‘Want to reduce mental illness? Address trauma. Want to save the world? Address trauma.’ by Laura K Kerr PhD — Recovery Stories

Currently writing books , based on deep work on issues

close to our soul needs , Laura Kerr, PhD has been a light

for me , for many years ..

“Want to reduce mental illness? Address trauma. Want to save the world? Address trauma.’ by Laura K Kerr PhD — Recovery Stories
— Read on www.recoverystories.info/want-to-reduce-mental-illness-address-trauma-want-to-save-the-world-address-trauma-by-laura-k-kerr-phd/

When Holidays Stir Longing Rather Than Cheer

Note this was published in 2013, on Dec 17 2013…

Totally covers possibilities of triggers , trauma

great expectations etc of holidaze ….

When Holidays Stir Longing Rather Than Cheer • SJS
— Read on www.socialjusticesolutions.org/2013/12/17/holidays-stir-longing-rather-cheer/

Writing – Laura K. Kerr, PhD

I have followed and emailed back and forth Laura

who is extremely wise and very through in

all of her efforts .

Writing – Laura K. Kerr, PhD
— Read on www.laurakkerr.com/writing/

2 Kinds of Lonely Feelings and How to Cope With Them | Dr. Jonice Webb

I’ll be posting more of these type post , my on my own

is to honor the spiritual aspects of holidays and how

masked far too many Christmases were .. I’m in awe

of the authentic joy , and sacred soul experience

that has resulted in transforming and healing .

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna ,

🤶🏼🎅🏼✌️🎄🌈🥰🥳

Research shows that loneliness is rampant in today’s world. If you feel it too often, it may help to understand where it comes from. Then you can address it!
— Read on drjonicewebb.com/2-kinds-of-lonely-feelings-and-how-to-cope-with-them/

The winter solstice begins a season of storytelling and ceremony | Smithsonian Voices | National Museum of the American Indian | Smithsonian

In the Northern Hemisphere, the December solstice is the year’s day of least sunlight, when the sun takes its lowest, shortest path across the sky. North of the Arctic Circle, it is the midpoint of the period of darkness, when even twilight doesn’t reach the horizon. We asked a few of our Native friends to share traditions they’ve heard about the winter solstice. Their answers highlight winter as a time for storytelling.
— Read on www.smithsonianmag.com/blogs/national-museum-american-indian/2017/12/20/american-indian-winter-solstice/

F*ck Minimalism. F*ck Modern. Give me Joyously Cluttered, Antique, Upcycled, Repurposed. | elephant journal

In my many moves , lots of paperwork has been involved

as I move an office and a house it has been arduous, costly

and draining ..At some point I can burn these legal papers

and research , as years of documents are saved can be utilized

and deleted ..

I am not spartan , I enjoy my things , but certainly can downsize

or replace things , I’m not invested in . My home feels like home

and usually takes 18 months or longer to settle into.

Thus I always have projects .. The homes I have rented

require attention , challenges that slow me down or impede

forward movement and are totally avoidable .

It’s repetitive, and closing/clearing , very similar to the shaky

ground of past …

I give things to folks and don’t hold tight to many things .

Having had the experience of 2 or 3 adults , go through my

things and decide what to keep , and what to allow me .

Including our sons ….

I believe in abundance , sharing as much as possible , receiving

support and blessings from many sources , as I surrendered

to my life purpose …I AM HOME 🏠🌈🌝☮️🎁🎅🏼🤶🏼❤️🎄 ©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Every 2 year moves , mainly for reasons of personal health

and safety

I am not a minimalist. I don’t value empty rooms. I don’t like clutter, either. I like a cozy, spacious, bright, cheerful home. I do not care for the modern fad
— Read on www.elephantjournal.com/2019/09/fck-modern-in-defense-of-antique/

Smile by Judy Garland

Far from gloom and doom , I find my heart smiles

these days growing and expanding in peace and

harmony with as much as possible.

Awareness of deep pain, or covert mask has been

augmented , and thus in the healing process.

Awareness of shadow , and abilities to transform it

returning to comfort in heart , and mind , still contends

with body .. tweaking my diet plus clearing past

travesties of justice for sons and I , a few confidants

whom I treasure , as I’m on my own..I am in awe

and grateful beyond measure .

Smiles that greet me , hug my soul as I am received in

welcome … home…I am where I need and want to be

with great expectations of experiencing cheeks that ache

from smiling …eyes that are like waterfalls with tears

of release , equal to smiles …an ocean of tears

and fears/anger transformed , transmuted to love , and in

that peace ☮️..authentic smiles are cellular

All is well with my soul 🥰✊

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Smile by Judy Garland

www.youtube.com/watch

Drum Circles Put Pharmaceutical Antidepressants TO SHAME

I adore our local drum circle , and agree its joy filled

the energy produced is awesome .. it’s a highly spiritual

and profoundly moving happening …

Totally recommend trying it .

Totally recommend gifting small children drums as well.

©️

🎼

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Drum Circles Put Pharmaceutical Antidepressants TO SHAME
— Read on www.greenmedinfo.health/blog/group-drumming-better-prozac-study-suggests

Drummers Littler Drummer Boy .
https://youtu.be/fPcA4bQjWFw

Our local drummers , just a slice of how beautiful they are and what a gift 🎁

they are to our community .

Why do I like Drumming?

Observe your mind right

now. What do you notice? Is it sitting still? Is it a very skinny marathon gerbil with a sweatband and long beard in a fast moving wheel longing for stillness? Did you just try to picture that, lol? Me too, I’ll admit…..

.…..When I sit in front of my djembe, it is a tool for me, through its potential expressions, and what I actually create, to notice my present state of being. It’s like a metaphysical mirror for my being, reflecting to me, who I am at that moment. My thoughts, my beliefs, emotions, etc…

..… Now imagine with me,that you spent an hour holding your attention on just three sounds a djembe can create: the bass, tone, and slap. Perhaps you might feel rested and energized strangely, having let that gerbil take a break from its endless running. And when you hold your attention on something so direct and simple (my students would laugh at that statement), the rest of your being begins to still……

This is an excerpt from a blog post you can find the rest of here: http://www.facebook.com/HoloRhythm, or here:

http://www.HoloRhythm.org.

This Saturday, September 28th we have the last drum circle of the season at Riverstone Organic Farm (708 Thompson RD SE, Floyd, VA). Join us for this joyous occasion starting around 7 pm. You can also join us at The Junebug Center (251 Parkway Ln S, Floyd VA) every Monday 5:45 pm. All details can be found on our facebook or website. See you all soon!

This was posted by Cave Man on his Facebook site .. I do not have permission to post pictures that are his ..

Look him up …

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Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

Lacking Empathy – video of testing for Narcissist Personality Disorder

Lack of Empathy
“Narcissists’ ability to respond emotionally and express appropriate care and concern is significantly impaired. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, narcissists lack empathy. They’re “unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others.” (APA, 2013) Research shows that they have structural abnormalities in brain regions associated with emotional empathy. (See “How to Tell if a Narcissist Loves You.”)
“They may claim they love you, but you must determine whether you feel loved by the way they treat you. Real love requires empathy, compassion, and deep knowledge of the one we care for. We show active concern for that person’s life and growth. We try to understand their experience and world view though it may differ from ours. If you haven’t experienced such genuine love or it was mixed with abuse, then you may not appreciate real love nor expect to be treated any better.”

Testing for NPD

www.youtube.com/watch

“The Cost Of Sanity, In This Society, Is A Certain Level Of Alienation”

This reality has come and gone , in my life, and I am very Thankful

to be aware, awake , and released from the matrix that swallows up

individuality and creativity ..

Spiritually in a desert , became extremely intense after motherhood

became impossible with shadow that rejoiced with my induced

addiction , plucking my bones until details could be cemented

as the living death of Alienation from all I was, knew , was removed

in a show of force that I’m never knowing when he will attempt

to execute his power..

Consider the pins and needles of a marriage to a person who has

no steadiness ,who erupts , in such revelation of sickness of soul

and fearing walking away .. with proof increased since my waking

the tricks , threats , lies have an air of desperation these last 2 years .

Imperative to clear old business, allow individual choices without

threat ,

#19992019Done🥳✍🏻🤶🏼🎅🏼

©️

DonaLuna

Blessings & Peace

The late psychonaut/philosopher Terence McKenna once said “The cost of sanity, in this society, is a certain level of alienation,” and I think my regular readers will immediately and experientially…
— Read on medium.com/@caityjohnstone/the-cost-of-sanity-in-this-society-is-a-certain-level-of-alienation-5ba3348b41ae