Nine out of 10 people in the world hold negative perceptions of women, researchers at the United Nations have found.
— Read on thestoryexchange.org/report-reveals-overwhelming-alarming-bias-against-women/
Tag: survivors
People who don’t self reflect are dangerous
Yep, but they are usually great at projection
Watch out for the Narcissist Mother In Law
A very covert narcissist, it was years before she was openly hostile and witnessing the exchange , he did absolutely nothing .
It was so acute, so vulgar that I walked away, preferring to take a walk on the beach.. he followed. I recall saying , that I’d give him a divorce so he could be with his Mother.
He said ” I’ll divorce her , before I divorce you”. He had a lifetime of trauma bonding and confidential conversations with her , and in the end he targeted me for all the feminine energies that had not been kind to him, as I reflected his distortions back to him, the opportunity to have me disposed of arose and he ran with it.
No care for our sons, nor me, it was always about him and that hasn’t changed, it has gotten much worse.
What is Histrionic Personality Disorder?
Typical bull shit from a non scientific DSM , that targets the highly sensitive person.
I was given this tag , as I was evaluated in an emergency situation, after 2 weeks of taking Xanax , which I was unaware of doing . Xanax has born out the highly addictive ” side effects ” but all was ignored and labeled by a diagnostics ” Bible” concoction of physical , social, behavioral, and spiritual abuses that generates lots of revenue , and is a ” mental and often physical straight jacket ” .
I hear of this more often towards women , and believe it’s targeted towards women by the patriarchal mindset.
The smartest thing I did as I began to wake from the nightmare of induced mental illness was order 13 years of psychiatric files which confirmed the atrocities committed by a Dr, pledged to DO NO Harm .
Silent Scream of those targeted by Narcissists Abuse
Boundaries – Sherrie Campbell, PhD
Tuesday Teachings
Boundaries are not mean, although they are often firm, clear, and direct. When you set a boundary on your family member’s flagrant, abusive, behavior, be prepared for them to level the playing field with an unwillingness to own their abuse and instead cast all blame your way.
If, or when, your family reacts with retaliation, and pose continual threats to your boundaries, this is clear statement that they have no respect for you. They will not take perspective on why you feel the need to set the boundary you are setting.
You tried. You set the boundary and gave them an opportunity to learn and to take a healthier course of action with you, and they refused. This is hurtful and frustrating, but at least their problematic character is clear. If someone in your family continually turns themselves into a person you have to heal from, you are allowed to no longer have them in your life.
A Return to Love – Marianne Williamson
When reading was no longer possible, I bought Marianne Williamson’s books on tape , and she was my spiritual guru at a very critical time in my life.
I began with this book, A Return to Love .. all her tapes, CDs etc begin with a mediation , and I believe she gave me hope and the ability to survive what was my life at that time
Broken – Clarissa Pinkola Estes
“There is a time in our lives, usually in mid-life, when a woman has to make a decision – possibly the most important psychic decision of her future life – and that is, whether to be bitter or not. Women often come to this in their late thirties or early forties. They are at the point where they are full up to their ears with everything and they’ve “had it” and “the last straw has broken the camel’s back” and they’re “pissed off and pooped out.” Their dreams of their twenties may be lying in a crumple. There may be broken hearts, broken marriages, broken promises.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Vojtech Preissig – Meditation.
Alone but not lonely
I have been alone but seldom lonely.
I have satisfied my thirst
at the well of my self
and that wine was good,
the best I ever had,
and tonight sitting
staring into the dark
I now finally understand
the dark and the
light and everything in between.
peace of mind and heart
arrives when we accept what is:
having been born into this
strange life we must accept
the wasted gamble of our
days and take some satisfaction in
the pleasure of leaving it all behind. ~Charles Bukowski
(Book: The Pleasures of the Damned https://amzn.to/45ewriX)
(Art: ‘Polishing the Chandelier’, 1958 by John Koch)
Alone But not Lonely – Mary Chaplin Carpenter
https://youtu.be/CK1qZDwmRJA?si=6LbWGKQCd8E1es1e
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