Tag: erasing families

Touch Starvation – Associated with Narcissist

This was treated like it was normal. Romantic gestures , kisses , hugs , intimacy were not part of marriage . It was deadly to my spirit and my soul , yet I held faith that change would come ..I think I became fearful of what life would be like with 3 small sons .. I learned to pick my battles in an time when there was soooo much going on . Discovering I had been responsible for everything except his day to day work, was daunting …

My body spoke to me when I quit smoking , Xanax covered and smothered my symptoms , as my highly sensitive self became an addict quickly and overdosed which was seen as bipolar ..

Touch was just one weapon in the brutality of a man at war , and is in charge ..

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Apps to monitor communication between parents ? Charlie Mc Cready

There are several apps and platforms that family court lawyers may recommend to parents involved in custody battles to facilitate communication and monitor interactions related to their children. Features may include secure messaging, shared calendars, and document storage. The idea is to improve communication and reduce conflict after divorce or separation, especially in cases where there are disagreements over contact and custody. It’s supposed to include communication from grandparents and other family members, as well as parents and children, connecting all important information in one secure place. Abusive texts are monitored. It’s supposed to make life harder for the abusive parent, to check their tone, their language, or their lack of communication, but for many, a ‘tonemeter’ is an extra fee. The children have access, but there are safeguards in place so they can’t see communication between their parents. A Family Court Advisor undertaking a Section 7 report, or a mediator, or a childcare worker, can also have access. ⁠

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Some users may find the app to be helpful in facilitating communication and document sharing between co-parents, while others may have concerns about its cost and functionality. There are many complaints, with some people saying the software inverted who owes whom what. Others have said it’s near impossible to cancel renewals. Nobody answers phones. It’s generally said that the only reason anyone uses this software is because of court orders to do so. Most reviews seem to agree it’s all a waste of time and money. It’s a pity they’re not better. What do you think? ⁠

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The Challenge of Presenting Antidepressant Risks and Benefits – Mad In America

Two goals are in direct conflict for doctors around antidepressant prescriptions: fully informed consent versus maximizing placebo value.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/11/challenge-antidepressant-risks-benefits/

Read About New Reports on Bias Against Women

Nine out of 10 people in the world hold negative perceptions of women, researchers at the United Nations have found.
— Read on thestoryexchange.org/report-reveals-overwhelming-alarming-bias-against-women/

Antidepressant Withdrawal: A Clinician’s Middle View – Mad In America

The resistance to my ending my association with antidepressants was strong , but I did so . It takes much longer than stated to taper off and feel better for much is is involved , behaviorally and there was for me the trauma, the varied losses of my humanity and rights . My character was assassinated by ex and friends and family who were busy living their lives and trying to escape responsibilities and any association with mental illness .

It was a huge awakening that was quite unpleasant at times, horrific and very scary on my own.

Antidepressants are handed out like Pez candies with little thought to the many adverse reactions physically and trying to regain, rediscover just who you are under all that mind altering , soul snatching chemical straight jacket .Imagine all that as you are confirmed as misdiagnosed and all these RX were toxic to your body .

I present a middle ground on antidepressant withdrawal, where both sides are understood to have origins in wanting to help people.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/10/antidepressant-withdrawal-clinicians-middle-view/

What is Histrionic Personality Disorder?

Typical bull shit from a non scientific DSM , that targets the highly sensitive person.

I was given this tag , as I was evaluated in an emergency situation, after 2 weeks of taking Xanax , which I was unaware of doing . Xanax has born out the highly addictive ” side effects ” but all was ignored and labeled by a diagnostics ” Bible” concoction of physical , social, behavioral, and spiritual abuses that generates lots of revenue , and is a ” mental and often physical straight jacket ” .

I hear of this more often towards women , and believe it’s targeted towards women by the patriarchal mindset.

The smartest thing I did as I began to wake from the nightmare of induced mental illness was order 13 years of psychiatric files which confirmed the atrocities committed by a Dr, pledged to DO NO Harm .

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This Former Child Welfare Investigator Says Family Policing Must Be Abolished | Truthout

Alan J. Dettlaff once worked for Child Protective Services. What he saw made him realize the system should be abolished.
— Read on truthout.org/articles/this-former-child-welfare-investigator-says-family-policing-must-be-abolished/

The bond between Narcissists, their Mom and their sisters

How many ways , I noted this and every attempt to discuss this unholy bond was pacified, often with ” well as a Christian” …

The children began to divorce , the youngest 1st , after a time of dating , then the eldest , which was a ” shit show ” and then I developed ” Bipolar ” , and with no support , nor intervention , 5 years into that toxic induction into the dank shadow , having hooked up with his twin , he left .

” I love you , but I’m not in love with you “, he walked away from our 3 children and me , never looking back,

Things got worse , and always he has had this connection with his sisters , his Mom deceased , his control, fading , his health is poor, and he keeps adding nails to his coffin, by perpetuating his hatred , his lies, projecting still it was all my fault.

He has poisoned so many folks against me and I have felt their hatred , and spite for decades..

It’s like he believes , he married down, from his level.. I sense I married out of my species .

With the abuse and alienation of our children and grandchildren, continuing, Divine has stepped in.. I sense he’s already feeling the ” side effects” of his actions , and there’s no intervention this time.

The cycle of control and dominance are over.. He can align himself with any one, anytime, on any level. 3 strikes and he’s out .

Pray our children wake , it’s totally up to them, however, I am moving on.. Grateful for having protection from the multi faceted cult that has prayed for my very death .

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