As a child I was treated like a snitch for being honest . I recall telling Dad that Mom was smoking when she told him she was not .
I was young and may not have understood the dynamics but I did not lie or ignore what I saw . Not to say that I was validated rather I was not treated well for refusing the shadow of lies
I learned of this in 07
It scared me
I let go of it because it falls into conspiracy which humans have bought into.
My faith being tested repeatedly, I’m quite sure I won’t drink the kool aide
The child who starts creating additional ‘bad’ stories about the target parent has truly been alienated. They have ‘split’ off the fear, guilt, sadness, and confusion so they can behave in a way that hurts the other parent and pleases the favoured parent, who might not love them otherwise. They act out of fear, and much coercive control and manipulation. It is, of course, child psychological abuse. When we get contact with these poor children, we have to be extremely careful not to talk about manipulation, lies, parental alienation, and as a target parent, you have to be so immensely strong, emotionally and mentally because there is so much injustice being carried out. Please take time to make sure you are in the best mental and emotional health you can be. Stay strong.
This comes up , threats to expose me as a sexual predator for innocent childhood exchanges now weaponized to shut me up
Lots of folks want to twist the knife in once you’re targeted by an animal individual who will do anything, use anybody , pay any amount of money to WIN
#NotMyWar
I hope you appreciate that
Not everyone will be receptive to your light
As many are still battling their own darkness
Not everyone will want to see you shine
As many still remain suppressed in the shadows
Not everyone will be appreciative of your wisdom
As many would rather remain ignorant or do not resonate with your message and way of seeing the world
Not everyone will be supportive of your growth and evolution
Because they would rather remain stagnant and not make progress
Not everyone will applaud your success
Because they either envy you or are ignorant of it as they are more focused on themselves and their own lives
And not everyone will want to see you heal
Because they are still stuck in their own trauma
And preoccupied with their own problems
But it is not your job to fix them, change them, rescue them or heal them
But simply to love and accept them as they are
And support them in the process of healing themselves
And while not everyone will value or notice you
Not everyone will want you to share your voice
And not everyone will want you to take up space in the world
You should never dim or suppress your beauty and brilliance to fit in
You should never conceal and hide your gifts, strengths and talents
And you should never fear expressing yourself authentically
As you are a beautiful star capable of shining
And the world is in desperate need of your light.
Tahlia Hunter
Art Pintrest
http://www.raisingvibrations.com.au
Such a beautiful peaceful day
Long drive for me , light traffic
and beautiful scenery !
I have understood the tone thing for years . Very sensitive they are under all that self loathing
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