Tag: Shaming

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and the Impact It Has on Individuals Lives – Real Health

This article is sponsored by Otsuka America Pharmaceutical, Inc.
— Read on www.realhealthmag.com/article/misconceptions-posttraumatic-stress-disorder

Read About New Reports on Bias Against Women

Nine out of 10 people in the world hold negative perceptions of women, researchers at the United Nations have found.
— Read on thestoryexchange.org/report-reveals-overwhelming-alarming-bias-against-women/

Antidepressant Withdrawal: A Clinician’s Middle View – Mad In America

The resistance to my ending my association with antidepressants was strong , but I did so . It takes much longer than stated to taper off and feel better for much is is involved , behaviorally and there was for me the trauma, the varied losses of my humanity and rights . My character was assassinated by ex and friends and family who were busy living their lives and trying to escape responsibilities and any association with mental illness .

It was a huge awakening that was quite unpleasant at times, horrific and very scary on my own.

Antidepressants are handed out like Pez candies with little thought to the many adverse reactions physically and trying to regain, rediscover just who you are under all that mind altering , soul snatching chemical straight jacket .Imagine all that as you are confirmed as misdiagnosed and all these RX were toxic to your body .

I present a middle ground on antidepressant withdrawal, where both sides are understood to have origins in wanting to help people.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/10/antidepressant-withdrawal-clinicians-middle-view/

Watch out for the Narcissist Mother In Law

A very covert narcissist, it was years before she was openly hostile and witnessing the exchange , he did absolutely nothing .

It was so acute, so vulgar that I walked away, preferring to take a walk on the beach.. he followed. I recall saying , that I’d give him a divorce so he could be with his Mother.

He said ” I’ll divorce her , before I divorce you”. He had a lifetime of trauma bonding and confidential conversations with her , and in the end he targeted me for all the feminine energies that had not been kind to him, as I reflected his distortions back to him, the opportunity to have me disposed of arose and he ran with it.

No care for our sons, nor me, it was always about him and that hasn’t changed, it has gotten much worse.

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The bond between Narcissists, their Mom and their sisters

How many ways , I noted this and every attempt to discuss this unholy bond was pacified, often with ” well as a Christian” …

The children began to divorce , the youngest 1st , after a time of dating , then the eldest , which was a ” shit show ” and then I developed ” Bipolar ” , and with no support , nor intervention , 5 years into that toxic induction into the dank shadow , having hooked up with his twin , he left .

” I love you , but I’m not in love with you “, he walked away from our 3 children and me , never looking back,

Things got worse , and always he has had this connection with his sisters , his Mom deceased , his control, fading , his health is poor, and he keeps adding nails to his coffin, by perpetuating his hatred , his lies, projecting still it was all my fault.

He has poisoned so many folks against me and I have felt their hatred , and spite for decades..

It’s like he believes , he married down, from his level.. I sense I married out of my species .

With the abuse and alienation of our children and grandchildren, continuing, Divine has stepped in.. I sense he’s already feeling the ” side effects” of his actions , and there’s no intervention this time.

The cycle of control and dominance are over.. He can align himself with any one, anytime, on any level. 3 strikes and he’s out .

Pray our children wake , it’s totally up to them, however, I am moving on.. Grateful for having protection from the multi faceted cult that has prayed for my very death .

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Communication with a Narcissist

After recent business conversations , including meetings , I have decided no contact is a must …

TO US, LANGUAGE IS A TOOL OF COMMUNICATION….to a narc, language is a tool of deception, abuse, manipulation, and control. That’s why you have to listen carefully and decode what a narc says. (He or She)

Annie Kaszina says: “Narcissists win you with their – lying, falsely loving – words and then destroy you with their – abusive – words.

That doesn’t happen by chance. They are master manipulators. Whether they are academically bright or educationally challenged, they use language, quite deliberately, to make you fear and obey them.

Often they say that they are not good with language. They use that and other similar ploys because they know how easy it is to dupe you.

They know that you will be slow to believe who they truly are – not least because you don’t want to believe that people like that not only exist but share your home and your bed.

You have to listen to What a Narcissist says and get confident about translating it correctly so that you discern their true agenda.

Whatever they say to you is only ever about safeguarding their best interests at your expense.

When did you realize what the narcissist was saying was manipulation?

For me, the light bulb first went on when I saw the Narcissist planning what he would say to the couples’ counselor… and what a fabulous victim story that was.”

Narcissist & Food Control

Whew this was so factual per my experience that I knew I had received a gift.

I was very thin when we met and married and pregnant 3 months later .

I gained weight and was always hungry . In this marriage I had a much better diet, access to food and I gained 60 lbs , loosing 30 within 3 days of childbirth .

It did begin a serious issue that wasn’t discussed , as he stated later on , that he would have sex more often IF I lost weight .

I had little respect , for his continued using sex , with me as a sleeping elixir , and his extremely loud snoring precluded my sleep. I wasn’t desirous of sex with him .

Back to the eating … he loved food and I think we both had childhood food issues.. . But he defiantly wasn’t interested in me with weight on , which psychiatrist RX authenticated , as my weight increased , a red flag , in many ways .

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How to prepare for a new job as a highly sensitive person

I tested close to 100% and it was Super Hyper Sensitive. I believe the numbers here are not high enough , as vaccines , stress, trauma etc create a sensitivity that’s being diagnosed, horrifically , and medicated as a DSM , ” something else”

APA doing much harm.

Learn practical tips and strategies for starting a new job as a highly sensitive person (HSP) and dealing with anxiety in a new environment. Manage stress, build confidence, and thrive in your new role. Discover expert tips here!
— Read on www.welcometothejungle.com/en/articles/tips-for-a-highly-sensitive-person-starting-a-new-job