extinct .. Facts are facts , and the truth is going

to liberate a lot of folks from the side effects of societies

who were misled , and induced into the culture of suicide

that’s conscious and awake , and transforming a horrific

span of time ..

Of this I am 110% sure , and doing my best despite adversities

that include knowing my death is the goal, forgiveness is

not a character trait , certainly not for himself , which is were

fear , trauma, dis ease , shame , etc keep one stuck.

Deserving to step out of that matrix , staying with what has

worked in the past , denial of facts , is more difficult

when lying became easier , long ago.

As exampled by this post, purging these toxic abuses , for

awareness of what it is …it is epidemic

Having been educated in so many ways , it is my job

to share as much as possible of what I am in Awareness

of , in large part , Faith that I would be shown the truths

and light would dispel the darkness… that our children

matter , that I matter .. To end this malignant , High Conflict

20 plus year effort to target , abuse , exposure with legitimate

facts , which are the unfortunate experience for many families

as many in number come together we are heard ..

This is unfolding , with variable offerings , which can be

extremely expensive at present … As the truth is revealed

education , and training , will include much easier , simpler

modalities , of which I lean into holistically as possible

that allow the empowerment of survivors.

We want the best possible outcome , including the healing

of the deep trauma of the abuser , as we step out of shadow

and into the light … it is not our job to fix anyone …

Just to assure that the best interest of a child , in each of us

to be empowered to survive and thrive in all ways of

mind, body and spirit .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Legally Kidnapped: ‘Foster dad begged for custody of girl, 7, he said was in danger then raped her’
— Read on legallykidnapped.blogspot.com/2019/07/foster-dad-begged-for-custody-of-girl-7.html

Billions in Child Support Going to Lawyers and Bureaucrats – Welcome to Leon Koziol.Com

  Not selling the firm , just the info offered here ..

Public Apathy and Lack of Accountability in Family Court are Damaging Our Children By Dr. Leon R. Koziol While federal and state prosecutors focus on high profile politicians for public accountability, our third branch of government remains self regulated and largely overlooked. As a result, parents, children and extended families are being fleeced by…
— Read on leonkoziol.com/2015/03/30/billions-in-child-support-going-to-lawyers-and-bureaucrats/

Let Go Of The People Who Aren’t Ready To Love You | Thought Catalog

In process of doing so hugely ..

Let Go Of The People Who Aren’t Ready To Love You | Thought Catalog
— Read on thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2018/12/next-year-let-go-of-the-people-who-arent-ready-to-love-you/

Schools getting more police but at the expense of counselors, nurses: Report – ABC News

Lockdown on Children is very concerning to me

and many others .

#ProHomeSchooling🙏🏼🌏✊🏽☮️

Despite a shortage of counselors in schools, funding is increasingly put toward staffing up on police officers in the hallways, a new ACLU report found.
— Read on abcnews.go.com/Politics/students-color-students-disabilities-arrested-school-police-report/story

California Mom Wins Second Big Settlement Against CPS for Seizing, Vaccinating Son Without Warrant

The near future will ensure more wins and educated , correctness

will rule , balancing the life of a child that foundations are

in the best interest of the child . Domestic Abuse is Child Abuse

when children are exposed . Throwing money at this , denial

in continued abuse in any and all manner of ways that has

infected society .

Change is upon us , intensely so as we witness the return to

normal, the extremes seem out of balance but know a purge

or detox or exposure is a must .

Breaking addictions is often like this , exposing the areas of

our lives that are not flowing , often toxic , impending the

joy, happiness , grounding we deserve in respect ..

Too often , the abuse gears up at any hint of balance or good

health , as if physical death is the objective for the abusers

joy ..

Social Services ,CPS , Family Court and our current Immigration

all serve the darkest of energy , that’s soon to be corrected .

Count on it ..

©️💯✊🏽

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Rachel Bruno, the mother at the center of a civil rights battle in Orange County, California, has been awarded another big settlement against social services
— Read on medicalkidnap.com/2019/07/12/california-mom-wins-second-big-settlement-against-cps-for-seizing-vaccinating-son-without-warrant/

Medically Kidnapped Children of Washington Parents Still not Returned – CPS Wants them Adopted

Child Protective Services is soon to meet their shadow

big time.

Three breastfed, homebirthed babies who were taken away from their parents by Child Protective Services in Washington state more than a year ago are still not
— Read on medicalkidnap.com/2016/03/15/medically-kidnapped-children-of-washington-parents-still-not-returned-cps-wants-them-adopted/