Tag: C-PTSD

Have you Experienced Betrayal Trauma? – Help for Partners of Sex Addicts

There are a number of factors which contribute to being able to recover from a crisis or a trauma. If you’ve experienced a betrayal, maybe read through this list, and see if there are things that can help you here: 1. First … we need to break through the denial and admit to ourselves that…
— Read on sexaddictionpartners.wordpress.com/2020/02/16/have-you-experienced-betrayal-trauma/

Trump’s separation of families constitutes torture, doctors find | US news | The Guardian

I can testify to this , and am doing my best to get these facts out there .

#Torture&Trauma

Evaluations of 26 people by Physicians for Human Rights provides first in-depth look at policy’s psychological impact
— Read on www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/feb/25/trump-family-separations-children-torture-psychology

Triangulation: The Narcissist’s Best Play | The Psychology of Self

It’s all there , it’s very stark, but no more lies, no more riddle me this BS , no more

target, no more thievery of any sort , the facts for our children and theirs .

Ending this generational , currently epidemic, that affects too many families ..

Todays verdict against Henry Weinstein, is a victory for all, and a huge move

forward to ending this Domestic Abuse that’s upheld by the top.

Gone 🎉👏©️

Peace & Blessings

Doña Luna

Within the vast catalogue of toxic behavior, triangulation is amongst the most well-known. It is very common, especially among narcissistically inclined
— Read on blogs.psychcentral.com/psychology-self/2019/10/triangulation-and-narcissism/

Losing Oneself After Being Married to a Narcissist – Invisible Illness – Medium

Much of her experience rings true , similar traits do show up..

Rejection of myself , our 1st pregnancy , projection of Blame and Shame

only 3 months in a marriage . Horrific birthing support and rape

and trauma and fear , compliance in my awareness that though he was

not happy, nor pleased , what was his was his….and indeed it became worse

and very natural for his exit to salvage himself in all ways 1st . Greed

and power are covenants that prohibit equality , normalcy , partnership

and a healthy foundation for children/grandchildren … Taking anything of

mine, any joy , monies , reputation , foundation etc gives him great joy .

Illness even more so, being his target for over 40 years , a way to get empathy,

sympathy and support from source supply/partner , who made him the man

he is today …peter pan .

#GrowthisOptional

,For as long as I can remember I have never been in control. The significant people in my life have controlled me. I have to take some accountability for this, and I do. But I think I never learned…
— Read on medium.com/invisible-illness/lessons-on-losing-oneself-after-being-married-to-a-narcissist-f8111486dfe0

On Cognitive Dissonance. – Invisible Illness – Medium

All this and more …

The term cognitive dissonance is used to describe the feelings of discomfort that result when your beliefs run counter to your behaviors and/or new information that is presented to you. People tend…
— Read on medium.com/invisible-illness/on-cognitive-dissonance-61821269204

Thousands of migrant children were sexually abused in U.S. custody, HHS docs say – CBS News

According to documents obtained by Rep. Ted Deutch’s office, more than 4,500 sexual abuse complaints were reported over the past four years
— Read on www.cbsnews.com/news/thousands-of-migrant-children-were-sexually-abused-in-u-s-custody-hhs-docs-say/

Space Shuttle Challenger disaster –

Observing the 34 th anniversary of the horror of January 28th

1986 , I wanted to share the energy I felt in those shadow years

and in that time frame.

A company sponsored trip to Hawaii , was my 2nd within marriage .

It was only for 3 days, much to quick a trip for me , and as we arrived

and checked in quickly and headed towards the beach , I was unaware

of things to come .

Flying in the pilot announced a fly over the Hula Bowl ..We were low

enough to see the stadium.

Announcing earlier , or later , I cannot recall , that the space craft Challenger

had exploded , and a plane full of grieving passengers landed in beautiful

Hawaii ..

As I said , we headed to the beach , and enjoyed Coronas and barbecued

🍤 shrimp…heading back to our room to prepare for dinner at dusk.

Upon arrival at our room, I developed the adverse effects , which were

so harsh that a doctor was called , and he did help clean up the tiled

bathroom..

The doctor administered a shot, my 1st shot, but not my 1st experience

and the door had hardly shut when he turned to me , asking if I wanted

to go with him to dinner 🥘😷👎

It was a day, I’ll never forget for all the details, for traveling meant

leaving our 3 year old, our 5 year old and 7 year old sons , which was

always hard for me, but was treated very casually … instinctually

I was concerned about their caregiver on our trips .

My internal GPS was taking a beating 😜.

Nothing about that day seemed real , authentic , or true …

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

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Space Shuttle Challenger disaster – Bing
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Can Narcissists Actually Change Their Ways? We Asked The Experts. | HuffPost Life

It isn’t easy, but it’s possible.
— Read on www.huffpost.com/entry/can-narcissist-change-their-ways_n_5a95a5fae4b03a8f3a23288c