“Who as a parent wants to sit in class? It’s embarrassing.”
— Read on www.theblaze.com/news/2016/05/02/middle-school-reduces-bad-behavior-dramatically-with-reverse-suspensions-that-invite-parents-to-school-when-students-misbehave
Tag: consciousness
Raising overcomers: How to teach your kids to do hard things – Motherly
Incoroperative Biased Elitist Critic Won Long Before I arrived
I was allowed to participate in a family , that I reproduce
and surrogate his children, who defer to the path projected
as safe and true .
Land Minds trigger and trip that belief , and finally it’s
truth in disclosure that releases old contracts that were
not reality based ..lack of authentic self has been
reconciled as shadow was highlighted by 💡
I haven’t taught any of my children to ride a bike. Not one of the four.I’ve helped, for sure. I’ve held on to the seat and steadied them while they will their bodies to balance and their feet to push the pedals, but my husband has always been the one to let go of the seat and enable their independe…
— Read on www.mother.ly/child/raising-overcomers-how-to-teach-your-kids-to-do-hard-things
My Spiritual Breakthrough Was Ignored in lieu of my induced Breakdown 1989
Thank you So Much for honoring the truths of many
including myself..
beyondmeds.com/2019/01/06/the-imaginary-line-between-spiritual-emergence-and-psychosis/
Speaking to Spirit, as a #3 , knowing “soul family” 2019 , Completes Adverse Abuse Cycles . No longer fractured or separate 😍😘
The connectedness Of Rose has mystical truths 👁
Totally get this , Failure to Receive Allowed me to Save Myself
Beloveds are bonuses, often triggered by my
work, experience, efforts , and stepping out
is necessary to do their own reclamation.
The one who meets me half way, sets intentions
and knows his worth , and honors mine
walking and talking truths , being the light
and love..Seeing as I do the god within
until it’s clear , I idle my affections in
patience and prayer, allowing all in Divine
timing .
The shadow well, is not a well I need drink from
or go with anyone who must dwell there ,
in total acceptance of the long way around
, I honor the quest of beloved and continue
mine 😍😘🙏🏼
Universe is saying We Got This : I Can See For Miles
Joyfully, I surrender to the full acceptance
of my mystical, old soul stuff that has been
allowed to develop in positive and negative,
shadow and light , and ever evolves , for
which I am blessed beyond measure.
I see for many; my actual eyes are those of Dad,
Minnie Zola , Aunt Faye , Uncle Joe that I can
think of .. Middle son favors my family side
Harper favors him …Trials and tribulations have
been unveiling themselves , winding down
fake news , or no news to often perceived
or envisioned realities , enough signs from
all manner of ancestral and earth bound folks
that create such peace and belief , that we are
bound for glory in this life on this planet , for
that is why we are here..And we are getting ‘er
done ✔️. This has been a long time coming
folks , all is with us..
Look for the helpers , ala Mr Rodgers , and see
the many shades and hues , in reconnecting
with Mother Earth , surrender to rise beyond
a limited life ; rise to be united in truth, light,
true liberty , and justice/balance , and respect for
the laws of the universe . Cosmic love ❤️
has transformed so many and populated a “force”of
nature , that naturalizes positive , and neutralizes
negative , that we better meet in the middle ,
internally as well as externally .
For each of those so willing to exit , and return
to better assist , Thank You! I am one of you.
Visions are mine , in my mystical inheritance
ever more so…All is well with my soul and I
urge this reunion for each soul waiting to
receive . Reunite , safely with your fragmented
parts , not damaged, not mentally ill, but trauma
which was and still is an epidemic , at this
time being thwarted by light, by fact . Many
have , as well as I , and offer our ” cliff notes”
that more ease , and organic the quest,
it is revealed by just being . I am dedicated
to joy and benevolence as I spend these dormant
months in service, to self …thus you who wish
to receive .. even 1, ONE, fills my cup ♥️🙏🏼😘
👁 I can see for miles , The Who
Totally enjoying this mystic meditation …magic carpets , Aladdin’s totally ☮️❤️👁
Trauma Exposure Linked to PTSD in 911 Dispatchers | Psychology Today
Many folks are exposed to trauma, and it’s accepted
as ” normal” , or anything but what it is , and for the
sake of all concerned this is worthy of transforming
ASAP .
Emergency dispatchers are often exposed to duty-related trauma.
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201709/trauma-exposure-linked-ptsd-in-911-dispatchers
J.A. Wheeler , Celebrating the birth and life of Dad😘❤️
My ” mom/dad” , nurturing Dad , James , who exited
in January 2012, and whose birthing day was January
5 th , 1930. I was born Feb 29 , 1952, his desire for a son
first time child with Mom, Joyce . Mom had a daughter
who was born on Feb 29th 1948, whom was 1 year
old at the time of their marriage March 4 th 1949
In 1951, Mom was rejected by OB as being in labor
and spontaneously delivered Joyce Marie in 1951,
who had died and begun signs of decomposing
Dad explained . Blisters on her body , which is
buried , unmarked in the ancestral church grave
yard ..
I was born in 52, and I’m sure Mom had C-PTSD
and my inability to nurse ,regrettably created
more grief and shame . I had to be returned to the
hospital , severely dehydrated , 5 days after birth.
Dad explained that Mom’s had been unable to
nurture me, and if he had not nurtured me
no one else would have .
I was very happy to have the awareness that he
was slipping away , slowly and we talked of
heart matters and cleared so much , that lacked
only his being made aware , as I did from child
hood on. One pop from his belt , left one mark
and I stood up to him at that time , aged 4/5
and he never ever used physical violence
against me.
He may not have understood me , always but
he wasn’t vicious , or silently withdrawn , we
cleared our stuff and moved onward , never
brought up again.
His last years , were of lifting from a depression
of Mom’s exit in 1999. His restricted life was
a form of self protection , and withdrawal from
family members he came to be reunited with
his last years..The last 5 1/2 months , were high
low and everything between, until his finale .
The growth , the healing, the love as well
as undeniable realities , will lend themselves
to my efforts in transformation , as I witnessed
denial of dignity , and much adverse action
that’s is barbaric . I grasp that it was after-all his
his journey , and I was but a part of it.
The dynamics allowed me to understand my
” caregiving ” was and is instinctive , and
more on mark than not , and the Divinity
and Light of my essence was always tested
in a family , that’s fractured traumatic parts
are denied , and that allowed my poor choices
and failures to escape the mindset of energy
of compliance to abuse in male dominate
examples, ie ” former” ..
I’m not the ” fixer” , it’s not my job , but the
experience of being with Dad as he exited
watching his awareness of spirit guides
and his acceptance , as I witnessed his ” labor”
in returning to the womb of the great mother
my joy was absolute for I knew he would return
as he has in spirit. Our circle , will not be
broken, and he will present in another form,
as he pledged to me , and I to him , as “family
soul mates ” , I His ” Mom, and emotional partner
who grasped his deepest joy and pain, as it
came up in loudness, or harshness or anger ,
his lack of understanding , helplessness
and yes his failings and unhealed trauma ..
We nurtured each other , and it wasn’t grasped
in a dynamic of not communication basic life
issues , and silently approved of disenchantments
and divisions within families .
With Dad’s exit , I stepped away from ” family”
withholders, and abuses that defy what my
perception of family is..
Certainly many ” triggered” acts that related to
” formers” disposal/abuses as if from a play book,
and finally much can be put to rights .
And that gift 🎁, from Dad to me, was not to give
up.. truth and light did , and still do cast away
shadows ; James (supplementor) Abner( Father Of
Light) Wheeler ( wheelwright) was transforming
and transformed from moral suffering , very passionate
and attached , who missed his Mom, Minnie
and felt Mom’s presence and essence until
he exited. Time stopped for him with her passing
as I witnessed in preparing their home for
organization , and ease in preparing , finding
treasures along the way , sharing with him
then siblings ..
Challenges were many , but I know, that he
knows I did my best; he lets me know👍🏼🤓♥️
So missing his actual voice , or physical
presence is tempered by his freedom from
the constraints and trauma and torture of
our current transformation , towards heaven
on earth , I fully expected to be reunited with
Dad , and Mom, on a cosmic level for a reunion
of joy , and bliss that will include many souls
gone before me ..
Happy Birthday Daddy
Love Always & Forever
Punkin’
