The Lack of Gentle Platonic Touch in Men’s Lives is a Killer – The Good Men Project

I see it, I feel it, it resonates , please read 🦉🤓

Mark Greene explores how in American culture, men avoid all contact rather than risk even the hint of causing unwanted sexual touch.
— Read on goodmenproject.com/featured-content/megasahd-the-lack-of-gentle-platonic-touch-in-mens-lives-is-a-killer/

8 Reasons Why We Need Human Touch More Than Ever

Bereft of touch , in relationships has been a constant

in my life; a brother at age 14 months , and a Mom

whose life was suppressed .

Partner was not attuned, as many men utilized touch only

in prelude to sex, scant but that was it. Perhaps a pop on

the rear , more bro than lover 99% of the time.. Aversely

in bro mode beyond the restrain brothers showed in their

rage ..Cutting deeper because of our children, and lacking

morality and character added to not being touched.

I have heard the words of not enjoying touch from several

males, whom usually allow hugs in time..I even had a cheek

kiss..

Massage offered me what I needed as did my acupuncturist ,

but funds have been diverted to healthy foods , so I don’t

have spare monies.

I adore hugs , and am gratified to live in a community that

shares this vital life force.

Children so purely share touch as ours did, and it’s very

keenly noted and grieved when it’s no longer there .

7 years this month since I hugged 2 . 1 who openly

destains any physical contact was the most ardent hugger.

8 Reasons Why We Need Human Touch More Than Ever
— Read on blog.sivanaspirit.com/mf-gn-reasons-need-human-touch/

Shefali Tsabary Quotes (Author of The Conscious Parent)

Tape into your inner and outer child , all your children

in all those around you , by honoring their child.

Of course many have been lead astray in their quest

as did I , however this book like none other addressed my

core beliefs , and faced with repeated abuses , denials and

distracted detachment, our partnership never balanced

in raising balanced children, who I know strive for , and the

impact physically and spiritually.

So I speak out and up, and I nurture , I listen , I travel with

you in darkest dark because , I took that journey alone.

I don’t get it 100% , don’t have to be right, nor be the fool.

Once I cleared toxic medications out off my system

relocated and surrendered to the unraveling that would

tenderly heal me , in my mountain home.

And that gave a lot of souls permission , to begin liberation

from past generational karma and trauma and shame

which has no boundaries and is now exposed to heal

And transform each soul on earth .. Love is the way ..

This book is awesome !

59 quotes from Shefali Tsabary: ‘When you parent, it’s crucial you realize you aren’t raising a “mini me,” but a spirit throbbing with its own signature. For this reason, it’s important to separate who you are from who each of your children is. Children aren’t ours to possess or own in any way. When we know this in the depths of our soul, we tailor our raising of them to their needs, rather than molding them to fit our needs.’, ‘It’s no surprise we fail to tune into our children’s essence. How can we listen to them, when so many of us barely listen to ourselves? How can we feel their spirit and hear the beat of their heart if we can’t do this in our own life?’, and ‘to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority.’
— Read on www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/1055073.Shefali_Tsabary

“The biggest mistake I ever made was…going to see a psychiatrist” (Stevie Nicks) – Everything Matters: Beyond Meds

I know of what she speaks , a true Heroine 🦸‍♀️

from the archives) — I’ve read other articles about Stevie Nicks and her harrowing journey on and off Klonopin. She speaks vaguely in an article I read a long time ago of hiding out at her brothers for two years after the detox. That period I’m in now when many of us are very ill…
— Read on beyondmeds.com/2011/05/03/stevienicks/

3 Way. I have that thrust at me with any progress with 1Sun

I not linger utilize this type of music in my

self healing , their Divine message allowed

me to mourn , grief that shall always be with

me in soul codes , I share with many .

#SpiritKnowsNoGender.

It may resonate if a realization of a 3 rd presence

ignored , consumed a marriage and 4 souls

without consent . Stepping out of other’s karmic

shadow is huge.. What has taken you away is

Mountainous , and tools lacking, trauma and

a society of land mines , created the light to

guide us , despite the other’s shadow and or

resistance , we must rise in the creation of love

and service .

Tears were not availed today upon listening

as this song came up , so I am feeling I have

passed a test , and feel grateful for not even

knowing it was.. peace ☮️

Amos Lee’s Dresser Drawer is another release

song ..I had that experience , finding his things

within in mine, in his haste , to be rid of me.

Of course in my medicated state I was furious .

So happy to be past that , and more discerning .

#ThisLittleLightOfMine🙏🏼🎶

Amos Lee

Careless( Bluegrass Underground)

www.youtube.com/watch

Five Things to Never Say to an Alienated Child | Psychology Today

For your consideration..The expert of your child

is you, your connection, and comprehension.

I have said horrible stuff , I have heard horrible stuff..

My facts , my truth, is their right to know. How that’s

aligned within them and for them, is individual.

Five ways to avoid entrenching your child’s alienation from you
— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/caught-between-parents/201602/five-things-never-say-alienated-child

‘Discarded Wife’ Pegi Young Deserves Better

The HeMeMeMe , denial must end

Pegi Young, an activist and singer who founded a school for children with severe disabilities, is the latest woman to be written out of an obituary that focuses mostly on her husband.

— Read on jezebel.com/discarded-wife-pegi-young-deserves-better-1831528553

House Of Golden Dreams – Wishes/Seeds 2019 infinity 🥰

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! ❤ ❤ ❤

May you fall madly in love this year .. in love with someone who unhinges your tired trajectory, in love with a spouse of several years who might be aching for lightning, in love with demanding children and crazy relatives .. in love with the particular pedigree of genius insanity that has perhaps claimed you in spite of your reluctance .. and certainly in love with an animal, a cloud, a redwood, the wild .. these at least once a day. May you fall in love with this fragile jewel of a world, with hard work, real learning, just causes, petitioning and prayers. May you fall in love with wonder itself, with the grand mystery, with all that feeds you in order that you may live .. and with the responsibility that that confers. May you fall in love with heartbreak and seeing how it’s stitched into everything. May you fall in love with the natural order of things and with tears, tenderness and humility. May this be a magnificent year for you. May you fall deeply, madly, hopelessly, inextinguishably in love ❤

© Poetess (Rachelle Lamb)

Artwork: Jackie Morris (The House of Golden Dreams)