Teen Girls Are Killed By a Current or Ex Partner More Often Than We Think – Teen Vogue

A culture of suicide , does not recognize this as

a problem.

Sadly abuse has been normalized , even in deaths

I experienced this in former, his family , friends

then children , totally detached , non emotional

unless seeking info, or angry .. 1 hasn’t bothered

for 2 years ..

as if intent on my physical death …is this trauma?

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Find out what a new study found about teen dating violence death, and why it’s a problem that needs to be taken seriously.
— Read on www.teenvogue.com/story/teen-girls-are-killed-by-a-current-or-ex-partner-more-often-than-we-think

This Artist with Synesthesia Sees Colors in Music and Paints Your Favorite Songs – Broadly

This is pretty cool !

Melissa McCracken grew up with a neurological condition that means she processes songs as colors—a gift that translates into paintings inspired by her favorite musicians.
— Read on broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/gyxq73/melissa-mccracken-synesthesia-painter-interview

Ex-priest who got teen pregnant can keep job as middle school teacher

#Brotherhood

Former Father Joseph DeShan, a 22-year employee of the Cinnaminson School District, was accused of “conduct unbecoming of a staff member” by the district in December after parents requested that their children be removed from his classroom, according to the April 2 ruling.
— Read on nypost.com/2019/05/03/ex-priest-who-got-teen-pregnant-can-keep-job-as-middle-school-teacher/

Parential Alienation /Child Abuse = A Continuation Of Domestic Abuse , Has a Name

The proposed diagnosis or constructs of “parental alienation” and “estrangement” from the PAS self-proclaimed “experts” give justification for this decision, as Dr. Craig Childress explains in this series of videos…
Watch “Gardner PAS Series” on YouTube
“This is exactly why Dr. Craig Childress has been saying we must have a paridgim shift away from these very poor constructs of “parental alienation” and “estrangement” and instead return to existing science that full explains this Cross-Generational Transmission of Attachment Trauma Pathology”
Bingo

WATCH: Video Shows What Mercury Does to a Brain Neuron in Just 20 Minutes

Vaccines & Dental

Alex Pietrowski – So what exactly does mercury do to healthy brain cells?
— Read on www.wakingtimes.com/2019/04/30/watch-video-shows-what-mercury-does-to-a-brain-neuron-in-just-20-minutes/

Attacks from a Narcissist Reveal Their Self Loathing

I sensed this, hugely, was not pretty directed at me ..

http://facesofnarcissism.com/2016/02/13/when-the-narcissist-attacks-you-he-reveals-how-he-sees-himself/

44/50 Million Families Adversely Affected By Abuses Of Family Court

I am not sure where I found this , so I can’t quote

44 million families affected .

So 44 million families have dealt with abuse in family Court. If it was just a simple as constitutional rights being honored I don’t think it would be affecting over 50 million people. 
How many millions of people have to be affected by this before people start understanding like it or not you have to learn a different way to communicate with a narcissist or an abuser. 
if you keep saying they’re never going to change and that’s what you focus on rather than coming up with a solution then you’re right it’s never going to change. as long as you keep telling yourself there’s nothing that can be done you’re exactly right then nothing will be done. 
How many people have effectively fought parental alienation in family Court and won without spending over $50,000? 
How many people are going to keep beating the same dead horse and just keep hoping for it to come back alive? 
if you want your situation to change you have no choice but to educate yourself.  Dr. Craig Childress gives great diagrams that explain things very simply.  Amy J L Baker breaks down the patterns and how to communicate. They help us to understand the problems and solutions. 
* Not personally supporting Amy J Baker .
neither of these to mention anything about litigating in court. They reveal how children are affected by the abusive parenting. 
It is our job as the parents to educate ourself on narcissisticbehaviors, how to communicate with a narcissist not how to communicate with an average person, it is our job to make sure that we put in writing to our attorneys what the problems are in our case and what the solutions are. Millions of people are finally starting to understand that attorneys  are not like other professionals. if a doctor or a mechanic did what an attorney did they wouldn’t have a job. 
Educate your attorney, because apparently an eight-year degree is not enough for adequate representation. Don’t let your attorney bully you they work for you not the other way around. if they want to pretend like they don’t know how to solve this problem or that they don’t experience this problem then make it their problem. 
You first have to do self-care. This is not about arguing that you shouldn’t have to it’s about you do have to if you want your children back. You have to get yourself in therapy and find out different ways of coping with trauma if you ignore it it’s still there it doesn’t go away. Secondly, you have to educate yourself. Third you have to practice it starts with you. You have to reveal and come up with effective resolutions. lastly you have to find a way to enforce Conflict Management training between the two parties if that means you need to teach your own attorney then do it. 
if you do not fight for your children

The Cry Behind Narcissist: Anger is their force ..

Words were not always necessary, and yes I felt

the control , anger , never knowing when or where.

Did I know ?

Cutting a cord off of TV 📺 to insure he could sleep.

Marriage was a cover. I was nothing more than a prop

he still has his Original Perfect Partner , 40 plus years

2 very depleted souls left in his wake, devastated in all

ways .

It’s thus hard , to feel empathy ,given the gravity

of what’s been done..Destroying truths , connections

with children/grandchildren , and all for power – control

fear , that it was easier.

Financially , it’s a superpower for a narcissist …Falling from

grace is part of this surrender thus transformation .

Here are some early signs a Narcissist displays:
The stare: there are several videos on YouTube, when you first meet them they have this intense stare that makes you very uncomfortable because of its piecing and invasive nature.
Inability to respond to any criticism of themselves in a normal way
Temper tantrums: episodes of rage that sometimes don’t even feel like they’re actually seeded in real anger, it’s a show of anger and yelling to manipulate you and condition you not to question them ever again.
*Silent treatment: this is their favorite weapon. You will get the silent treatment for prolonged periods of time over something really small and trivial.
*Lack of conflict resolution: no problem will ever get resolved they simply have you going in circles and actually blame you for all the drama.
*Strong hatred for others: they generally don’t even like their own family and friends and they always compete with others close to them in financial status or career, etc. They have really sour relationships with their family and friends.
*They’re happy at failures of those around them and upset about the successes of others, including your own achievements and anything that makes you happy, they can’t stand it.
*You will see them turn on people constantly, you will see them “discard” others, you will see them talk trash about their own family and friends constantly, people who they’re supposed to be loyal to mean nothing to them.
* You will be put up on a pedestal and they’ll see you as “perfect” and they’ll see themselves as perfect and they idealize love and your perfect relationship. Then when reality hits that this is not a fairy tail, you will see their true colors as they have a hard time living in reality.”
Less than 3 months , after I do , pregnant, and excited
the only emotion he expressed was surprise , and betrayal .
I was a single mom to be , and did my best to be in his world
but not of it .

Crying, Raging and Stuck there for infinity ..

www.youtube.com/watch

MASONIC CHILD ABUSE BY DESIGN | pcfpc.org

Can we get this done Universally, YES .

I have never read of this , it’s lodged in my gut …

It smacks if truths , especially the psychiatry.

as well as the law

and the visceral fear , hatred and continuation .

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

A BLUEPRINT ON HOW IT WORKS The main way that high level initiates of Freemasonry can have a long running supply of children for sexual abuse is by infiltrating Child Care Centres, Government-run Children’s Homes and Boys Clubs.
— Read on pcfpc.org/2014/06/masonic-child-abuse-by-design/