Psychiatric ” care” destroyed the bond , created an instability that deeply affected our children
They had no safe place
Tag: Narcissist
Males who ignore their partner
It’s an art form for the past partnerđŻ
Gates – Targeting Elderly, The Jab
Like our former prez , who stated he’d have folks around him who knew stuff ; Bill Gates should not be an authority in the medical world or vaccines.
As the announcement hit the news , over 60 were targeted . I had an appointment with an acupuncturist and upon entering the office , I was informed that I would not be receiving treatment .
Sharing the 60 age group made up most of the client list , keeping 5 or 6 foot between us , I was told I could not be seen !
I left there owning the feelings of discrimination, I stopped into a small organic store where my Practitioner was talking to another person with less than a foot between them .
I decided to obtain from ever contacting this professional again .
Gates is all about money and control and elimination of as many folks as possible
Word is that his children are not vaccinated and his wife made the smart choice to divorce before the facts enlighten the world about this narcissist.
Varied sibling characteristics- Gabor Mateâ
Self Love
I had to self love or buy that the distorted , malignant abuse was deserved .
I touched on his distorted mentality, but had no validation and then it was the chemical straightjacket of psychiatry that allowed him to blame me for everything and he to be the hero/ savior/ father /child who was never interested in partnership or growth as a couple or in parenting our 3 sons
He’s past due for the facts and an end to his every effort to control and destroy me , mentally , physically and most of all spiritually . I never ever sensed his connection to any higher power .
Self nurture , and self love were absolutely necessary in my varied efforts to survive !
Blessings & Peace
Dona Luna
“Do you love Me?” Alice asked.
“No, I don’t love you!” replied the White Rabbit.
Alice frowned and clasped her hands together as she did whenever she felt hurt.
“See?” replied the White Rabbit. “Now you’re going to start asking yourself what makes you so imperfect and what did you do wrong so that I can’t love you at least a little.
You know, that’s why I can’t love you. You will not always be loved Alice, there will be days when others will be tired and bored with life, will have their heads in the clouds, and will hurt you.
Because people are like that, they somehow always end up hurting each other’s feelings, whether through carelessness, misunderstanding, or conflicts with themselves.
If you don’t love yourself, at least a little, if you don’t create an armor of self-love and happiness around your heart, the feeble annoyances caused by others will become lethal and will destroy you.
The first time I saw you I made a pact with myself: ‘I will avoid loving you until you learn to love yourself.’ ”
– Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland
Depression stats are still high , despite all the â advanced treatments â
Between 1987 and 2007, the number of people receiving treatment for depression in the United States increased fourfold (and has continued to rise more gradually since). However, the prevalence of depression either stayed the sameâor may have even increasedâduring that time. Researchers call this the âtreatment-prevalence paradoxâ (TPP).
* Browse through a DSM for all the codes that allow billing to insurance and you’ll find every human emotion , every sickness , every disease and you can bet the pharmacy has an antidepressant for that particular issue .
No science. Read the facts of how efficiently testing is done or not.
Ready of the kin ship between FDA who usually rewards the best show , not the best product.
The horrific loss of life and families erased as mine was began in 1987 with the huge push to diagnosis bipolar which presented in varied ways .
Their eyes are wide shut about these side effects and society accepted , the law embraced the all knowing wizards of Pharma and suicide was normalized by many especially 80’s
Ignoring thus supporting abuse Knowing thus supporting the trauma .
For these reasons and more , having personally exited that matrix , I’m aware there are many like I was ; induced into a state of Ill health and toxic mind and endured 5 years of neglect , abandonment , having no interest in my life , before leaving for another 20 year period aligned with his twin .
Learning nothing , his shadow is depressive , and I’m eager to complete business and no contact ever .
Coming to and regaining , renewing my essence was hellish in many respects but invaluable to my healing process .
Blessings& Peace â¤ď¸âŽď¸
Dona Luna đ¸
Now, in a new study, researchers review the seven possible explanations for thisâand the evidence for and against each one. The study was led by Johan Ormel at the University of Groningen, The Netherlands, and published in Clinical Psychology Review.
Ormel and his co-authors explain:
âThe increased availability of effective treatments should shorten depressive episodes, reduce relapses, and curtail recurrences. Combined, these treatment advances unequivocally should result in lower point-prevalence estimates of depression. Have these reductions occurred? The empirical answer clearly is NO.â
Despite More Treatments for Depression, Prevalence Doesn’t DecreaseâWhy?
www.madinamerica.com/2022/10/treatment-depression-increased/
Abusive Ex : Tell Your Children The Truth
I begged him for decades
He expresses love for our sons but it’s noted they belong to him .
He ignored the health and emotional trauma that result .
He excels at that .
I wish him well , but know I must address this as has been his requirement. That expose this war of his , and his Mother is adversely affected .
Who knows ? He’s not a talker….
Childress on the Targeted Parent
Itâs all here ; the result of my diagnosis
by a psychiatrist Axis l was â problematic
marriage . That deserved a diagnosis of
Bipolar l , from an alumni of psychiatrist!
Of course he listed Histrionic Personality
which ignored the very apparent Domestic
Abuse ,the toxic to me RX began with
Lithium which being a metal ; Iâm allergic
to . Upon my complaints of horrid side
effects , a coated version of Lithium was
prescribed ! I was unaware and too ill
to research and did not have a partner who
was interested in anything but my abilityâs
to keep his house and his kids .
Ever feel your world is upside-down. I wanna talk about that.
I’ve decided I want to talk about you this Sunday. I was thinking I might want to tell you about your children. Empathy and all that, help you understand what’s going on. But I decided not yet.
I want to talk about you first, the targeted parent as everyone calls you, the chosen parent as Dorcy calls you. She’s right, the child is choosing you to lead the family, the other parent can’t do it, they’re collapsing.
You need support. We’re working on it⌠your world is a work in progress shall we say. Do things seem a little upside-down. Yeah, i know. That’s ’cause it is⌠upside-down. That’s true. You live in a crazy world of family stuff right now.
You’re called the targeted parent because you’re the target of spousal abuse – you’re being emotionally and psychologically abused by the other spouse and parent using the child as the weapon.
It is a savage and brutal form of spousal abuse, to use the child as the weapon. Sadistic? Dark Tetrad.
You know that. You live it. I know it too. I want to talk about that. This pathology is spousal abuse. Emotional spousal abuse, psychological spousal abuse, financial spousal abuse, using the child as the weapon of spousal revenge and retaliation.
Everyone says, “It’s not about you, it’s about the child” – no – it’s entirely about you – this is spousal abuse using the child as the weapon. That’s what’s at the driving core of everything⌠spousal abuse of you.
In weaponizing the child into the spousal abuse, the pathological parent creates such significant psychopathology in the child that it rises to a level of Child Psychological Abuse (DSM-5 V995.51).
But the reason is the weaponization of the child into the spousal abuse, the spousal emotional and psychological abuse is the driving core of everything (DSM-5 V995.82 Spouse or Partner Abuse, Psychological).
You know it’s true. You live it. I know it’s true too. I wanna talk about you being abused by this pathology, by the other parent weaponizing the child.
This is a savage and immensely brutal emotional and psychological spousal abuse of the targeted parent. You know that. I know that. I wanna talk about that. I want to talk about you, the targeted parent.
You’re a target⌠but you’re not a victim. Being a victim is in your mind, not in reality. You control you. Yeah, you’ve got a big target on you⌠so move faster and more skillfully than the pathology does. It’s pattern, it’s predictable.
The pathology seeks to destabilize you in every way possible – it tries to trigger you into your fears. Don’t trigger, plan ahead. Trauma is pattern, it replicates pattern.
You want a treatment plan, a written treatment plan to fix things. Hold onto that and don’t let go.
I wanna talk about you, not behind your back or anything, right to your face sort of⌠your virtual face in this-here cyber-world place thingy I love the Internet.
Sunday at 8:00 Pacific, let’s talk about you, the targeted parent over coffee. We’ll see if we can get things right-side up again. Crazy world, eh?
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologists, CA PSY 18857
Her Nightmare experience with psychiatry is sadly common .
As was mine and far too many people
I am new here. 3 years ago I was committed to a psychiatric hospital against my will and forced to take Risperdal and abused by a psychiatrist.
I had a physical illness which I now know is mold toxicity and mast cell activation syndrome (MCAS). Itâs not well known in the medical community but I was able to google my symptoms early in the illness and come up with MCAS. Not sure why they couldnât do that.
I was diagnosed as delusional, extremely mentally ill, with psychosis due to psychotic delusions all because they were too lazy to research my symptoms. I was treated like garbage and called a liar.
I couldnât eat because of pain and bad reactions to food and got down to 77 lbs and told the psychiatrist I needed to go to the medical hospital and get a feeding tube cuz I was starving to death and she demanded âYouâre not going anywhere. You just need to get up, walk down the hall, get your food and eat it.â I was in pain with several debilitating symptoms, could barely walk, had double vision and had just laid in the bed there for 10 days. My friend had to call my doctor to get me out of there.
Thereâs more but itâs too long. It was a nightmare. And now itâs on my FBI background check that I was involuntarily admitted to a psych hospital. Iâm doing everything I can to get justice but itâs not easy. Both hospitals and the medical board wonât do anything but I have several other places to report it to.
I am livid and believe I have PTSD because of what they did to me. They should be in jail!
Change
This property was depicted as my safe place after 4 very months of bouncing around after my COVID eviction.
Having given away most of my furniture, there were things there I could use and things that I helped facilitate giving away for owners.
It was never cleaned and sadly I found the tenet before me was the only child and with her son ( grandson ) had been evicted as well before me !!! Of course stories abound but I find it interesting and example this house which did rent to a man and repairs are being made as noted in this shot . New deck and new paint .
An offer was made to sell at $50 over what was paid and my research showed a reduction in value 10k what was paid by current owners/landlords . I did not find my self desperate enough to buy it at such a high price with such obvious and varied repairs , far greater that was we saw today .
Notices to move (30 days )were the result of my friendship with the only child to whom I was told not to talk to.
Many stories were created and embellished to create the belief that we the renters were to blame and deserved to be ” thrown out ”
Many times I asked ” Am I safe here , and was always reassured that I was .
The male tenet HAS a lease !
The views are magnificent but there is a negative vibe attached to this ” gated community ” where I began to feel I was watched and certainly was true of a repair guy who worked for them , and would just show up , parked in the yard , in the storage shed which he had lots of stuff as well as the owners who allowed that I would have space to store my things , rather than pay storage else where. I was not comfortable with the situation nor the ability of repairs . A washer was replaced with yard sale type 2nds due to a spring having gone bad which was missed by their examination and discovered by my 23 year old repair man !
A very harsh winter , time with no electric power after being told it NEVER happened ! And I was not checked in on by these folks in any way , shape or form .
It was discovered after I left end of July 2021 that dementia and pre existing mental illness ( life long secret ) gripped 1 of the 2 and I had to feel that I had dodged a bullet .
All in all … wasted time
wasted faith
wasted money
And the betrayal of home and heart that sadly has met its mark with an only child and their son .
It did however result in the acceptance of truths and healing for the child/grandchild
Photo credit
Laura B
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